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So Ronito and Ghal, do either of you still hold any of the basic tenants of the religion? Or do you no longer follow or believe in any of its teachings? Also, Ghal, hope this isn't too personal but is it difficult with you no longer being part of the church but your wife and children still being members? The reason that I ask is that I haven't gone to church in about a year, yet my wife and daughter go every week. My in laws are pastors of the church and even though I love them, it is still difficult for me to attend the congregation because like with many evangelicals, there are certain ideas that I just disagree with.
 

ronito

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LovingSteam said:
So Ronito and Ghal, do either of you still hold any of the basic tenants of the religion? Or do you no longer follow or believe in any of its teachings? Also, Ghal, hope this isn't too personal but is it difficult with you no longer being part of the church but your wife and children still being members? The reason that I ask is that I haven't gone to church in about a year, yet my wife and daughter go every week. My in laws are pastors of the church and even though I love them, it is still difficult for me to attend the congregation because like with many evangelicals, there are certain ideas that I just disagree with.
I don't drink coffee, I don't drink, I don't do drugs, am very faithful to my wife and basically keep the commandments (except the damn swearing part). In essence I try to be a good person and treat others as they'd like to be treated.

But do I believe that Joseph Smith was 100% right? No. Do I believe everything that the prophet says is right? History proves it not so. Do I believe that the church could be a force good? Sure. Do I also believe that the church has done stuff that is wrong and harmful to its members and others? Sure.

Thing is being mormon and going to something other than that is more like a divorce than anything really. I mean it really is your whole life. Where I am right now is sorta in and sorta out (and it drives mormons crazy, they just yell "CONFORM!"). To be truthful the church is all I've ever known, I can't leave it behind so easily.
 
ronito said:
I don't drink coffee, I don't drink, I don't do drugs, am very faithful to my wife and basically keep the commandments (except the damn swearing part).

But do I believe that Joseph Smith was 100% right? No. Do I believe everything that the prophet says is right? History proves it not so. Do I believe that the church could be a force good? Sure.

Thing is being mormon and going to something other than that is more like a divorce than anything really. I mean it really is your whole life. Where I am right now is sorta in and sorta out. To be truthful the church is all I've ever known, I can't leave it behind so easily.

Definitely can appreciate that. Unfortunately in many evangelical circles (where I have spent my time the last 10 years) the Mormon Church is demonized constantly and placed in the same fold as Jim Jones Peoples Temple, Jehovah's Witnesses, etc. I can't imagine how difficult it was/is for you to separate yourself from what you have known all of your life. It was difficulty separating myself from the Jehovah's Witnesses where I only spent one year. If you ever have time or feel the desire to, I would be very interested to read what led you to begin separating yourself from the Church.
 

ronito

Member
LovingSteam said:
Definitely can appreciate that. Unfortunately in many evangelical circles (where I have spent my time the last 10 years) the Mormon Church is demonized constantly and placed in the same fold as Jim Jones Peoples Temple, Jehovah's Witnesses, etc. I can't imagine how difficult it was/is for you to separate yourself from what you have known all of your life. It was difficulty separating myself from the Jehovah's Witnesses where I only spent one year. If you ever have time or feel the desire to, I would be very interested to read what led you to begin separating yourself from the Church.
I'll PM you later. Cool?
 

GhaleonEB

Member
ronito said:
you're not alone. More and more when I see young people going through the temple the first time I always hear their elders saying something like "Now, make sure you don't freak out."

I'll admit I was seriously freaked out as well.

I've got several friends who refuse to go back. But hold temple recommends.
My mom said after that - given the look that was apparently on my face - she was proud of me for not bolting from the room. I generally have a hard time with religious ceremony and what I consider arbitrary symbolism. The Mormon church has it's share, but it's fairly toned down compared to many. Needless to say I wasn't thrilled with being stripped nearly naked and having some old guy I've never met poking his wet finger on me. I very, very nearly slapped him. :lol
LovingSteam said:
So Ronito and Ghal, do either of you still hold any of the basic tenants of the religion? Or do you no longer follow or believe in any of its teachings? Also, Ghal, hope this isn't too personal but is it difficult with you no longer being part of the church but your wife and children still being members? The reason that I ask is that I haven't gone to church in about a year, yet my wife and daughter go every week. My in laws are pastors of the church and even though I love them, it is still difficult for me to attend the congregation because like with many evangelicals, there are certain ideas that I just disagree with.
The tenants that I held before I joined: be a decent person.

I never smoked or drank alcohol before, and still don't. So that was never an issue.

And yeah, it's hard. I'm starting to make some cameos in sacrement meeting to help with the kids. It's been very, very hard on my wife.

One thing coming up: my daughter turns eight this year. She wants to be baptized, and I don't want her having anything to do with the church. I still have no idea what I'm going to do. :(
 
GhaleonEB said:
The tenants that I held before I joined: be a decent person.

