HamPster PamPster
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Girl-Age assemble: she dumped me, then baked me a pie, but then dumped me again...
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Good on you Mengy, I don't even like -remembering- the shit I've said 2 years ago, reading it back would make me cringe so hard.
Vermillion
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Good job, dude.
Also, nice timing - exactly 2 years after the last post.
Also, nice timing - exactly 2 years after the last post.
Count Dookkake
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Now will any of GAF's resident sad cases learn from this?
how did i miss this thread?
and how the fuck was that pie not apple? oh..wait..apple means forever. Raspberry Rhubarb simply denotes effort and care, it isn't comforting like apple pie would be.
I dunno man. Seems like you could change her mind, but should you? "If we were supposed to marry it would have already happened by now." Seems like she wants to move on and see if she can get something better. You could fight for your place, but honestly, I'd probably be a bit insulted. If I loved her, and she wanted to put me on the shelf so she could try and find a better man to be in her life and the life of her child, PLUS she still wanted me to be around, which wouldn't be so bad, except for her kind of totally disregarding the possibility of me having a life of my own...since she would probably expect me to be there when she called like I was before, except we're not like we were before, etc...
Plus people who feel like you need to 'fight' in your relationship as a sign that you still 'care' annoy me. She thinks she can do better? Let her. You go do better. Go. DO. BETTER./rage
edit: oh..why didn't I look at the date/year?
and how the fuck was that pie not apple? oh..wait..apple means forever. Raspberry Rhubarb simply denotes effort and care, it isn't comforting like apple pie would be.
I dunno man. Seems like you could change her mind, but should you? "If we were supposed to marry it would have already happened by now." Seems like she wants to move on and see if she can get something better. You could fight for your place, but honestly, I'd probably be a bit insulted. If I loved her, and she wanted to put me on the shelf so she could try and find a better man to be in her life and the life of her child, PLUS she still wanted me to be around, which wouldn't be so bad, except for her kind of totally disregarding the possibility of me having a life of my own...since she would probably expect me to be there when she called like I was before, except we're not like we were before, etc...
Plus people who feel like you need to 'fight' in your relationship as a sign that you still 'care' annoy me. She thinks she can do better? Let her. You go do better. Go. DO. BETTER./rage
edit: oh..why didn't I look at the date/year?
Vermillion
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I need someone to break up with me first, then I can apply this lesson.
InvincibleAgent
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Sounds like you made the right choice bro. She wasn't happy and she would have realized it on her own (again) if you didn't.
Oh it's old. Never mind.
Oh it's old. Never mind.
Mengy
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I'll tell you what, I learned a lot from the whole ordeal. And yeah, I'm much more confident and sure of myself now than I was two years ago.
Love can do strange things to a man, but the worst is that it makes us forget how to act like a man. It's really not the end of the world when a woman dumps us, it's just change. Life goes on, there are still places to go, things to do. It's both humbling and enlightening to realize that you don't need that woman to complete your life, you should complete your life on your own whether you are with someone or not. Sometimes it's just nice to have someone along for the ride, but it should never be mandatory.
And, when you are happy in life on your own, standing tall and strong despite the world, that's when you truly have something incredible to offer a woman.
Great relationships don't blossom out of a need for someone, they bloom out of a desire to share a good life with someone else.
No, but I did get her to teach my new gf how to make her baked tofu dish that I love so much. LOL!
Well shit, I'll be forever alone then.
I really like this statement! Thank you for that! Oh, and im glad everything worked out for you!
Vermillion
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1) Great line, will probably quote it in the future (fuck, there's someone in Dating-Age who needs it right now)
2) Best of both worlds - that's how you win, folks.
Mengy
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Don't have that attitude. In fact, don't even care about whether or not you are alone forever.
Are you happy with yourself right now, with who you are and what your life is? If not, work to improve and change that. You need to have priorities in your life, and "having a girlfriend" should not be your top priority, ever. Hold yourself in higher regard than that.
At least, that's IMHO.
triplestation
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What a disaster. Relationships are a drag.
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