I take a stance completely opposite of this. Half of the fun I have had with MMO's is figuring things out myself or through communities. Wasn't all we got in EQ, Asheron's Call, Dark Age of Camelot, etc, just a manual in the game package? And that's all the basic info players were given. I don't want my hand held by tutorials.
As for server, I really hope ANet rethinks their server strategy. With mass communities like Titan, Reddit, Goons, etc (yes, I know Goons is going to different servers, but I am willing to bet one server will have a majority of their pop), it seems to be harder to find a server that will have a decent population while maintaining a healthy WvW population.
On another subject....Way to go Maxrpg! Going and getting banned. I know you're reading this!!!