I don't think you have any intention to change as you find a shitty chicken sammich more important than human rights.
You said if it effected you personally you'd feel different. That's not a false equiv at all. Just one that's hard to hear.
You will have to explain what you were trying to imply a bit more, but I absolutely did not say that.
I said I care enough about it personally to boycott. I also said that I am not going to judge or condemn a person as morally corrupt simply because they choose not to boycott, for whatever reason.
I even carved out an exception and said I would condemn them for doing so because of the policy.
And then, as a last comment I acknowledged my bias (or lack thereof?). I don't have a ton of interaction with gay people on a regular basis, so the effects of this are not something I see on a personal level.
I then said, that even if I did have more of that, I don't think it would change my opinion that others are morally corrupt for choosing not to boycott.
That is certainly not to say you can't encourage them to boycott. For example, instead of haranguing Valnen as morally corrupt you could try to convince him.
I don't think you will, but that doesn't mean you can't try.
He is a good example, in that his posts bring up several reasons Cyan mentioned earlier about why people may choose not to. He doesn't think it will make a difference, he doesn't think his contribution matters, and of late, he is simply hostile to the manner in which you are trying to convince him.
edit: Some of Valnen and Laser's posts have run together in my head, so you'll have to excuse me if I mischaracterized Valnen as making all of those arguments. And I forgot to mention the core of his argument is that because of the above reasons he didn't feel it rose to the level of denying himself the occasional craving.