How often do you have sex with your partner?

How many times a week do you average bro?

  • Nil. Life is hell.

    Votes: 27 20.0%

  • 1-2 times a week

    Votes: 39 28.9%

  • 3-4 times a week

    Votes: 18 13.3%

  • 5+ times

    Votes: 12 8.9%

  • EVERY DAMN DAY BABY!

    Votes: 6 4.4%

  • I'm married, let's not even go there.

    Votes: 10 7.4%

  • More like 1, 2 times a month.

    Votes: 14 10.4%

  • Who needs sex?

    Votes: 9 6.7%
  • Total voters
    135
OP, bail out. if you are already having issues 2 years into the relationship then imagine how bad its gonna get 4-10 years in.

this isnt normal. shes likely cheating on you and getting her fix somewhere else.
 
Been together 10 years so it's really died.
Luckily she's an awesome woman in every way, a really supportive and loyal partner and my best friend.

We've spoken about the lack of sex (it's probably more on me than her) and she's given me the green light to fuck who I want so long as I keep it secret and never 'shame' her by bringing it home - we call it an Italian style relationship (which is appropriate I guess since I am part Italian).

I don't fuck around much though as I'd feel guilty if I did it too much but it's nice to have the option.
 
JimiNutz said:
Been together 10 years so it's really died.
Luckily she's an awesome woman in every way, a really supportive and loyal partner and my best friend.

We've spoken about the lack of sex (it's probably more on me than her) and she's given me the green light to fuck who I want so long as I keep it secret and never 'shame' her by bringing it home - we call it an Italian style relationship (which is appropriate I guess since I am part Italian).

I don't fuck around much though as I'd feel guilty if I did it too much but it's nice to have the option.
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And what about her? Is she also allowed to fuck who she wants?
 
Filthy Casual said:
And what about her? Is she also allowed to fuck who she wants?
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She said she doesn't want to fuck anyone but me.
I honestly wouldn't be cool with some other dude fucking her (if I knew about it) which is why I don't really fuck around myself.
Sometimes the urge strikes and I do fuck but it's a one and done kinda thing and she never finds out about it so no harm done. If she's doing the same then at least I don't know about it. I would def not be cool if I came home and some dude was fucking her.
 
highrider said:
None. Single by choice. I've done everything sexual I ever wanted to do with every type of girl. Have children. I rub one out every now and then because at 53 I still have a fairly high testosterone level so I get aggressive if I don't. The juice is no longer worth the squeeze, women are just another bill to me. It's the most liberating feeling to know you can refuse sex with ease, and it drives women absolutely nuts.
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the only type of men who can go MGTOW
 
I'm thankful to say that I have no want or need for sex. I'm what you could call a Triple Eunuch.:lollipop_grinning_sweat:


Prenatal exposure to Diethylstilbestrol caused me to be born with sexual differentiation in the form of genital cryptorchism and internal tumors, infertility, and neurological gender dysphoria. The severe gender dysphoria eventually led me to medical and surgical transition. Transition led me to never wanting to date or have a romantic relationship, which heightened my relationship with God. :)


"Not all men can accept this statement, but only those to whom it has been given. For there are eunuchs who were born that way from their mother's womb; and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men; and there are also eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. He who is able to accept this, let him accept it."
- Jesus Christ (Matthew 19:12)

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Alfen said:
the only type of men who can go MGTOW
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Yeah I heard about that but then most of the guys I see kind of selling that ideology I can't see them getting much attention from women. But I do honestly believe you will be more successful in your life by training yourself not to need women.
 
EverydayBeast said:
Pressure is on people to have sex with one another it's been known for a long time it's intended to make children, from an educated standpoint.
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lol dude wtf is up with your replies sometimes. is english your second language bc a lot of your posts just come off bizarre af. sorry for coming off so aggressive but my god man lol wtf is that reply? 🤣🤣🤣
 
Been together for 10 years and have 5 kids (2 adopted) so it can vary greatly depending on everyones scheduling. There are weeks my wife isnt home for 2 or 3 days for work but generally speaking about 2 or 3 times a week. Usually in the mornings after my workout when I'm getting out of the shower.
 
When I was married generally 4-5 times a week the first ten years, I'd say 2-3 times a week the last ten years, even when we were at each others' throats we both still wanted to fuck. Nowadays, shit haven't had sex since the divorce five years ago. Honestly don't miss it much.
 
Probably still everyday, however I am probably getting old, that sometimes I just want to lie next to that person a not get laid.

It's interesting to say that out loud.
 
Kagey K said:
Yeah I don't know if your relationship is right for you. You better think about it and either shit or get off the can.

At 2.5 years my gf and I were still doing it daily (usually more.) Once we had our first kid it started to be less frequent and after the second even less so.

Now almost 20 years later it's still a few time's a week but it's difficult because she doesn't look the way she used to and these kids seem to have a second sense about it.

As soon as we lock the door and get locked in good and proper (while trying to be quiet) they all come creeping and knocking at the door.

Either way if you aren't happy with the way your sex life is going now, you really aren't going to be happy when other complications come around.

Trust me it's only going to get harder, not easier.
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Get a bigger house
 
The more money you make , the more you work the less sex you have.
Add a kid to it even way less.

On the flip side she is working hard on herself to look better.
On the flip side she might do it to look good for someone else.

But if you are young dont have a 12 hour job babysitting clients you have no kids you are not married and have very little to no sex.....she is done with you.

Move on. Now its easy.


😂😂😂 oh yeah forgot to metion my mother in law is living with us on my wifes days off (she works nights at the hospital) so cant get any lower then this.
She has dementia and walks around randomly.
Next step is i will have to by my own groceries and cook my own meal.

I hit the jackpot😂😂😂😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭
 
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Mihos said:
Around 40-45 my drive went down and hers went way up.
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Stiflers Mom Stiflers Mom Get in here!

Actually, that's true. Divorced women in their 30-40's really put in some effort in my experience. If they are enjoying it there's no rush, unlike younger women who are going for the speedrun record.

Also they clean your apartment or cook you breakfast before they leave.
 
It's weird. My wife has a much lower sex drive than me (we usually do it 1-2 times per month) but this past week while on vacation she's wanted it every day.
 
before kids, multiple times a day. after kids, about once a week. now, it's been like 7 weeks (For a lot of different reasons)
 
Every two or three weeks, as the mood takes us.
We've been together 10 years as of this year, there are plenty of things we enjoy doing together just as much. We have a very 'what sounds fun right now' way of thinking.
 
Jtibh said:
Get a bigger house
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We are at the point it's only a few years now before they are both out, so upgrading now would seem pointless, we are already trying to figure out what we are going to do with the extra space.

It's a lot of house for 2 people, And I basically own the basement already.
 
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