I never smoked or drank alcohol before, and still don't. So that was never an issue.

And yeah, it's hard. I'm starting to make some cameos in sacrement meeting to help with the kids. It's been very, very hard on my wife.

One thing coming up: my daughter turns eight this year. She wants to be baptized, and I don't want her having anything to do with the church. I still have no idea what I'm going to do. :(

Yup. I understand. Do you and your wife discuss religion or is it too sensitive of a subject?
 
GhaleonEB said:
One thing coming up: my daughter turns eight this year. She wants to be baptized, and I don't want her having anything to do with the church. I still have no idea what I'm going to do. :(
Why have you been letting her go for 8 years then out of curiosity?
 
elrechazao said:
Why have you been letting her go for 8 years then out of curiosity?

I am not Ghal but I know for my own situation, I think for little kids church/sunday school/etc. are good. It's usually a place they make friends, hang out with their friends, learn how to play, and for the most part enjoy. Its when they get a little older (12-13) that it begins to turn into a responsibility as more is expected of them. Also, even though I don't go to Church I don't think its right for me to tell my wife to not bring our daughter.
 

Trurl

Banned
GhaleonEB said:
At the risk of a tangent, the temple ceremonies are the reason I'm at home right now and my wife and kids are at church. Really the writing was on the wall when I got my endowment before our wedding, as that was one of the most fucked up experiences I've ever had. It's when I started really questioning the church and what led directly to my eventually backing out completely.

Just an intensely strange, almost traumatizing experience that I refused to ever go through again.
Off hand, do you know of any accurate accounts or depictions of the endowment ceremony?
 
BenThereGamer said:
All religions begin as a cult. The popular ones today are just so old that no one remembers.
As pointed out earlier in the thread, the word 'cult' is just a semantic minefield. What does it really mean? As far as I can tell, it basically means "Any religion except the one I belong to and a few others I have a grudging respect for." . . . but that means it is complete subjective based on the religion & views of the person who made the statement.

Another meaning could be 'a religion that has not passed a certain size threshold'.

To some, the word cult is a synonym for religion.
 
speculawyer said:
As pointed out earlier in the thread, the word 'cult' is just a semantic minefield. What does it really mean? As far as I can tell, it basically means "Any religion except the one I belong to and a few others I have a grudging respect for." . . . but that means it is complete subjective based on the religion & views of the person who made the statement.

Another meaning could be 'a religion that has not passed a certain size threshold'.

To some, the word cult is a synonym for religion.

Well, I suppose one should differentiate when they use the word cult when referencing the beginnings of a religion and its current meaning of closed religious societies where the members are brainwashed into full dependence on the leadership of said religion.
 
GhaleonEB said:
At the risk of a tangent, the temple ceremonies are the reason I'm at home right now and my wife and kids are at church. Really the writing was on the wall when I got my endowment before our wedding, as that was one of the most fucked up experiences I've ever had. It's when I started really questioning the church and what led directly to my eventually backing out completely.

Just an intensely strange, almost traumatizing experience that I refused to ever go through again.
??

What is this? It sounds like some ceremony where they hand you your penis. Other participants look on and when they see a big one, they say "Yeah, now he is well endowed." :D

But seriously . . . any links to where I can learn more about this ceremony/ritual?
 
LovingSteam said:
Well, I suppose one should differentiate when they use the word cult when referencing the beginnings of a religion and its current meaning of closed religious societies where the members are brainwashed into full dependence on the leadership of said religion.
That's a good phrase to use that draws a sharp definition of a problematic religion. I would think that any true religion would really need to be universal and capable of standing on its own with no need for any religious leaders. Religious leaders are just humans subject to corruption, lust, distortion, etc.

If you are ever dependent on a religious leader, how do know if you are worshiping a deity or just following arbitrary rules promulgated by humans? Can any human actually really fully know without doubt what a god intends? I think not. If someone says otherwise, run away. Run away as fast as you can.
 
speculawyer said:
That's a good phrase to use that draws a sharp definition of a problematic religion. I would think that any true religion would really need to be universal and capable of standing on its own with no need for any religious leaders. Religious leaders are just humans subject to corruption, lust, distortion, etc.

If you are ever dependent on a religious leader, how do know if you are worshiping a deity or just following arbitrary rules promulgated by humans? Can any human actually really fully know without doubt what a god intends? I think not. If someone says otherwise, run away. Run away as fast as you can.

Yup. However, many times the individual/group will claim they are receiving inspired messages and since they are human, they might not be perfect but can be trusted. For instance, as many are familiar with, the Jehovah's Witness leadership has a history of making end time prophecies that never came to fruition. What they would say is it doesn't take away their claim of being the only body with direct access to God and his plan but rather the members were mistaken with their message. When they said the world was going to end in 1914, they didn't actually mean END as in be destroyed but rather it was the year that God sent down Satan into the world to reek havoc (the first year of WW1).
 

