LegendofJoe
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Kids can be pretty vicious. From the age of about 14 to 16 I was a real piece of shit myself. I grew out of it thankfully, a lot of people don't though.
I'm over six foot tall with long hair and dress my way instead of normal and most group of kids feel they can shout abuse at me.I'm used to it since it's happened all my life and they are just kids BUT it's also annoying since they can get away with saying/doing anything but if I did retaliate I would be in the wrong.
AND THEY ALL KNOW THAT-so I get where the op is coming from.I never say or do anything because I figure that's what they want.Something to enliven a dull day.
Anyone who says he's overreacting has never had a lot of crap shouted at them by kids.
Or they've come to terms with the fact that thats just how kids are and have moved on. Yes, it doesn't feel great being laughed at, no one's going to deny that. But these are KIDS. If they find something funny, they're going to laugh. Suck it up and continue on with your day. I can understand if its someone whose never dealt with kids before or if this was the first time its ever happened, but OP has specified that it happens quite often. Gotta thicken your skin a bit or the day when an adult starts laughing at you shit's really going to hit the fan.Anyone who says he's overreacting has never had a lot of crap shouted at them by kids.
Apparently I was too stupid to remember the word "projection." That was exactly the sentiment I wanted to get across earlier and could not for the life of me come up with the word."Malicious intent"
They're kids giggling. What do you think they are laughing at you about? There's so much projection in this thread, it's incredible.
I can handle myself pretty well but such kids make me feel like a total loser because you can't just flip the bird at them.
Define your way for me. A fig leaf?
Anyway watch out for those kids, I was out with some of my friends once, and one friend thinks he's a hard man despite not really being a hardman. And anyway we were walking in two groups, so I was with this girl and we were walking up the street, and passed a group of youths (age about 13-15) anyway, we get past them no worries, as I'm not a confrontational guy on the street.
Anyway so they pass us, but my friend who thinks he's hard man, and our other friend who eggs him on I guess, they must of shoulder barged these kids or some such, and I turn around, and he's getting his ass kicked by a bunch of 14 year olds, like a few punches to the face. All those kids were on speed and coke I reckon, cos they were making zero sense when I turned around to see what's up.
But you can't really fight back against a bunch of 14 year old jackals on speed, you just gottah fend them off lol. Thankfully I think some of the bouncers in the nearby club bailed my friend out or at least deescalated the situation. Man that shit was so funny. There was talk of me not getting involved, and I'm like, "dude they are 14 year olds, I'm not going to beat on a 14 year old as part of supposed Friday night fun"
Fucking hysterical at the time though.
One of the worst things is when they are on bikes, and theres like a whole bunch of them closing you in on their bikes lol. The trick is to show absolutely no fear.
Oh god, and sometimes they will try to talk to you to see if you can handle some shit, in which case you must engage your verbal tap dancing skills.
I'm a master of getting out of dodgy situations, so I think it's just whether you're going to piss your pants or not personally.
I got tips for handling black people on the street if you are scared of black people too.
I got tips for handling black people on the street if you are scared of black people too.
Kids can be shits obviously. I'm probably a little too mature (yeah, that's the label I'm gonna use) to be beefing with kids. But there's a line. Thinking back to the rare occasions I have been triggered and one was some racist slurs thrown at a friend (as we were actually walking into his flat) and the other, more recent, was some prick knocking into my baby's pram and he didn't even have an apology in him.
Think it's only a matter of time until I get a kicking!
If kids are being racist you tell them to shut the fuck up. That's pretty simple.
Jesus christ, how did I miss that post. wtf...Bless us
I got tips for handling black people on the street if you are scared of black people too.
They are just kids...and you probably did the same thing when you were a child.
I got tips for handling black people on the street if you are scared of black people too.
Did he take the bike back?Good friend of mine came back from a 4 week vacation a few days ago and went to the gym in the evening. While he was training someone stole his bike.
The next day he was looking for the bike in the area and found a group of fours kids (12-14yo) who where in the middle of painting the bike black.
Took a lot of self control to not beat these fuckers up, according to him.
How will you deal with me? I must know
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Groups of school kids in London are the worst
How will you deal with me? I must know
I'd give you the business..👊
Well since so many of you guys are after my secret sauce, I suppose I could get into it.
I mean if you have that fear of a black man unconscious paranoia that is. But what I found is that all you need to do is lock eyes with said black man, I don't know if it's me but I also found a black guy will also look back at me upon my initiating eye lock. This may sound long winded but this all happens casually within a few seconds mind you.
Once you've established eye lock, all you simply need do is give them the head nod and a small smile and from what I've found, they will do the same thing. Acknowledging your fellow human beings out there in the world is appreciated and goes both ways.
I'd just make you a meal..I'd give you the business..👊
Who told him our nodding secrets!Well since so many of you guys are after my secret sauce, I suppose I could get into it.
I mean if you have that fear of a black man unconscious paranoia that is. But what I found is that all you need to do is lock eyes with said black man, I don't know if it's me but I also found a black guy will also look back at me upon my initiating eye lock. This may sound long winded but this all happens casually within a few seconds mind you.
Once you've established eye lock, all you simply need do is give them the head nod and a small smile and from what I've found, they will do the same thing. Acknowledging your fellow human beings out there in the world is appreciated and goes both ways.
So I just came back from a nice run in the woods and just before I got home I ran past a group of kids who were eyeballing me the entire time I was in sight (probably in the age range of 10-14). When I walked right past them they starting giggling with obvious malicious intent while keeping eye contact with me the entire time.
So I go for runs a couple of times a week and this actually happens quite often (them calling you names when you walk by or just laughing at you, as mentioned above). I usually ignore such things and keep on running but it gets my blood boiling.
For some reason when little kids get together in a group they form this evil psychopath hivemind kind of thing. I can handle myself pretty well but such kids make me feel like a total loser because you can't just flip the bird at them.
So is this a battle that can't be won or is there a perfect way to get back at such kids?
Well since so many of you guys are after my secret sauce, I suppose I could get into it.
I mean if you have that fear of a black man unconscious paranoia that is. But what I found is that all you need to do is lock eyes with said black man, I don't know if it's me but I also found a black guy will also look back at me upon my initiating eye lock. This may sound long winded but this all happens casually within a few seconds mind you.
Once you've established eye lock, all you simply need do is give them the head nod and a small smile and from what I've found, they will do the same thing. Acknowledging your fellow human beings out there in the world is appreciated and goes both ways.
Eh, if they are teenagers I'd say you can flip the bird at them and tell them to shut the fuck up and mind their own. I'd probably say something along the lines of, you really think it's cool to hang out in the park and fuck with people? Y'all a bunch of losers. Go smoke some weed or something.
Well since so many of you guys are after my secret sauce, I suppose I could get into it.
I mean if you have that fear of a black man unconscious paranoia that is. But what I found is that all you need to do is lock eyes with said black man, I don't know if it's me but I also found a black guy will also look back at me upon my initiating eye lock. This may sound long winded but this all happens casually within a few seconds mind you.
Once you've established eye lock, all you simply need do is give them the head nod and a small smile and from what I've found, they will do the same thing. Acknowledging your fellow human beings out there in the world is appreciated and goes both ways.