GothPunk said:
I guess I'm just saying that online relationship are a minefield but sometimes they do work out, fantastically so.
It's probably a healthier place to be where you are now anyway; being happy by yourself is something that I think is very hard for some people to achieve. I've heard stories of people who came across the right guy when they were not really looking though.
Oh don't get me wrong mate, not saying they're bad or impossible to make work. You two (and many others in gaygaf) have managed to make ti work and made some amazing relationships. It's just not my cup of tea, I tried it, but I typically just end up losing interest when there's a lack of physical interaction. Don't doubt what you guys have, I've seen you two and how you treat each other, you've got it going on methinks.
Replicant said:
I have a gym friend like that. He's really into his gaming (looking forward to Assassin's Creed Revelations LAWL) and very ripped. He's straight though. :/
YES. Damn the straight guys lol. I've even tried looking over at gayganer to see if there are any fit guys, and there are some, but really not what I'm looking for, and again see the online thing. It's the same thing on Real Jock, lots of guys who fit what I want physically, but the gamers and nerds don't, and the ones that do are just unobtainable.
Ahaha, same here. Maybe it's the gym routine + boxing class sapping all of my energy but all I want after I finish work/gym is to prop my leg up the table, eat good food and play video games.
Haha exactly! I have actually never really been in this mindset before, so I'm kinda holding onto it. It feels great. I don't even think about men much, aside from the occasional wank (which has actually become very occasional). I mean gosh, there was a super hot guy nearly nude in the locker room tonight, and it didn't even phase me. I have other stuff to focus on.
dragonlife said:
Meh, back when I was chubby I used to utilize online relationships as my way of finding love. It's just not for me. As I said above, I need that physical aspect, and not just sex, just merely seeing the person more than once in a blue moon. Otherwise I lose interest.
red_13th said:
My boyfriend is 88kgs of Asian muscle, works 7 days a week, and cooks decently well.
He's more of a comic book nerd than a gamer, but he does get addicted to every online game I play (formerly WoW, currently League of Legends).
And he's a power bottom. Envy me! Mwahaha.
His only flaw is not watching football with me and saying that Aaron Rodgers is ugly
He's Asian, you can have him. Just kidding, I had to make a standard Asians and gays joke, promise I'm kidding.

In fact the one guy that's making me reconsider my stance on long distance relationships is half Chinese, he fits everything I want in physicality, personality, and mutual interests. He's buff, loves sports, outgoing, HUGE comic dork, has a wonderful job, is head over heels for me, and almost too sweet. He always jokes about how I am too good for him when quite frankly he would be someone I used to consider "out of my league".
We've had several phone conversations, and are thinking of meeting up. Maybe I'll bite, I don't know yet.
Marius_ said:
Most of Gaygaf is an otter
I know, where the hell are my fellow muscle cub/pups.
