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Gay and Bisexual thread |OT2|Bears and Twinks and Otters. Oh My!
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SpaceBridge
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No thanks. I'll date someone my age. I ain't bring anyone's "daddy" at time soon.
Some men consider me a twink because of my slender hairless body, but I guess I'm too old for that term now (32 yo). Speaking of age, I think that '30 years old is gaydeath'-thing is fucking disgusting. Older men are really attractive. And very good in sex
not to mention, they aren't full of themselves like the masses of 25 year old guys in clubs.
You guys are missing the point: It's a subtle but hard jab at me getting older today.
Happy Birthday then?
Yeah, that is also true. Although I never really connected with guys my age and always prefered them way older, I had some encounters with young people. Being very shy and private didn't really help feeling confortable with gays my age the few times I went to a gaybar aimed at young gay people...
You guys are missing the point: It's a subtle but hard jab at me getting older today.
Congratulations man!
You guys are missing the point: It's a subtle but hard jab at me getting older today.
Happy Birthday?
Padawan of Windu
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Do I get Happy Birthday love for mine last Thursday? No? I guess it's too late : [ Well my party's not til Saturday so it's not REALLY my b-day yet.
Me too. I don't really like the "dad-boi" roleplay crap though, especially because I'm mostly top.
You can always answer with the "you just went full retard" image macro. I have a whole folder in my phone for these cases. They usually block me right away so that saves my daily block limit.
I'm weird. With a girl I love being dominating, but with a guy I want to be dominated.
Not wierd at all. I tend to take the lead with girls, and I fall for guys that are confident.
excelforward
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I only started to go out after my 30th birthday this year, I guess I'm a gay zombie, or vampire
It's not their blood you're after.
By the way, if you want to hook up but don't really want to resort to dating apps, try following local gay people in Twitter and interact with them in a friendly way so soon a lot will start following you in cascade, shouldn't be difficult unless you live in the middle of nowhere. Results are less inmediate but you'll have a lot more fun in the process of fooling around and chances are you will find awesome people just to go out to the cinema or a beer, which is a good start.
I've already banged 3 twitter buddies since I started using it seriously a year and a half ago
SpaceBridge
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I only started to go out after my 30th birthday this year, I guess I'm a gay zombie, or vampire
http://epicfunnys.com/pictures/motivational_posters/gay-zombies-motivational-poster.jpg
edit: not sure if pic is NSFW.
Why is it annoying you and why do to think its desperate?
SpaceBridge
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Uhm, what is it about your profile that makes it vague?
xxczx
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it's not people being on Grindr that make them desperate its the way they go about it, like I've had three people today sending me pictures of their dick without warning.
nothing? i just don't get why the question is relevant and why it's asked so much lol.
Well let's see your profile
Yeah, I get those, I chat with a dude then he just asks me "do I suck dick, btm, discreet?" and just sends me pics. BUT not eveyone one grindr is desperate...
That's the same use I do. Most of my hook ups usually come from Scruff or Growlr instead.
Some men consider me a twink because of my slender hairless body, but I guess I'm too old for that term now (32 yo). Speaking of age, I think that '30 years old is gaydeath'-thing is fucking disgusting. Older men are really attractive. And very good in sex
You can't just SAY things like this without proof! C'mon, son.
This is true for me as well.
Actually, I really like roleplay like that as long as it stays in the bedroom. I think it can be very hot even.
yes I am a bottom
Sounds like a good day.
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Deleted member 30609
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you block those people on grindr. I find the people who don't like Grindr are the ones who only get old people replying to them.
Who doesn't like random cock?
I'm weird. With a girl I love being dominating, but with a guy I want to be dominated.
Fun to read this, exactly me. Do you guys have some particular taste for either gender??? I'd never consider me Bi, because I like men way more but here's my mind mechanism regarding fluidity:
I am look for men when I am tired, sad, worried or in need of emotional support or in need of bodyparts (I love men's legs and hands more than anything, regarding physical attraction). I look for tall(ish, er) and strong men (fat or muscle is o.k), older than me, bottom or versatile in sex but love to get hugged by big arms and manly guys, a bit of an "emotional" bottom perhaps , either blond or mediterranean (pretty much Europe guys), bodyhair is o.k most of the time. I rarelly, if ever, look for younger and/or slim guys.
When there is the sun outside, I do workout and feel powerful and think positive AND realise men-to-men relationships suck donkey balls (in my experience), I gravitate towards looking for girls in ther late 20's, always brunette with white skin, curvy but non fat, with shaved bodyhair.
of course I then realize girls are 100000% more complicated than men (will you just fuck with me already and stop thinking about kids and marriage, for fucks sake?????) and I feel happy to be gay and whatever weird straight thougths were crossing my mind disipate entirely, until the cycle repeats.
EDIT: friends are a factor too. In Germany I fluctuate a lot more, my friends there being mostly straight people who tell me their stories but here in Mexico, hanging around with my mostly gay friends brings me in the mood to do/say/think/reflectupon gay stuff only. weird but it does have an influence, when I think about it.
SpaceBridge
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Actually, I really like roleplay like that as long as it stays in the bedroom. I think it can be very hot even.
yes I am a bottom
I did this before, he was 10 years older and twice as big (Im a sucker for beefy guys) but the roles were reversed.
I topped him, so he would call me daddy even though, you know he was older..
For girls: I like shy, quiet, and eccentric women. I've got nothing against a dominant girl, but I like being the knight-in-shining armor. I also don't dig taller women. Some girls aren't comfortable dating a bisexual so I tend to look for open-minded girls.
