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I'll have a 4 month anniversary with my bf next week and I don't have ANY idea of what I could give to him :(
I LOVE that boy, he's the most beautiful insane intelligent man I¿ve ever met and I think I found my equal and even rival in some aspects that I'm crazy for him, I'm desperately in love and he's already probably the love of my life, yet, I can't think of a SINGLE thing.

Help me gaf :(
 
Ahasverus said:
I'll have a 4 month anniversary with my bf next week and I don't have ANY idea of what I could give to him :(
I LOVE that boy, he's the most beautiful insane intelligent man I¿ve ever met and I think I found my equal and even rival in some aspects that I'm crazy for him, I'm desperately in love and he's already probably the love of my life, yet, I can't think of a SINGLE thing.

Help me gaf :(
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Naked with a ribbon around your dick?
 
My ex and I 'celebrated' monthly up until our 1-year, and then we just celebrated each year. Never got each other gifts, just one of us would mention it and we'd get all giddy and then continue on with our day.
 
lunch said:
I was thinking the same thing. Just to completely stereotype, how old are you Ahasverus?
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Hahahah 20 :P
I've had several relationships, some longer even, before but not this way, I mean, we could break up tomorrow and I'd think he's the love of my life (so far).

That's not helping is it? Hahahahaha

Yeah we celebrate monthly, I mean, not the 'woohoo party' type but we exchange gifts or do something special, we both are pretty emotinal, today he gave me a custom CD with our especial songs and the label was a photo of ours and some pretty text, I almost died haha, that's why need something good to give.!
 
I've got it! Go up to him and say "Somewhere on my body is a tufted heart. You get to find out where"

But seriously, you don't necessarily have to buy him something. If you can cook, make him a romantic dinner.
 
Ahasverus said:
Hahahah 20 :P
I've had several relationships, some longer even, before but not this way, I mean, we could break up tomorrow and I'd think he's the love of my life (so far).

That's not helping is it? Hahahahaha

Yeah we celebrate monthly, I mean, not the 'woohoo party' type but we exchange gifts or do something special, we both are pretty emotinal, today he gave me a custom CD with our especial songs and the label was a photo of ours and some pretty text, I almost died haha, that's why need something good to give.!
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Oh, okay. That's nice to hear that you're so happy then, and if your boyfriend is giving you romantic compilation discs, then I guess you're with the right person to fuel your crazy romanticism. Good luck on your gift, I'd totally buy him a Vita if I were you.
 
lunch said:
Oh, okay. That's nice to hear that you're so happy then, and if your boyfriend is giving you romantic compilation discs, then I guess you're with the right person to fuel your crazy romanticism. Good luck on your gift, I'd totally buy him a Vita if I were you.
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He said romantic gift, not gag gift. BAM!
 
I'm not a terribly big fan of overly romantic gifts, but I guess I'll try to think of some stuff.

I take it flowers and chocolates are too cliche? If you're looking into snacks you can get chocolate covered strawberries. I don't care if they're romantic, they're delicious. I actually think Henchmen21's idea about you cooking something for him is pretty awesome. I'd go with that.
 
Hey guys, I need some, uh, advice. Lately, thinking of my future has been bringing me down, what I mean is that I don't know if it would be okay for me to come out. I don't wanna live in a lie where I'm married with a woman and I know that I won't feel anything, or I don't want to make anyone live a lie just because I'm scared to be who I really am. I don't know if I'll ever find someone, or if my family or friends are going to accept me. It just scares me, did any of you ever deal with these kind of feelings? I had never been this down, I don't feel motivated to do much at all... Should I just stop thinking about the future and let things flow?
 
Thank you guys your responses are really appreciated, I've decided (following your advice) to make something myself (+ chocolate strawberry, that sounds delicious).