LCGeek

formerly sane
speculawyer said:
That's a good phrase to use that draws a sharp definition of a problematic religion. I would think that any true religion would really need to be universal and capable of standing on its own with no need for any religious leaders. Religious leaders are just humans subject to corruption, lust, distortion, etc.

If you are ever dependent on a religious leader, how do know if you are worshiping a deity or just following arbitrary rules promulgated by humans? Can any human actually really fully know without doubt what a god intends? I think not. If someone says otherwise, run away. Run away as fast as you can.

Gnostic Christianity is exactly that same for various other faiths.

Religion for the most part is nothing more than a social con to keep a lot of the masses in line. Until someone comes up with something better for the type that fall in easily the system will stay nature dictates that. Simple minds will be dominated by simple systems hence why you see esoteric religions now being brung back in to modern times as new age.

Any human saying what god intends defies scripture and various statements saying no human can ever truly understand or know gods wisdom, their philosophy not mine. Can't have a statement that supports your point but is defeated by the very aspects scripture said religious follow.
 

Hitokage

Setec Astronomer
Ok, one of the key problems about discussing mormon doctrine is that even though they describe it as consisting of eternal truths, in practice, determining what beliefs are accurate is like nailing jello to the wall. Many beliefs have been discarded, diminished, deemphasized, or are completely true but not widely discussed. "Modern day revelation" is frequently used as a Get Out Of Jail Free card, and even matters supposedly given to past leaders of the church through divine revelation are retconned as the leader "speaking as a man, not a prophet" even when they said otherwise. Ultimately, mormon doctrine is only what the current leader says it to be, nothing more. While it is perfectly reasonable to expect that new times require new instructions and that lessons might not have been properly understood the first time, the manner in which the church shifts even on something as supposedly sacred and eternal as temple endowments, it calls into question the integrity of the organization as a whole and the raison d'être of its theology.

ronito said:
It's really interesting I always used to get asked if I thought Mormonism was a cult and certainly it was, but not more so than any other religion.
There is absolutely a difference between Smith's church of early 19th century, Young's church of the late 19th century, and the increasingly corporate church of the 20th century, however it's not as if the church has necessarily become more virtuous over this time.

A cult is defined as taking up a lot of your personal time/thought, has a charismatic leader, has rites and ceremonies, or an exclusive group.

Well that's essentially all religions right there.
I heave never heard of "cult" being defined along a "lots of time" criterium before. Obviously whenever somebody says "cult", they describing a group in a negative sense, but beyond "hur all religion is evil" there should be a classification for groups like Scientology that imply a specific distinction between them and your local Lutheran church down the road. When you examine those kinds of groups, it invariably boils down to a matter of control. It's how matters of indoctrination or "brainwashing" come into play, with members unable to make decisions for themselves. Books have been written how this works, but it all boils down in terms of a con or deception. People are given a limited set of a groups beliefs, become sold on the group as a whole, then the rest of the beliefs like writing $10,000 checks to the estate of L. Ron Hubbard or killing one's parents come in. Because the new recruit is already sold on the group, they're more likely to accept this than if they were to consider it before joining. Such groups are usually organized with multiple levels so the more you invest in the group, the more is revealed.

Groups can believe weird things, but simply believing weird stuff doesn't necessarily make them bad. They could just be regarded as silly or irrelevant. If Scientology was entirely open about its activities, then people who sign up know exactly what they are getting into and it's their choice to make. However, that would mean that the individual was in control, not the group leadership.

CDProp said:
I'm not trying to defend the LDS church. Racism was rife, no doubt, just as it was elsewhere in the country in the early years. As Mormons constantly remind us, LDS leaders are not infallible. They're a product of their time, and they sin. I have no doubt that many of them considered black people to be an inferior race, although the official rationale for the ban really had nothing to do with that.

Still, I agree with the general criticism, that someone who claims to personally communicate with the Almighty should probably know better, as it would be quite easy for God to put a stop to all of the injustice brought on by racism through revelation. The fact that the LDS Church was allowed to continue on for over a century with such a huge moral blindspot puts a lot of doubts in my mind.
It's all too easy to resolve this issue by pinning it on the leaders and claiming that what they said was revelation actually wasn't, but it was still God who cursed people with dark skin multiple times in the Book of Mormon precisely because they were a bad sort.

ImperialConquest said:
Not quite.

It's another 'letter of the law' vs 'spirit of the law' situation.


Coffee andf Tea were banned as stimulants. They didn't know what 'caffeine' was, or they would have banned that. If coke and mountain dew were around then, they too would be banned.

Since coffee and tea were banned specifically by name, modern day mormons have their loophole.

