Applying for jobs is exhausting and soul-crushing

I remember when a friend told us his company set up a page where to create a user with login and password to upload the resume. They would filter out anyone using silly passwords, because for them this was their first test, that they took the job offer seriously. He compared that to going to the interview with unpolished shoes or drawing a stick figure when asked to draw a man in paper for the psychology test.

So they didnt even encrypt the passwords?
 
I had an interview last Thursday that went extremely well, and was told I'd have a go/no-go by Monday (yesterday). The wait is excruciating. Looking at Glassdoor, this company has a bad habit of not following up with applicants they decline. What is a good length of time for me to follow up with them to inquire?
 
I've been using it for the past 2 months and nothing.
I was just wondering about any success stories

Two months is unfortunately not very long - plus, listing somethings on Indeed results in hundreds of applications. Employers can take ages to get grouch all those resumes.

I also recommend finding places you want to work and monitoring them directly. There's also sites that do a better job of focusing on certain job types as opposed to litsing them all - angel list for tech / startups, idealist for social justice and non profit, etc. A lot of times, employers can only afford to list on a few, one or even no sites.

Linkedin I've found to work better than indeed.
 

Bubba T

Member
:) I love when the executive director of my internship invites me to an informal coffee outing just to tell me that I can use her as a reference :)

:) I love being told that I need to intern more to get a job :)

:) I love when internships are not qualified working experiences :)

I love working at retail :) :) :) :) :)

Who told you internships aren't qualified for work experience?
 

MC Safety

Member
I've been using it for the past 2 months and nothing.
I was just wondering about any success stories

Well, it's a job search engine. It lets you search for jobs and then apply for them. It doesn't guarantee you'll find work.

I've always found simplyhired, for example, to be a good resource. Linkedin is good, too.
Even Craigslist has its merits.
 

entremet

Member
Do Indeed or sites like Simplyhired even work?

Honestly?

It's a crapshoot like any job board.

Networking, getting in touch with recruiters, and recommendations from friends are much better options.

LinkedIn is pretty good in my experience. If you have a decent profile and in demand skills you will be contacted by recruiters.
 
Being the socially awkward fuck that I am, job interviews seemed liked one of the most terrifying things to me.

Thanks to this thread I've gotten not one but two job offers to work at hospitals as registered nurse. I am really grateful.
 

Kieli

Member
Being the socially awkward fuck that I am, job interviews seemed liked one of the most terrifying things to me.

Thanks to this thread I've gotten not one but two job offers to work at hospitals as registered nurse. I am really grateful.

How are you going to be a nurse if you're socially awkward?
 

Sylas

Member
Got the job I've been stressing about for a while now--and it's absolutely wonderful. I'm so goddamn happy to no longer have to stress about my next paycheck. Non-exempt FTE here I come!

As for what boards work best... I always had the most luck with Craigslist. Places like Indeed and Simplyhired troll through job postings and will post things that might not even be open anymore--like positions that were posted for posterity but were actually going to an internal candidate. Craigslist, at the very least, requires an active effort on someone's behalf so the position is currently open and they're looking. Plus, it immediately opens a line of communication between you and the prospective employer.
 

Kisaya

Member
Who told you internships aren't qualified for work experience?

I've had some classmates say that they've been told this from prospective employers, so it's an assumption I'm getting from sending out job applications.

I'm kinda frustrated getting responses for internships and nothing for paid work... at this point I've done six internships, seven if you include work that I did at my school's museum.

Also sick of retail not because of what it is, but that I'm actually pretty bad at it. I realized that I can never put in the extra mile that my bosses always want from me, just meeting my expectations. I don't have the mental energy to put in that sort of effort.
 

gwailo

Banned
He or she is probably being way too hard on themselves.

The fact that they got two offers means that they have some decent semblance of social decorum.

Also depending on the specifics of the role, RNs can be more like case workers. My wife is a nurse in a old folks home and the RN is the one who looks over the cases and decides what sorts of meds to give out, when they should go to the doctor, etc. So there is contact with people but it's not like working in the ER where it is dealing with dozens of people in a chaotic situation.

Also sick of retail not because of what it is, but that I'm actually pretty bad at it. I realized that I can never put in the extra mile that my bosses always want from me. I don't have the mental energy to put in that sort of effort.

As long as you show up on time and actually do your job, you're already doing way more than most retail workers, so don't let your bosses try to guilt trip you. Of course your bosses want you to "go the extra mile" because it improves their numbers. I worked retail for 10 years and it's not worth it to put in extra effort unless you plan on making it a career. And even then, unless you have a business degree, you're not likely to move past middle management anyway.
 

Nightbird

Member
I'm pushing out job applications on a almost daily basis right now, but I am still not successful.