For guys: I love tall, studly dudes. I grew up on superhero comics and stuff, so I swoon for guys who look trustworthy, confident, and kind.
For both genders I find intelligence and wit attractive. There really isn't anything better than dating a guy/girl who can make you laugh and express themselves well.
Oh and gingers/latino guys go straight to the front of the line.
SpaceBridge
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For you bi guys: Sphinx bought up interesting thought, where he seemed to pursue men because they were more direct and easier to get sex (less complicated than women). But I wonder, when you think about a long term relationship, when you think about settling down and making a life together with a partner, when (and if) you have fallen in love, is it with a man or a woman.
Also, my apologies in advance if I misinterpreted Sphinxs' post.
Also, my apologies in advance if I misinterpreted Sphinxs' post.
I can't say I really relate in fluctuation like you do, although I feel like I get along better with the males in my life than I do with the females. I think I'd just be more likely to have MORE in common with a guy than a girl. My preference is honestly about 60/40, though, guys/girls. There are rarely days when I think "ew gay" or "ew straight". I just kinda like both, and someone attractive can/will catch my eye no matter what time of the day it is, haha.
I think probably one of my greatest fantasies would be an MMF thing. Not necessarily because it's two guys and one girl, but because, hey, i get to play with a guy AND a girl.
I don't have a preference. My first relationship lasted 3 years and it was with a guy. Were it not for some pretty dealbreaking issues towards the end, I wouldn't have minded settling down with him. I can see myself with either a man or a woman.
Edit: Oh I forgot to talk about my particular taste.
I have a pretty wide range of types that I like in guys, from shorter and skinny to taller and bigger, and you know, everything in between. Personality/Intelligence is really the main thing for me. People with attitude or who love drama...I don't have time for that. Also, a sense of humor, and similar taste in music. I'm pretty sure one of my dealbreakers would be not going to music festivals or concerts occasionally
As for women, I tend to like them similar in height or shorter, and I guess on the slimmer side. I like blondes a lot too, on either gender. Also, being slightly tan, I like people who are paler than I am. I really like the difference in skin tone for some reason, although it's by no means a dealbreaker.
Okay... and you were okay with that or did you think it's weird? Since you were saying you rather date someone your own age.
SpaceBridge
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I was okay with it at the time, afterall I was yonger and experimental. I think also because he was older, it didnt quite feel as odd as it would now if I was with a 23 year old and he called me "daddy". Does that make sense?
That's actually amusing. For one of my fuck buddies, I'm his "doggie" because he loves how I rim him
it's actually more a diversion, though now, each time one of us uses the "dog" emoji when texting, we already know the intention hahahahahaYeah, definitely makes sense. It's of course also a thing of preferences. The older guy clearly has this roleplay-thing going for him where he wants to be the "boi". And there are probably also a lot of younger guys who like to be dominating or topping older guys.
SpaceBridge
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That's actually amusing. For one of my fuck buddies, I'm his "doggie" because he loves how I rim him
LOL, never associated "doggie" to rimming, but makes sense. Ill file that away for future charming attempts.
A woman, but I'm open to either. There's certainly some appeal to having a traditional family, but I've had good long term relationships with men too.
High-five.
The opposite is also true for me. When I say something more meaningful then for example, "hey, you a top or bottom" and actually try to hold a decent conversation and the guy is just not able to have such a conversation with me, that works like an extreme turn-off.
Some guys probably wouldn't like it.never associated "doggie" to rimming, but makes sense. Ill file that away for future charming attempts.
It's rare to see anyone like ginger guys. I've always liked red hair, though auburn is higher on the list.
Yeah. There's only so much sex you can have before you have to actually hold a conversation.
SpaceBridge
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You would be surprised how many do.
I'm much more attracted to men than girls, but :
-Girls : Shorter than me (rather hard to find, I'm already pretty short >.> About the same size is okay too), brunette and more "cute" than sexy.
-Guys: Taller, with a beard, not overly buff, hairy is a good thing. Darker tones of hair, but I don't mind that much. "Intense" eyes are a big turn on.
But the most important thing is probably being able to hold a conversation and make me laugh. I'll overlook anything for that. I date a really cute girl once, but I found her really boring and spending time with her ended up feeling like a chore :/
for me the most important thing is bonding.. it isn't only about holding a nice conversation but actually have the feeling that you know the person well and that you click with them. That's my absolute top priority and the reason why my dates fail when they do.
If out of context, I will most likely prefer a handsome guy to an attractive girl but if you add context, like for example, if you give me a 30 years old, brunette, badass cellist or violinist (I am a pianist so yeah), brunette, exact same height as me, confident of their body, doesn't feel like "I need a partner to feel complete", has similar phisolsophical and moral values and is openminded regarding sex and even had experiencies with girls... I'd be so all over it, that would be awesome...but that's sooo utopic I rarely think about it and just go with the flow and appreciate the people that I find in my path.
If out of context, I will most likely prefer a handsome guy to an attractive girl but if you add context, like for example, if you give me a 30 years old, brunette, badass cellist or violinist (I am a pianist so yeah), brunette, exact same height as me, confident of their body, doesn't feel like "I need a partner to feel complete", has similar phisolsophical and moral values and is openminded regarding sex and even had experiencies with girls... I'd be so all over it, that would be awesome...but that's sooo utopic I rarely think about it and just go with the flow and appreciate the people that I find in my path.
dragonlife
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Right on.
Happy Birthday then?
Happy Birthday?
Thanks. I think...?
Nope. But sex material is different than relationship material for me. And when it comes to romantic relationships, I'm a baby fawn at best.
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