So yeah, they can say it's a misunderstanding, but it's also not too hard to understand the spirit behind the ban.
Only none of what you said is actually in mormon scripture. What were banned were "hot drinks", and this is linked to coffee and tea in the official ban by interpretation. Caffeine is just a modern rationalization.


ronito said:
So to sorta sort out stuff between this and Maher:

Mormons believe Indians came from Middle East: True. However, their argument is that civilization was mostly wiped out (and it is in the Book of Mormon) so they'll make the argument of, of course there's no DNA they were destroyed. That and the section of civilization was so small and remote they just haven't found it 'yet".
That's what FAIR and FARMS would like to argue, but Joseph Smith unequivocally taught that all american natives were descendants of the people in the Book of Mormon.

Unless, of course, he was speaking as a man at the time.

Elohim born as a man There's a couplet that says "As man is God once was, as God is man can be." That's really about as far as official church doctrine goes. And even the last prophet Gordon B. Hinckley said on Larry King live that he "didn't know" if it was true.
No, he said "I don't know that we teach that." Then he went to General Conference and basically winked at his audience, saying he's perfectly aware of what is taught.


Polygamist Gods: It is true that to get into the celestial kingdom you must be married in the temple, the polygamist part of it has of course been removed. Mormons no longer believe that.
Not necessarily. Polygamy is something not to be practiced on Earth for the time being. Heaven is an entirely different matter.

CDProp said:
b) You're actually wrong about Mormon. They don't believe they are the only ones who can be saved. In fact, they are the most open religion at all because, while they consider themselves to have the Priesthood (just as the Catholics do), anyone can attain some level of heaven without it. Only a select few go to hell (outer darkness). Not only that, but there will be a period of 1000 years where everyone who have died without accepting the Priesthood and other ordinances which are necessary for the highest degree of heaven, will have an opportunity to do so.
In mormonism, those lower heavens are consolation prizes. The highest is all that matters and that anyone should ever be concerned about. Yes, the way it's all set up is technically universalist(sidenote: the Book of Mormon condemns universalism), but practically speaking the mormon church behaves under the assumption of fire and brimstone.

Oh, and actual universalists are far more open, as are hindus and buddhists.

c) As someone who was raised in the Roman Catholic church, I know for a fact that the Catholic Catechism teaches that salvation is only possible with a Catholic baptism. In my experience, Orthodox churches are far more restrictive about membership than the Roman Catholic church. Are you absolutely positive that Orthodox Catholics teach that anyone can be saved, no matter what their religion?
By the way, whenever I see "Orthodox" in the context of christian sects I think "Eastern Orthodox" so "Orthodox Catholics" sounds completely bizarre to me.

LovingSteam said:
Honestly, the Mormon faith fascinates me almost more so than any other religion. My undergrad was in Religious Studies and my Masters was in biblical studies so that may be a reason why. The Mormon faith (if we ignore Native Americans) is the first and only world religion that originated in the states. Also, unlike other sects from the 19th century Burned Over District (7th Day Adventism/Jehovah's Witnesses/Christadelphians/etc.) the LDS has a wide reach in focusing on the scholarly aspect of the religion. Scholarly in the aspect of studying the history, looking at the archeological evidence/or lack there of, etc. Then you add in the history of its earliest members, trekking from Illinois to Missouri, and finally to the founding of Salt Lake City? It is just an extremely interesting religion and history.
Absolutely, and trying to sort out fact from fiction adds to the fun.

speculawyer said:
So here is a stupid bizarre question . . . if the dark skin is viewed as a bad thing, do some Mormons actively avoid the sun to keep their skin light? Are there very few tanning salons in Utah?
There's getting a tan and going Kirk Lazarus.

speculawyer said:
What exactly are 'privileges she had in the Kingdom Hall'? Unless it is like a club where you get free drinks and massages, I don't think that is much of a loss.
To you or most other people, no, but one thing you must understand is that these sort of things are made important and have a bearing in their social and spiritual standing.
 

gerg

Member
ronito said:
Here's the thing they don't go out and think "I'll keep the letter of the law NOT the spirit!" They are honestly convinced that what they're doing is helping them. Their view is I can't say "Damnit!" so I'll say "Dang it!" or "Fetch" or something else. They don't stop and think letter vs. spirit they think by saying "fudge" instead of a swear word they're keeping the spirit of the law.

Oh, I have no doubt that many people do many things because they earnestly believe that what they're doing is right. That's why I used the word "sincerely" in my original post - I wanted to know how this belief can operate when there is an apparent contradiction.

(Similarly, the simple answer to the question about the repealing of gay rights is that people support it because they believe it's the right thing to do. Go figure.)

In any case, thanks for the answers ronito, bluemax and Thaedolus.

(Regarding the discussion about cults and religions, I think there is a very real and significant, non-semantic distinction between the two. There's a talk on ted.com by an ex-Moonie on the matter, which I found very interesting.)
 
Hitokage said:
To you or most other people, no, but one thing you must understand is that these sort of things are made important and have a bearing in their social and spiritual standing.
Hmmm. Denial of such things is a risky gambit then. If a person really still has their head & heart in the religion, such a punishment can be an effective tool to instill devotion.