From over 25 applications, only one has been positive, but I failed the employment test, so that one ended up being a negative too.


I'm kinda starting to lose hope :/
 
Do Indeed or sites like Simplyhired even work?

Indeed is great for city jobs depending on where you live.

Hell where I'm at city jobs are creme de la creme at the moment. If you're certified you can make more money being a stoplight technician without a degree than someone with a bachelor's.
 

-Silver-

Member
So I had a phone interview last week Monday and an assessment center on Friday. I got a rejection from the company I had a phone interview with with the typical 'There were other candidates that were better fit for the job requirement' feedback. However, a friend of mine, who I also told to apply there, passed the phone interview and had an actual interview today. Somehow I came up. Not by name, but because me and my friend went to the same University and only two people applied from that University. They told him the reason they rejected me was because they didn't think I was doing anything with my time and that I was a quiet person. I'm an introvert and I'm also not the best in social situations and knowing that this was one of the reasons why they didn't hire is killing me. I've had a few interviews before and what if this was the reason why no one wanted to hire me? How do I fix this? I can't just become an extrovert.
 

Antiwhippy

the holder of the trombone
So I had a phone interview last week Monday and an assessment center on Friday. I got a rejection from the company I had a phone interview with with the typical 'There were other candidates that were better fit for the job requirement' feedback. However, a friend of mine, who I also told to apply there, passed the phone interview and had an actual interview today. Somehow I came up. Not by name, but because me and my friend went to the same University and only two people applied from that University. They told him the reason they rejected me was because they didn't think I was doing anything with my time and that I was a quiet person. I'm an introvert and I'm also not the best in social situations and knowing that this was one of the reasons why they didn't hire is killing me. I've had a few interviews before and what if this was the reason why no one wanted to hire me? How do I fix this? I can't just become an extrovert.

Yeah, being an introvert that sucks to hear. My advice would be to research on the company beforehand and come up with a set of questions to ask them as the interview goes on just to fill the space.
 

Bubba T

Member
I've had some classmates say that they've been told this from prospective employers, so it's an assumption I'm getting from sending out job applications.

I'm kinda frustrated getting responses for internships and nothing for paid work... at this point I've done six internships, seven if you include work that I did at my school's museum.

Also sick of retail not because of what it is, but that I'm actually pretty bad at it. I realized that I can never put in the extra mile that my bosses always want from me, just meeting my expectations. I don't have the mental energy to put in that sort of effort.

What kind of fields are you and your classmates trying to work in?

I'm studying accounting and it's all about internships here. I can name about 10 people I know who have gotten jobs in accounting. I know some people who got in Finance companies via internships as well. Hell, the company sponsoring my scholarship has hired many interns. Internships not being relevant is just bizarre when heard by a business student.

Something else is up here. If you have six internships under your belt you "should" of gotten an offer by one of them now.
 

Kisaya

Member
As long as you show up on time and actually do your job, you're already doing way more than most retail workers, so don't let your bosses try to guilt trip you. Of course your bosses want you to "go the extra mile" because it improves their numbers. I worked retail for 10 years and it's not worth it to put in extra effort unless you plan on making it a career. And even then, unless you have a business degree, you're not likely to move past middle management anyway.

I just don't want to be let go if things start getting slow and they need to cut hours/people. It's happened to me once already and it really messed up my routine, and I fucking hate being disposable.

I worked at a high volume corporate store for three years and although it was more stressful, at least they weren't going tell me to leave. The more bodies they had the better despite the quality of work being done.

The shop I'm at now is a lot smaller, and there's less things to do, so its kinda like this game where you have to prove how you can be productive despite getting the routines done. My boss makes comments like "don't mind me hanging around, I just want to observe how you work" and just watches me. I really can't and don't care to prove anything to them.

What kind of fields are you and your classmates trying to work in?

I'm studying accounting and it's all about internships here. I can name about 10 people I know who have gotten jobs in accounting. I know some people who got in Finance companies via internships as well. Hell, the company sponsoring my scholarship has hired many interns. Internships not being relevant is just bizarre when heard by a business student.

Something else is up here. If you have six internships under your belt you "should" of gotten an offer by one of them now.

Non-Profit management/Art Administration, either working in museums or other cultural institutions. I graduated with a bachelors in Art History and Museum Professions, also an associates in Advertising and Marketing Communications because I had switched majors but still had enough credits for a degree. My classmates were in the same boat but some had a degree in Fashion PR/Management.

edit: I also it's probably the experience that I have that isn't valuable for the jobs I apply for. Most of my internships have been in Digital Marketing and Communications at cultural institutions, but I probably need more of a background in Development/Fundraising, which means even more interning -___- I also just moved from New York City to Chicago seven months ago, so I suspect that's another weakness I have as well.
 
