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royalan said:
Oh - I agree with you. I also tend to avoid labels, which is why I asked. Until this guy made me think about it, I'd never really considered why I never thought of myself as a twink. Even back when I fit the description of what I consider a twink to be (except for the black part).
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I've always thought of twinks as slim, young guys, regardless of ethnicity.

I think it's hard to label ourselves, because we often don't see ourselves the way others see us. Labels can be used as quick descriptors to provide a general picture, but a lot of us don't fit neatly into a label (chub, bear, cub, twink, daddy, etc.), which is perfectly A-OK. Most of us are simply regular folk.
 
fernoca said:
:O!

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Garcia's here again!?!
Pics now!
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Joining BeardGAF :)

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Garcia said:
Joining BeardGAF :)

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Oh my god come over here to my place

I asked him why he wanted me to come and then I said nevermind I need to stop asking so many questions

and he said "Just so we can have some fun"

and I said "I would like that a lot"

and he said "yes and you" and I replied ":)" and he put ":-[" and I said "haha don't be embarassed"

Oh my god does he like me...sure seems like it :DDD
 
T.O.P said:
Hello Gay-gaf !!!

Nicola from Italy, 21

I'm actually coming out to my parents by the end of the month so i'm kinda weird (suicidal) these days

But i hope to get back on track and start bitching with you asap <3



@got a crush on ciD since i started browsing gaf two years ago lol, you're gorgeous dude ^^ sorry for your situation btw ._.
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Hiiii :) I might be going to Modena in the summer. Where are you in Italy?
MidnightScott said:
Block those people or ignore them for a while. They weren't in the relationship, you two were. They can't possibly know anything and you should tell them to shut the hell up and stay out of your business. I mean I know you probably talked to them, but I can't believe they have the nerve to talk shit like that to you.
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I know and i keep telling myself that they shouldn't talk because they weren't the ones in the relationship, it's just that I feel really vulnerable right now and everything is really hurtful. I know what you mean, i can't believe they'd attack my head like this.
RatskyWatsky said:
Maybe they're telling you those things because they figure it'll be better if you're mad at him instead of just sad? Like, somehow that'll make it better for you. I don't know, but just try to block them out.
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It doesn't make me feel better at all. I'd rather be sad than angry at him. I have no legitimate reason to be angry with him.
SpaceBridge said:
Want my advice? Take the next few days and stay in and dont socialize with anyone. Think about the relationship, remember the good and forget the bad. Take what lessons you can from this so that you can grow and be a better boyfriend in the future. Also, try to examine those negative characteristics and signals that your ex possessed so that in the future you can avoid a similar situation. There are no bad relationships unless you dont learn anything from them. And fuck the haters. Dont let others pollute your good memories. Those people did not have those connections with your ex, they didnt feel the bond, the love between the two.

edit: your"ll go through some stages of mourning. so let yourself cry, be angry, denial, and regret. But for god sakes DO NOT TRY to contact your ex. It will be the worst thing you can do. And stay away from any potential rebound guys. You will regret it even more.
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Interesting take on it Space. I really appreciate this kind of advice and I'll probably try it out. Thanks :)
 
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