SpaceBridge
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LMAO.
Gay and Bisexual thread |OT2|Bears and Twinks and Otters. Oh My!
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LMAO.
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Hairy (and I typically think a bit more muscular) twink.
umop_3pisdn
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In all fairness I didn't at nineteen either, it's a really recent thing for me, it still feels novel and I often feel like it's sure to vanish at any moment because all of the previous times that I thought I was narrowing in on 'it' I was proven false and it meant starting over yet again, though now with an increasing sense of desperation because you're starting to run out of ideas and nihilism starts to seem like an inevitability you just can't accept yet, lol. I think that's likely to happen a lot if you're somewhat ambitious in regards to what you want out of life or really figuring this whole mess out... not that if that doesn't happen that means that a person is unambitious, but maybe just really lucky. But either way, there's a lot of time to figure it out if you work at it persistently.
In terms of what seemed successful for me: I had to go with my intuition, trying to reason out what I should want or whatever only resulted in me being intellectually convinced in something and ultimately failing because the rest of me wasn't nearly so sure. And knowing how to interpret your intuition is a skill unto itself, it can be hard to see if it's pointing to something contrary to what you expect or think you want, so try to set aside all of our expectations and try to cultivate an attitude of renunciation or surrender and it's more likely that you'll be able to see it, but ymmv.
Thanks, wow are there any other animal terms? I don't fit either of those and I like being pigeonholed ... er
dragonlife
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Polar bears.
Old bear I assume?
Cubs, Silver Foxes, Bulls, Flamingos and polar bears from the top of my head...
Yes, white hair +gut= polar bear. There was a survey posted earlier to see which animal you are. I'm still a pup.
Is this the time to post that "Gay Cliques Census" site again? :lol
SpaceBridge
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Which are?
CornBurrito
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Oh since when did they take "relationship" out of the thread title?
the way I see it,
age 18-28= young and hot
age 28-38= older and hot
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Daddies are somewhere past that, in my opinion around 45.
those older guys you had always had a hard time getting their engine started.
Unless a major illness or trauma happened, ability to enjoy and fullfill sex at a decent tempo is set in stone at a young age and remains throughout the years. I don't think it's related to age.
All is well I guess.
I called again today, and directly asked him "what gives?".
He said he knew this question was coming, and apolgized, saying it's his bad and the distance is a problem for him since he's much more of "seeing and talking" (I hope you get what I mean) kind of guy.
Bottom line, he assured me that we're good, and not talking didn't mean his interest in me is fading, so I feel relieved. Gonna meet with him over the next few days, so yay!
A bit off the topic -
Two people I talked to gave me - what I consider - quite a shitty adivce.
They told me not to call, and wait for him to call. If he doesn't, that means he doesn't care, and it's his loss blah blah blah.
I kinda get it, but I disagree with them.
I find this solution a bit childish considering I'm seeing this guy for around 6 weeks and having fun with him. Seems to me that it's better to bring up an issue like that and deal with it, whatever the results will be.
Maybe if I saw the person once or twice I can understand, but I hate these kind of "games". I know most of the time you can't get around those games, but from a fresh prespective (again, first time seeing someone) it seems so idotic to fool around instead of being direct about stuff. I'm not saying I'm not gonna do any bullshit in the future, but that's how I see it anyway.
What's your input on the subject? Not mine specifically, but generally?
i agree with you in part. i totally disagree with their advice. i think waiting for him to call is a fine thing if you'd been seeing him like a week or two, but at this point you shouldn't wait.
depending upon the relationship specifics, call him and talk. it's totally possible he's going through something or just busy, and you calling might interrupt his situation in a good way. it's good to let him know that you care at that point.
dragonlife
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Have you not been in here since this new thread started? It never had "relationship" in the title; that was the previous one.
Unless I'm going crazy.
For me, there's no point in even trying to classify men like this because it comes off as half-baked and full of debatable holes, opinion or not. Also, "real men"? Come on, sphinx.
you are right, that was poorly worded... was supposed to be kind of a joke to counter the "daddy" comment but I forgot to make if funny
.. sorry.My feelings exactly. Every time it inevitably comes around every few pages I kind of check out until the subject changes, just find debating preferences boring and inane.