Im so frustrated.

The job I applied for hired me and said I had a successful interview.

But because there are caps on the hiring list, I'm pretty much in limbo for the year until they do their next round of hires I guess. If I dont get put on the list by the year end, I have to apply again. This is killing me.

Im working another job, but this is the job I want. If I dont get this...Ill probably move overseas, but that thought is such a big step for me. On the other hand, I am young and want to see the world.

Other days, Im really depressed and hating my life and feeling like an old, inexperienced dude. I wish I instead went to grad school, but now even that feels like it's too late.
 

Coolluck

Member
How do I fix this? I can't just become an extrovert.

Like that party thread, you need to just fake it essentially. Social skills come easier to extroverts but you can learn them. Depending on the job you probably don't need to fake it for long if you just want to get by.
 

MC Safety

Member
However, a friend of mine, who I also told to apply there, passed the phone interview and had an actual interview today. Somehow I came up. Not by name, but because me and my friend went to the same University and only two people applied from that University. They told him the reason they rejected me was because they didn't think I was doing anything with my time and that I was a quiet person.


You'll find a lot of the application and job hunting process is subjective. If you feel it's valid criticism that you're quiet, you should look for jobs that limit interaction. There are plenty of be had.
 

gwailo

Banned
Like that party thread, you need to just fake it essentially. Social skills come easier to extroverts but you can learn them. Depending on the job you probably don't need to fake it for long if you just want to get by.

Pretty much this. I'm a pretty quiet person normally but learned to take it up a notch in interviews. Make sure to keep eye contact, have good posture, and don't fidget, pick your nails, etc.
 
How are you going to be a nurse if you're socially awkward?

He or she is probably being way too hard on themselves.

The fact that they got two offers means that they have some decent semblance of social decorum.

Yeah, quiet is a better word for me. But I am a good listener( which is probably the second most important thing about being a nurse, other than assessment skills) and can conduct myself in interviews, so I can get by.

But really I just wanted to thank you guys, lol.
 

Taxman

Member
I haven't had the time to look through this whole thread, but man, I feel exhausted and soul-crushed these days. I spent 6-7 years, depending on how you look at it, programming video games and slot machines for companies in LA and NYC, until I was suddenly laid off back in July. I don't want to try to get a job making video games anymore because all that seems to do is get me 1 year of employment and I don't like how I'm treated, and honestly I don't really love programming either. It's just something I took because I wanted the skills to be able to make my own video games. And if I had the money I would do just that, but I don't.

So I moved back to PA to be near my parents as they deal with difficult stuff right now, and I have discovered two things:
  1. There's almost zero companies that have any need for programmers here, in the third most populated area in PA, and the few that do want somebody with 7+ years of experience doing work with Oracle and databases and cloud shit. In other words, the side of programming I don't really know well.
  2. If I want to just get some other job that pays like 15 bucks an hour or something, I can't because they look at my resume and say "Something's weird about this guy... Why is he applying for this low-paying job when he was living in the NYC area making lots of money before? "
So now I'm without a job, my unemployment just ran out this week, and I haven't been employed for like 9 months now, which is another strike on my record here. I don't know what to do. I feel like I wasted my 20's doing this video game bullshit, since all it has left me is piles of student loans, experience that isn't worth shit outside of the gaming area, and no savings or anything to use to try perhaps to strike out on my own.

Just today, at the behest of an advisor, I went to this placement agency called Aerotek. I was told in no uncertain terms that they wouldn't be able to place me anywhere, not even at an entry level position working at an office or anything, and they weren't going to have anything in the future either. The guy was a fucking asshole, to be honest. But it seems that I can't even get a job where I can learn what I need to know.

I just don't know what to do anymore. Craiglist and Indeed are just swamped with nothing but entries wanting fucking commercial truck drivers or call center people with 2 years experience required. It doesn't help that since I haven't lived here in 10 years I don't even know what's around anymore. I feel like I've fallen into a pit of $10/hour temp agency warehouse picking and packing jobs that won't pay my bills and will slowly sink me into inescapable debt. A pit that ends with me killing myself after 8 months just to end the misery and boredom.
 

Muerte_X

Member
My interview went really well, I got called in for a second interview, and as I suspected, he had some knowledge of what went down at my previous job, so my honesty paid off, and we got a good feel for each others personality and as a result we both felt very comfortable with each other. Fast forward a bit and

I got an offer! pay is more than i expected too! on the downside, it's a bit less than my last job, but I'm not complaining. It was actually enough that I accepted it on the spot even though I do have another interview lined up. It would've been my first choice anyways, I was just worried that the pay was going to be significantly lower than what I wanted.

