LookAtMeGo
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Its true. I tried for months and was like "fuck this" and erased my account.
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Its true. I tried for months and was like "fuck this" and erased my account.
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Haha, I know that feeling
Same with Tinder and all that crap. Not worth the investment :/Damnit.
trab pu kcip
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I wanna be done with the dating stuff too :< how did you do it?
Online dating has had such a weird evolution in my lifetime. It went from this odd nerdy kind of thing that was reserved for desperate loners to this super main-stream way to meet people and form real relationships.
Your example isn't one we'd have seen in 2002 ya know?
RobotNinjaHornets
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Is it possible to be done with it if you never really started? Because if so me too.
A Fish Aficionado
I am going to make it through this year if it kills me
I screwd it up with a girl way above my league who was into me, so I'm just trying to get over that.
trab pu kcip
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you guys must have written some terrible messages there or something. did you start off with a dick pic right away? o.oHaha, I know that feeling
He likes it when I make a little tent for him out of the curtains so he can be alone with the window.
b'aw :3
also the singer of texas is the reason and iron chic are playing on the same day in my area. what do I do? do I just kill myself?
as a divorced person with kidney failure this is encouraging
I once ended empty handed. Somebody passed me, because I was too passive...
And for last four months, no luck on any online dating sites. Tinder is total mess around here, because I live near Austria/Italy border and you get very national mixed results even with limited distance checked. But before I dive into any serious relationship, I need to sort this mess of life that I am living right now.
Halcyon
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I was still a virgin in 2002, and I tried yahoo personals to the shame of my friends and struck out violently back then.
It had a very weird stigma. "We met in an AOL chatroom for Cats" was like as pathetic as I could think back then.
I think I was in a good age range for online dating. Women seemed to be generally fairly accepting of my life experiences and I think as long as you can put together a few sentences you're already ahead.
I've always been short in my messages. There's a few people from here who I message regularly and they'll tell you exactly the same. It's not meant to be [overly] arrogant, but I can see how it comes across that way.
Are you saying there's other ways to start a conversation?
Dating's easy. Just put "famous successful game developer" in your profile and 75% of the time it works every time.
Yes, but I'll sympathy kill myself so you don't have to be the only one <3
JK I know it's not always easy
Yes, but I'll sympathy kill myself so you don't have to be the only one <3
If you're a ghost you can probably catch both shows at once I dunno know I'm not a ghost.
LookAtMeGo
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Not even. I'd actually read the profiles and comment about things I liked about what they had wrote in it. I even had this pic in it.
Maybe it looked like I was trying to hard or something lol.
Why? Lots of women are super into that.
A Fish Aficionado
I am going to make it through this year if it kills me
Oh boy.
It also sends douche vibes.
trab pu kcip
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uh-oh. well that explains it. I never answered dudes with pics like that.
LookAtMeGo
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It wasnt my profile picture. It was just in the profile. My other pictures were me on hikes and stuff.
You Know Nothing
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Max was never into you, Warren.
She was always into Chloe.
Yeah, that's an awful picture which would explain it.
LookAtMeGo
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Dammit! Lol
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If you're buff as fuck, keep it a mystery. Anyone can tell through a shirt of whatever other clothing that you're ripped. No need to throw it out before the first date.
edit: Hope my message didn't come across as an insult.
Halcyon
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It's a mixed bag. If you throw up a shirtless picture, women DO look quite a bit. I could get lots of attention if I did something similar, but it wasn't very quality attention.
My wife initiated our conversation on PoF because she was setting up a ton of dates and she said I looked confident and kinda douchey but she was tired of going on dates with really insecure dudes.
Her sister saw my picture and said something like "awe, don't go on a date with another one of those types". She said I was completely not how she was expecting when we first met.
My wife initiated our conversation on PoF because she was setting up a ton of dates and she said I looked confident and kinda douchey but she was tired of going on dates with really insecure dudes.
Her sister saw my picture and said something like "awe, don't go on a date with another one of those types". She said I was completely not how she was expecting when we first met.
A Fish Aficionado
I am going to make it through this year if it kills me
Kinda. "Chloe" was into me and I screwd it.
Yea, you gotta play to your audience.
LookAtMeGo
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Well i'll keep that in mind incase I ever find myself single again.
Halcyon
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Mirin dem shoulder gains bruh
RobotNinjaHornets
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Oh god that sucks
I guess you're more likely to see Iron Chic again? So Klahn? That's what I feel like I'd do, but then I might also think "BUT IRON CHIC" and go to that. Is there any way you can do both?
LookAtMeGo
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Ah well. If my dick was in that pic it would have been more effective maybe. 
trab pu kcip
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not that it looks bad or anything I hope you didn't misunderstand. but in an online profile it just seems kinda needy & douchy. also just like...only looking for sex (maybe you actually were but if you weren't then that pic's a weird signal to send)
but if you wrote really nice messages they should've noticed you're not like that...in my personal experience the pic always matched the impression tho, so women are kinda used to it I guess.
LookAtMeGo
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Nah, I was just looking for sex.
I had friends that did something similar with success, so I followed their example.
But like I said its not like that was my main profile pic. I had lots of nice ones of me out in nature and stuff, some at parties. That was just stuffed in there with the hopes that someone would want to fuck me.
I had friends that did something similar with success, so I followed their example.
But like I said its not like that was my main profile pic. I had lots of nice ones of me out in nature and stuff, some at parties. That was just stuffed in there with the hopes that someone would want to fuck me.
trab pu kcip
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I knew you would feel my pain.
not really
it's two different cities. but yeah..I also saw Iron Chic already once...but it was so awesome I wanna go again... rcrhbetjklgvfpdovkdfv *trab's broken*trab pu kcip
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Nah, I was just looking for sex.
I had friends that did aomething similar with success, so I followed their example.
ah okay...well then it maybe was the wrong site for that
LookAtMeGo
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Maybe. Tinder wasn't a thing then. It was also before phones had quality cameras.
Remember my inbox is as open as my legs. XOXONah, I was just looking for sex.
I had friends that did something similar with success, so I followed their example.
But like I said its not like that was my main profile pic. I had lots of nice ones of me out in nature and stuff, some at parties. That was just stuffed in there with the hopes that someone would want to fuck me.
LookAtMeGo
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Lol thanks. I can always count on you for a confidence boost.
I don't like all the match math stuff. Having some common interests is nice but it's very very very hard to break down attraction and compatibility into a science beyond just the basic stuff.
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