But if someone is on the edge, such a move may end up backfiring . . . the person may view it as unjust, arbitrary, and man-made . . . not of god. Thus, the person may just think "Great . . . thanks . . . thanks for freeing me of that self-imprisonment.
 
gerg said:
(Regarding the discussion about cults and religions, I think there is a very real and significant, non-semantic distinction between the two. There's a talk on ted.com by an ex-Moonie on the matter, which I found very interesting.)
Oh there is definitely a difference for most people (those that see no difference are atheists that just view all religion as different varieties of superstition so why should some be viewed as 'better' than others.)

The problem is that there is no consistent agreed-upon definition of what a 'cult' is . . . it generally means different things to different people, so it is not a good word to use without defining your meaning of the word first.
 

Yamauchi

Banned
The replies by Mormons are hilarious. Every answer basically boils down to, "Yes, that seemingly insane theology is true, but..." :lol Reminds me of a discussion with some scientologists I had once.
 
Hitokage said:
ex mormon?

Yamauchi said:
The replies by Mormons are hilarious. Every answer basically boils down to, "Yes, that seemingly insane theology is true, but..." :lol Reminds me of a discussion with some scientologists I had once.

Hilarious? I think they've been quite polite and not crazy at all, and anyone criticizing their replies better be an atheist or I'm calling foul.
 
Yamauchi said:
The replies by Mormons are hilarious. Every answer basically boils down to, "Yes, that seemingly insane theology is true, but..." :lol Reminds me of a discussion with some scientologists I had once.
And here we go...
 
Thanks for the link OP, the program was a great watch, I want to see more, I think.

One of my friends is LDS and I have a strange relationship with her.

It's like I simultaneously respect her from keeping control of herself - no swearing, drinking alcohol, lewd behaviour etc but at the same time I feel like I want to shake her, get her drunk and wanting to see her let her hair down.

Her insistence on being a goody two-shoes is a little infuriating at times and I think that it's just a silly act - like its a bunch of silly rules that mean nothing and only act as a fake façade.

But also, she never shies away from being friendly with anyone, she is not fazed by anything, if someone's character and beliefs are in complete contradiction to her own she doesn't care about that. - you might expect that she would not want to associate with certain sorts, but she's totally cool and doesn't react like that and continues to be friendly with them.

She used to dislike me - for no particular reason ... well I made her cry once at work (not that I know what I said, or that I would want to make her cry - I would have shut up if I knew what had gotten to her).

I then found out much later - years that she had deliberately not been open about her religion because she thought that I would use it to ridicule her.

At first I was offended, I don't think I have ever gone out of my way to pick on someone and would hardly use something that I knew would be a delicate area to inflict massive damage.

Don't get me wrong I say stupid things at times and can be completely oblivious, but I have never been malicious like that so was confounded when it was ME that she was afraid of knowing her religion rather than a few others who I know would be the actual piss takers.

At that time I was a lot closer to her than before, I had moved jobs but had ended up working back with her (and most of my previous work buddies) following our office being closed and a recruitment drive at a company in the same line of business.

Also before I left the previous company, I had known her a few years and thought the blow up was dead and buried (I had forgotten it by then).

I took it upon myself to read up about LDS and at the same time got to know her better and that we shared similar interests in film and books - we both adore Jane Austen.

I went to hers for dinner once, (whilst her hubby was away) to watch films and I broached the subject aggressively but from the heart, like kinda - so you're LDS then? That's cool I'm interested etc.

We had a bit of a heart to heart and I confided in her some personal things that only a few people knew about me.

So we are (I hope and think) quite close, but apart from that one evening I haven't really talked much on the religious matters. Having said that, she is much more open with everyone else about her beliefs.

She still fascinates me though - in that I want to talk to her about her beliefs and religion.

Sometimes I want to start a heated argument with her just to see what she would say.

I don't know why I want to do that, I am intrigued by her being specifically LDS, because it is a little different to the usual catholic / protestant branches of Christianity. I was brought up catholic but I am pretty much agnostic btw.

Sometimes I think that she got me spot on and I am just going through the motions of what she had suspected, it's like something that I know would be wrong, but I can't avoid, moth to a flame type of thing.

Basically I am fascinated with her (how her mind works etc) and as much with her religion, I want to get closer to her to know more, but feel like I have something to prove to her (or myself).

I want to earn her full respect as much as I am tempted to prove her fears and pull her world apart.

What gives?

Not sure why I am posting this. I will probably regret it in the morning. Especially as my post is long, rambling, incoherent and purposeless.
 

CDProp

Member
Hitokage said:
That's what FAIR and FARMS would like to argue, but Joseph Smith unequivocally taught that all american natives were descendants of the people in the Book of Mormon.

Unless, of course, he was speaking as a man at the time.

It would be difficult to use the 'he was speaking as a man' excuse in this case, since God himself is quoted in the D&C as calling the local Native Americans 'Lamanites'.