I'll go to the other interview out of curiosity, but I really don't think I'll change my mind. I do expect them to offer a bit more pay. It'll be a tough decision if they come through a lot more, but coming from my previous job, I can finally understand that sometimes a bit more money can not be worth it and I know I the one i accepted will be a great fit

This is such a relief too, one job i had in this field took 4 months from when I applied to when i started working, so I worried I might be working out of my field for little while.
 

mrklaw

MrArseFace
I know I should try and ignore blunt, faceless rejection emails, but sometimes it is really difficult to do when you get something like

We have reviewed your resume/CV and have decided to pursue other candidates who are more qualified for this position

when your CV/resume fits almost exactly with the job description they provided, using the same keywords throughout.
 
Just had my first job interview in 4 years and the gruesome wait for that telephone call to hear if you are hired or not is absolutely killing me.

One of the worst of all feelings. Like your life just hanging in limbo and you have no idea when its kickstart
 

LNBL

Member
Almost graduating from my marketing master, but I can't really seem to find that one job that really speaks to me.

Has anyone had experience with applying at a company where there are no job positions? So sending in your CV and an open motivation letter.

Was it successfull and do you have any tips?
 
Soooo, i´ve been working free lance through a different company that got me the job, at my current company for a little over a year now. When i got there my job description was, install windows + necessary software on pcs and notebooks, go to user who has an old pc, do backup and change the old one with the new one. Plus some other hardware stuff, like changing new monitors, keyboards, headsets etc.

Now i do, in addition to that, on-site support. If someone has a problem, and it can´t be done through remote desktop, i go. This point is important to me.

But the commute is starting to legit piss me off (over an hour each direction, in rush hour and public transport that´s overfilled). So today i asked my 2 teamleaders, after talking about extending my contract for another 3 months, if it wouldn´t be neat, if we could make this a permanent thing. (because i want to move closer, so i don´t waste my fucking life every day). They´re for it, they gonna talk to the IT-boss about it.

Now my question, how, and how much of a raise should i ask for? I ask, because i do more than when i started. My original employer would be cut out from taking a fee from my pay that my current employer pays him, so they save money too. And instead of getting pay 12 times a year, and the first 30k are currently tax free for me as a free lance, so i only pay insurance, healthcare right now, i´d get pay 14 times a year and would have to pay ~ 2000k in addition in income tax.

If i would work full time right now, i´d make 20k after taxes (26 before tax). If i were to work as a regular employee, i´d need a 2k raise for the year (28 before tax) to not make less.

Can i get away with that?lol Never was in a position to ask for a raise, so this is a first for me. Usually would just get another job, but i like it there.
 
Starting university in September, moving out in a month and need way more contracted hours than I have right now just to live until uni starts. I've lost count of how many jobs I've applied for in the past couple of months and I have only heard from one. Just so tiring.

Not only that, my current job told me I would be getting more contracted hours as someone was leaving and then when he left I was told I was getting nothing. And then they put his hours up on Indeed. What's a boy to do, eh?
 
I'm pushing out job applications on a almost daily basis right now, but I am still not successful.

From over 25 applications, only one has been positive, but I failed the employment test, so that one ended up being a negative too.


I'm kinda starting to lose hope :/
25 is nothing, not even the end of the beginning. Keep at it, I looked for a couple of years for a position (my situation is pretty unique).

Put your head down and get to work, you'll make a connection and bingo, you'll have a gig
 

Not

Banned
Tell me about it. Zero responses day after day is pretty disheartening. Can't wait for the day when people are contacting ME on a regular basis.
 

LNBL

Member
what are you thoughts about LinkedIn? good place to find a job? easier to find or to be found?

You can get Linkedin Premium for 30 free days, just connect it to paypal and cancel the subscription before the month ends to avoid having to pay. That said it makes it easier to im certain people on the platform, but also gives some insights on other people applying.


While quickly scrolling through Linkedin Jobs i was certain I saw the NeoGAF logo, looks hardly like it on a more detailed inspection.
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mhayes86

Member
  1. There's almost zero companies that have any need for programmers here, in the third most populated area in PA, and the few that do want somebody with 7+ years of experience doing work with Oracle and databases and cloud shit. In other words, the side of programming I don't really know well.

I understand that you just moved to PA to be closer to your folks, but what about looking into companies around the MD/DC/VA area? It's kind of an engineering hotspot, and programmers/developers are in high demand.

You have experience programming games, so you may not have too much difficulty picking up other languages. Entry level positions could still pay fairly well, and some may offer training.
 

OG Kush

Member
For people who are losing hope have you tried changing your approach? It never hurts to get advice from people, see what you may be doing wrong and try different approaches. Different styles of cover letters, different interview techniques,maybe your CV/resume needs a change of layout. etc. Do mock interview, go to careers workshops.
 
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