So this short time before the election, with both my Facebook and Twitter accounts full to the brim with political statements, I'd like to take a few minutes to recollect a point I made two years ago. This point came after the Rally For Sanity And/Or Fear, an admittedly more Dem-leaning event. Some of the funniest moments to come out of that event, apart from the comedian acts, were the signs. There were oh-so-many of them. Most were funny. Few were poignant. One stood out, to me, among the masses of them. It stated, "One of us, or perhaps both of us, may be correct."
This wasn't in reference to him agreeing with someone. It wasn't someone saying they were right and someone else was wrong. He was saying that while he may have a certain view he finds to be correct, the person next to him may have a totally different view that is correct as well. Sadly, I think it's what we've largely forgotten as a whole nation. We used to value each others differences and respect them. Now, differences are vile and dirty. Political discourse is now why someone else is wrong instead of seeing and understanding someone else's point of view while being able to adequately articulate your own.
I recall an article from a year or so ago, in which many people were criticizing John Boehner for going golfing with Obama. It's become so polarized that two grown men can't go golfing to discuss issues because a Republican cannot possibly hang out with a Democrat. What got us here? Sure, we come together in times of tragedy to work together, but why is that the only time? The politicians of old (and by old I mean 80s back) would go at each other until they were respectively red or blue in the face (see what I did there) then leave the hill to go to cookouts with each other, or to watch a football game, or whatever. We used to understand that sign I originally mentioned as a country, but we've now been driven to me seeing posts of "Moving to Canada if he is elected!" or "I don't think the country can take 4 more years of him!" Why?
Let's get one thing straight, we still have many more freedoms than most countries in the world. Freedoms that we are guaranteed by living in this great nation. Freedoms that are argued over the extent in which they go, or were originally "meant" to go by the founding fathers. I personally love having the bear arms I have a right to have (THAT'S THE JOKE.) But we used to be able to have these discussions like, well, adults, without overt jabs or subtle stabs at each other. There is a fantastic song by an artist named Chris Rice called, 'You Don't Have to Yell.' Of course now that I've mentioned a Christian artist, someone will inevitably accuse me of pushing a right-leaning point (thus completely validating this post! yay) but that's not the case. It's the lyrics that apply to everyone here:
Everybody take a breath
Why are all your faces red?
We're missing all the words you said
You don't have to yell
If everyone would take a step
Back away and count to ten
Clear your mind and start again
Then we won't have to yell
Draw your lines
And choose your sides
Cause many thing are worth the fight
But louder doesn't make you right
I just hope that we can get back to this, because honestly, it's the current behavior we have towards one another that the country can't take many more years of. Sure, we do a great job of coming together in times of national crisis, but we used to do it daily. I want to see that again. Less talking points, more critical thinking and open discussion. If you make point, back it up so that people can understand where you're coming from and why, so that they can have a discussion with you about it. If you don't want to discuss it, then you probably shouldn't post it on Facebook.