Hitokage said:
In mormonism, those lower heavens are consolation prizes. The highest is all that matters and that anyone should ever be concerned about.

Didn't BY say that the Telestial Kingdom, the lowest, is so great that anyone here on Earth would kill themselves to get there?
 

ronito

Member
bluemax said:
I never took mine out but this site has a lot of information on the endowment:

http://www.lds-mormon.com/veilworker/endowment1.shtml

Someone else can verify how accurate it is.
This seems pretty even handed, however it doesn't really do it justice further it also details everything that used to be taught (blood oath, adam-god, etc) which to be fair most mormons don't know about.


Hito,
Right you are on all counts , but I do try to give the church large license in these cases. So yes, Publically the church says "I don't know if we teach that." to the public but in the halls of its churches it does continue, though for what it's worth I looked through the lesson manual (I used to be a EQ teacher) and didn't find anything on this doctrine, outside of one mention of "Eternal Progression".

It should be noted though that FARMS, at least, is a church sponsored organization. So it's as close as we're going to get. And yes Joseph Smith did say that all native americans came from there , but the church always has the "imperfect knowledge" card to play.

As for polygamy in heaven the church pretty much looks up and whistles at that. But it sorta has to otherwise it'd tie itself in even bigger knots with the whole widower and widow stuff.

tubgirlsplumber
You should know before you get too head over heels with this girl there's a good chance she wont allow herself to get too close to you if you're not mormon. If you really are interested in destroying her purity though do both her and you a favor and just stay away.
 
Forgot to ad, I was speaking with the President of Fuller Seminary a few years ago (Richard Mouw) about him attending the 200th birthday of Joseph Smith in Utah and I asked him a few questions about his involvement. In the end he said something surprising; he has friends who are high up in the LDS and according to them they are slowly going away from the focus of Smith and BY with regards to many of the doctrines that distinguishes the LDS from mainstream Protestantism. It is a slow process but supposedly a change is taking place. For those of you who were raised in the Church, have you seen this happening in the last decade?
 

Technoob

Banned
LovingSteam said:
Forgot to ad, I was speaking with the President of Fuller Seminary a few years ago (Richard Mouw) about him attending the 200th birthday of Joseph Smith in Utah and I asked him a few questions about his involvement. In the end he said something surprising; he has friends who are high up in the LDS and according to them they are slowly going away from the focus of Smith and BY with regards to many of the doctrines that distinguishes the LDS from mainstream Protestantism. It is a slow process but supposedly a change is taking place. For those of you who were raised in the Church, have you seen this happening in the last decade?
Considering that they've just released new manuals and instruction series (to be used church wide) specifically on the teachings of JS and BY, I think your source is pretty dubious. Mormonism wears its differences from mainstream protestantism as a badge of honor. Unless they completely jettison the Book of Mormon, which means jettisoning their entire religion, they will never meld into protestantism.
 

ronito

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LovingSteam said:
Forgot to ad, I was speaking with the President of Fuller Seminary a few years ago (Richard Mouw) about him attending the 200th birthday of Joseph Smith in Utah and I asked him a few questions about his involvement. In the end he said something surprising; he has friends who are high up in the LDS and according to them they are slowly going away from the focus of Smith and BY with regards to many of the doctrines that distinguishes the LDS from mainstream Protestantism. It is a slow process but supposedly a change is taking place. For those of you who were raised in the Church, have you seen this happening in the last decade?
this was certainly the case with Gordon B. Hinkley (the prior prophet) he kept trying to move the church more mainstream by doing things like I mentioned by saying "I don't know if we teach that." in public but as Hito pointed out it's still taught.

Ever since Monson became prophet the church has sorta retreated from this stance of ingratiating ourselves to the protestants though I will say a lot of the stuff that Joseph Smith and Brigham Young taught would be surprising to most mormons (Race, adam-god, the moon stuff, marriage and sex (BY said that if a man committed adultery once it was ok but after 10 times it was a problem). So the church needs to back itself away from these things as fast as possible a lot of people looking at this think "Ah, they're trying to become more protestant." when really in the day and age when things can be easily verified through the internet they can't continue to teach them.
 

Barrett2

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Since moving two months ago, my wife and I have been regularly attending our new ward. As I consider myself an atheist, its been very tedious sort-of going to church the last four years. But, as long as my wife keeps attending, im' basically stuck going with her. To my amazement, my new Ward seems very laid back. We haven't been contacted by a single person from the Bishopric, EQ, etc. Im' sure over time we will get roped into a more uncomfortable level of involvement, but so far its ok.

As others have mentioned, its annoying the LDS Church doesn't allow you to basically be an atheist/agnostic who for whatever reason just needs to show up each week, but nothing more. The "all in or all out" mentality really keeps the attendance down in most Wards, IMO.
 