Find it a bit strange people get upset/offended over someone stating their preferneces (as soco said most of the time it's joking and tounge in cheek anyway) don't think anyone is being disrespectful to other types or w/e.
On another note, that Art of Nickie blog is amazing, very talented guy.
On another note, that Art of Nickie blog is amazing, very talented guy.
speaking for myself, I wasn't being serious.
there are hot, great looking younger guys and hot great looking older daddies, and everything in between but when people do get serious with the topic, I think it's way worse regarding appearance than age.
when I read " Yuck! twinks! " or any body type, I cringe. Fuck that.
you know, a guy can look great and not be your type.
SpaceBridge
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I for one don't wanna be anyone's "daddy".
dragonlife
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I don't think anyone is upset or offended anywhere on this page. You must be new to the thread if this isn't familiar to you:
*bear pics*
"Ew, hair."
*twink pics*
"They look 14."
The Gay Thread Cycle is almost as predictable as the Sonic one.
No you can't, which is why I never see the point. Maybe I just don't 'get' it but joking or not, there seems to be a pretty strong commitment to bringing it around every few pages.
I'm not upset or offended, just speaking to my feeling that I don't understand the point of those conversations.
Basically this.
I've lurked, not seen that but yeah i'd find that disrespectful.
Fair enough, if I realised it was a sore subject I wouldn't have said it
Not really the same as the examples I quoted, not that you can judge entire age groups (I was talking generally in my experience/taste) I preferred 34 yo to 19 yo, of course 19 yo can be very very hot ;-) I should have explained myself better I guess.
And I look 19 so, yeah, no hate from me.
well depending on the approach, it's just character defining or joking with your friends
it's also about finding like-minded individuals, same as most other discussions 
it's hard to have conversations without exposing your preferences.Escape Goat
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Guys, dont put your leather wallet with $150 in the washer on high temp. Without thinking of where my wallet was (in my shorts) I accidentally did this. The result? A wallet that looks turned inside out, contorted and shriveled. The money was suprisingly well preserved. As the wallet disintegrated, the money simply got the traces of cocaine and meth washed off of them.
dragonlife
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Clean bills feel nice. Also, I used to leave my wallet in my clothes all the time. Luckily it hasn't happened with my current wallet (which is leather as well). If you send me $75 via money order, I can buy you a new wallet and send it to you. Trust me.
Lucky you. Congrats! Those 2 things are always the hardest to clean and get rid of.
dragonlife
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Of course it's hard if you try to snort it, silly. Try a new method for once.
Escape Goat
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Escape Goat
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Does Gay GAF play Warcraft anymore? I've got an MMO itch to scratch and Guild Wars failed horribly to satisfy.
That would explain my nose problems.
dragonlife
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You sound like I can trust you. Hey, wait a minute...
The only MMO I played was SMT: Imagine, and the SMT brand couldn't make me enjoy it
I must have played less than 2 hours total. GW2 does seem interesting to me, though. Sorry to disappoint </3
Henchmen21
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I've only ever played CoX (where I met my late best friend). Got really tedious after awhile so I quit. Was in the Champions Open beta but had to leave when the graphics got to much for my comp to handle.
Katana_Strikes
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My friend has a cousin staying over his for a few weeks from Australia and he just started talking to me on Grindr. Haha!
This could be fun...
This could be fun...
RatskyWatsky
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Does he have pics on Grindr? Is he hot?
Dead Prince
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why not talk to him in real life?
RatskyWatsky
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You mean, like, texting him face to face?
interestingly, money survives fine, but passports do not.
also, when i had my passport replaced, the girl told me that many more men wash them than women. guess women just use their purse.
RatskyWatsky
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Money is cloth though isn't it? Passports are paper.
I found a pic on Tumblr of a random actor (yeah not really but I better not post the link here haha) and I am intrigued and want to know who it is. Some commenters said it was an actor from Inglorious bastards, other said from Valkyrie but I haven't seen both so any help is appreciated:
Sorry to bother you gus with this
Sorry to bother you gus with this
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