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I'm starting to get the impression that abortion is so popular because having a baby is such an easy mistake to make (considering today's culture), and thus the baby's life is devalued and downplayed in order to psychologically compensate for getting rid of it.
"Sex is fun and I like it. Whoops, I fucked up and had a baby. How does something so easy and enjoyable turn out to ruin my life? Well....it's not REALLY a person....so get rid of that shit!"
"It's not a big deal!" when it IS a big deal is probably the most popular way to try and justify a mistake. Responsibility sucks, doesn't it?
These are your feelings on the matter, and you can't claim universality for them.
There are a lot of different views on sex, so it's important to keep in mind that what one person considers to be responsible can be seen as irresponsible to someone else. Even if you slack when it comes to birth control, and get yourself pregnant, I wouldn't want that person to become a parent. They've already shown themselves incapable of acting responsibly when it comes to sex, so why would I trust them with one of the biggest responsibilities in life?
If they don't slack with birth control, then should really their parenthood be determined by the failure rate of their particular form of birth control?
I personally disagree, I don't see why one should "punish" them (and it is a punishment as you are removing a choice, and control over their body) for acting responsible.
There is a fundamental error in your reasoning when you think that people who have been acting responsibly should be punished, and people who are incapable of being responsible laden with a massive responsibility.
Unless you think that abortion should be illegal in all cases, that is, in which case it has nothing to do with responsibility but rather to do with the worth of the fetus (in which case you should probably drop the "irresponsible sex" line of reasoning as it is insulting to anyone who has taken proper precautions to protect themselves).
I've yet to see someone respond to the above, so I am interested in hearing your or anyone else's response on that and the below:
I'd like to once again point out that pro-choice means only that abortions are legal up to a certain point, not that people have to be for abortions or have them oneself. So a pro-choice legislation is inherently accommodating of people who think abortion is wrong and would never have one, whereas a pro-life legislation does not accommodate the pro-choice.
One side is already a better compromise than the other, and it's also more beneficial to society.