Hitokage said:
Ok, one of the key problems about discussing mormon doctrine is that even though they describe it as consisting of eternal truths, in practice, determining what beliefs are accurate is like nailing jello to the wall. Many beliefs have been discarded, diminished, deemphasized, or are completely true but not widely discussed. "Modern day revelation" is frequently used as a Get Out Of Jail Free card, and even matters supposedly given to past leaders of the church through divine revelation are retconned as the leader "speaking as a man, not a prophet" even when they said otherwise. Ultimately, mormon doctrine is only what the current leader says it to be, nothing more. While it is perfectly reasonable to expect that new times require new instructions and that lessons might not have been properly understood the first time, the manner in which the church shifts even on something as supposedly sacred and eternal as temple endowments, it calls into question the integrity of the organization as a whole and the raison d'être of its theology.

I think this is true of every religion, though. Religion, unless you literally believe in higher beings appearing in physical form before people and preaching, is ultimately is the reflection of the deepest parts of the human unconscious projected into everyday life. And I don't say that in any reductive sense, but with the respect it deserves, recognizing that the deep unconscious is the realm of the sacred within the human psyche.

As human consciousness (and by reflection, unconsciousness) evolves, so of necessity must religious belief. Anything else is a dead religion, something fossilized and not vital. I can't think of any major world religion which hasn't undergone significant sea-changes throughout the ages, and I don't think that should be taken as a sign of falsehood, but rather of relevance and genuineness.



I heave never heard of "cult" being defined along a "lots of time" criterium before. Obviously whenever somebody says "cult", they describing a group in a negative sense, but beyond "hur all religion is evil" there should be a classification for groups like Scientology that imply a specific distinction between them and your local Lutheran church down the road. When you examine those kinds of groups, it invariably boils down to a matter of control. It's how matters of indoctrination or "brainwashing" come into play, with members unable to make decisions for themselves. Books have been written how this works, but it all boils down in terms of a con or deception. People are given a limited set of a groups beliefs, become sold on the group as a whole, then the rest of the beliefs like writing $10,000 checks to the estate of L. Ron Hubbard or killing one's parents come in. Because the new recruit is already sold on the group, they're more likely to accept this than if they were to consider it before joining. Such groups are usually organized with multiple levels so the more you invest in the group, the more is revealed.


This is exactly how it needs to be defined - whatever its origins, the term has become a pejorative in modern usage and clearly refers to a certain type of destructive fringe group. All religious communities exert control through guilt/shame mechanisms (like all communities, ultimately), but when personal autonomy is denied to an excessive degree, particularly through mental conditioning and not in a voluntary monastic setting, then a group has become a cult.
 

bigswords

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It's interesting to watch the documentary. So where do Asians stand in this religion? Are we cast off like the dark skin folk or are we a sub undecided race that steers the galactic federation...I mean celestial council..
 

ronito

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bigswords said:
It's interesting to watch the documentary. So where do Asians stand in this religion? Are we cast off like the dark skin folk or are we a sub undecided race that steers the galactic federation...I mean celestial council..
you know, now that I think about it , I don't know too many asian mormons interesting.

That being said, there's a very big ethnocentricity about the LDS church, mormons believe that america is the promised land and to put it into perspective remember that painting of Jesus holding the constitution that someone took and converted to Cthulu? The guy who painted that original was mormon and it's pretty much how mormons view it. The constitution was written with god's help and america is the best bar none. So while I don' t really know, I figure the ethnocentricity might turn some asians off.

To be fair though, since 1974 there are no real "second class" members by race.
 
ronito said:
you know, now that I think about it , I don't know too many asian mormons interesting.

Well, there are some. I had some Asian Mormon proselytize me while I let them wash my car for free. :D

That being said, there's a very big ethnocentricity about the LDS church, Mormons believe that America is the promised land and to put it into perspective remember that painting of Jesus holding the constitution that someone took and converted to Cthulu? The guy who painted that original was Mormon and it's pretty much how Mormons view it.
Putting Nationalism into the religion was probably a pretty smart idea as a way to help it catch on.

The constitution was written with god's help and America is the best bar none.

Seems kinda contradictory considering that the constitution explicitly states "there shall be no religious test for office." But then again, that was good for them considering that the LDS church/religion did not exist at the time the Constitution was written.

To be fair though, since 1974 there are no real "second class" members by race.
I've always found it to be ironic that all religions evolve over time (whether they admit it or not). That kinda detracts from any claim to having any ultimate truth. (Did the truth change too?)

But as I've posted in other threads . . . I am very thankful for this fact. I think we can all acknowledge that many if not most religions have been destructive/wrong/evil at some time during their history. And I find that this is one of the biggest problems with Islam (and fundamentalist Christian sects) . . . its claim that the Quran is a literal and final word of god. If you literally believe that, then it is very easy to justify terrible behavior if feel that behavior is consistent with your interpretation of the inerrant holy book.
 

bigswords

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ronito said:
you know, now that I think about it , I don't know too many asian mormons interesting.

That being said, there's a very big ethnocentricity about the LDS church, mormons believe that america is the promised land and to put it into perspective remember that painting of Jesus holding the constitution that someone took and converted to Cthulu? The guy who painted that original was mormon and it's pretty much how mormons view it. The constitution was written with god's help and america is the best bar none. So while I don' t really know, I figure the ethnocentricity might turn some asians off.

To be fair though, since 1974 there are no real "second class" members by race.

I see well at least I guess like speculawyer have already said, religions all evolve over time. But at least it's a good change. The documentary is very well done as well, learned quite from this.
 
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For those of you who are still curious about the temple ceremony, lds-temple.org has the most comprehensive collection of the various changes made to the temple ceremony over the years, the biggest change being from the first Kirtland ceremony to the one in Nauvoo, where all the Freemason stuff pops up...Joseph Smith was made a mason in the meantime, coincidentally I'm sure. This page even has audio recordings of three different versions smuggled out by some apostates. I can confirm the 2009 version, at least, is legit as it's what I heard/saw in 2005-2006. Just listening to the audio doesn't quite do it justice though, it's kind of a mindfuck in person. Had my entire family not been there the first time I went through I probably would have run out.
 

Hitokage

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CDProp said:
It would be difficult to use the 'he was speaking as a man' excuse in this case, since God himself is quoted in the D&C as calling the local Native Americans 'Lamanites'.
God is also quoted as saying David taking on multiple wives was a sin in the Book of Jacob, but then quoted later in D&C 132 as saying that same act at the same time was not a sin. He's a tricksy fellow, that one.

Didn't BY say that the Telestial Kingdom, the lowest, is so great that anyone here on Earth would kill themselves to get there?
Yet you should never, ever, ever commit suicide.

LiveFromKyoto said:
I think this is true of every religion, though. Religion, unless you literally believe in higher beings appearing in physical form before people and preaching, is ultimately is the reflection of the deepest parts of the human unconscious projected into everyday life. And I don't say that in any reductive sense, but with the respect it deserves, recognizing that the deep unconscious is the realm of the sacred within the human psyche.

As human consciousness (and by reflection, unconsciousness) evolves, so of necessity must religious belief. Anything else is a dead religion, something fossilized and not vital. I can't think of any major world religion which hasn't undergone significant sea-changes throughout the ages, and I don't think that should be taken as a sign of falsehood, but rather of relevance and genuineness.
The first reason I describe it as a problem is simply that it makes discussion a bit more difficult. One could talk about a certain aspect of mormon doctrine then somebody can come in saying, "hey we don't teach that!," and be correct in the present tense. The second reason is a little tricky to explain. Granted, one of the mormon church's central tenets is modern-day revelation and likes to say that God still speaks with his children. Indeed, they pride themselves on being a living religion. However, they also make a variety of claims and place a great deal of importance on those claims being factually accurate, because, after all, they are the one true church(this point is so important that they devote every first sunday of the month for members to get in front of the congregation to say how they know this). The mormon church doesn't just claim its doctrine is spiritual truth, it is also literal truth. If you put aside the various additions to scripture, mormonism is a largely fundamentalist form of christianity. It allows itself interpretation when it chooses, but where the Bible says that God struck down the Tower of Babel and diversified everyone's language, it isn't just literally true, but also an important plot point for the Book of Mormon.
 

Blackace

if you see me in a fight with a bear, don't help me fool, help the bear!
Yamauchi said:
The replies by Mormons are hilarious. Every answer basically boils down to, "Yes, that seemingly insane theology is true, but..." :lol Reminds me of a discussion with some scientologists I had once.

While I really don't feel their beliefs and think a lot of is tailor made on the whim of the church.. They have a lot of good teachings within their church. Any religion seems pretty silly if you try to rationalize all its teachings...
 

ronito

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Hitokage said:
The first reason I describe it as a problem is simply that it makes discussion a bit more difficult. One could talk about a certain aspect of mormon doctrine then somebody can come in saying, "hey we don't teach that!," and be correct in the present tense. The second reason is a little tricky to explain. Granted, one of the mormon church's central tenets is modern-day revelation and likes to say that God still speaks with his children. Indeed, they pride themselves on being a living religion. However, they also make a variety of claims and place a great deal of importance on those claims being factually accurate, because, after all, they are the one true church(this point is so important that they devote every first sunday of the month for members to get in front of the congregation to say how they know this). The mormon church doesn't just claim its doctrine is spiritual truth, it is also literal truth. If you put aside the various additions to scripture, mormonism is a largely fundamentalist form of christianity. It allows itself interpretation when it chooses, but where the Bible says that God struck down the Tower of Babel and diversified everyone's language, it isn't just literally true, but also an important plot point for the Book of Mormon.
And here's the main problem with it all I think.

Really I think the position is untenable for someone who actually goes out and challenges the church position, and which I guess is why I get the reactions that I do of "CONFORM!" I really think the church is at a crisis point. But maybe I'm over-reacting.
 
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