I'll get you informed (:

, advice. Lately, thinking of my future has been bringing me down, what I mean is that I don't know if it would be okay for me to come out. I don't wanna live in a lie where I'm married with a woman and I know that I won't feel anything, or I don't want to make anyone live a lie just because I'm scared to be who I really am. I don't know if I'll ever find someone, or if my family or friends are going to accept me. It just scares me, did any of you ever deal with these kind of feelings? I had never been this down, I don't feel motivated to do much at all... Should I just stop thinking about the future and let things flow?
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Man that's pretty sad :( I'd love to say it's easy, but alas, it's not. People near you are going to be surprised and some of them really upset BUT you are right, you can't live a lie and for the love of god I think you should not ever ever lie to someone who may care for you (Your hypothetic wife). Coming out is hard, but you know, it's a looot better than being closeted in. I mean, there are still fights, yes, but you are fighting them with your real face and that's much better than having a mask on and fighting not only outside but INNER battles and those are the worst.
My advice is, go slowly, don't put a "I¿m gay" label on your forehead but stop lying to yourself and be happy, if someone catches you, fine, tell them, and if they really care for you they should accept that you are far far more as a person than what you do in bed :)
 
Ahasverus said:
Man that's pretty sad :( I'd love to say it's easy, but alas, it's not. People near you are going to be surprised and some of them really upset BUT you are right, you can't live a lie and for the love of god I think you should not ever ever lie to someone who may care for you (Your hypothetic wife). Coming out is hard, but you know, it's a looot better than being closeted in. I mean, there are still fights, yes, but you are fighting them with your real face and that's much better than having a mask on and fighting not only outside but INNER battles and those are the worst.
My advice is, go slowly, don't put a "I¿m gay" label on your forehead but stop lying to yourself and be happy, if someone catches you, fine, tell them, and if they really care for you they should accept that you are far far more as a person than what you do in bed :)
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Thank you, I really mean it. I don't plan to tell everyone "Hey I'm Gay everybody!" but if it some point my family and friends start wondering then I guess it would be time to tell them. And I guess accepting myself is going to be a long process... but I think I can get there, and hopefully meet someone in the near future.
 
YoungBlade said:
Hey guys, I need some, uh, advice. Lately, thinking of my future has been bringing me down, what I mean is that I don't know if it would be okay for me to come out. I don't wanna live in a lie where I'm married with a woman and I know that I won't feel anything, or I don't want to make anyone live a lie just because I'm scared to be who I really am. I don't know if I'll ever find someone, or if my family or friends are going to accept me. It just scares me, did any of you ever deal with these kind of feelings? I had never been this down, I don't feel motivated to do much at all... Should I just stop thinking about the future and let things flow?
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How young are you? Do you live on your own or with your parents? If you do live with your parents and you're concerned about how they might react, then don't come out to them just yet. If you have a fear that they'll kick you out then don't risk it. That doesn't mean you'd be living a lie. Don't even think about marrying a woman if you're not in love with her. That shouldn't even be a thought. It'd be cruel to the both of you.

You don't know if you'll ever find someone? Yeah. That goes for the most of us. It'll be difficult at first because you're still closeted, but it will hopefully get easier as you get more comfortable with yourself. You already have us here to talk to and that's already a step in the right direction. It's a start to feeling comfortable being out and talking about it with other people. Eventually, you probably should come out to some people and trust me it can be scary, but more and more people just aren't bugged by it anymore. Like the majority of the people I've told about it were just like "coo." With all that said my advice is just to relax and be patient. Start making baby steps in being comfortable with yourself and you'll definitely get to the coming out part in due time.
 
hateradio said:
How's your hand treating you?
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poorly.


I caught it with Mumei last night :(


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Ahasverus said:
I'll have a 4 month anniversary with my bf next week and I don't have ANY idea of what I could give to him :(
I LOVE that boy, he's the most beautiful insane intelligent man I¿ve ever met and I think I found my equal and even rival in some aspects that I'm crazy for him, I'm desperately in love and he's already probably the love of my life, yet, I can't think of a SINGLE thing.

Help me gaf :(
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At what intervals should you give presents? Every month? Every four months? Its wonderful that you've met a guy you feel that way about but I can't really think of a traditional gift for a four month anniversary.

People love Godiva.
 
YoungBlade said:
Hey guys, I need some, uh, advice. Lately, thinking of my future has been bringing me down, what I mean is that I don't know if it would be okay for me to come out. I don't wanna live in a lie where I'm married with a woman and I know that I won't feel anything, or I don't want to make anyone live a lie just because I'm scared to be who I really am. I don't know if I'll ever find someone, or if my family or friends are going to accept me. It just scares me, did any of you ever deal with these kind of feelings? I had never been this down, I don't feel motivated to do much at all... Should I just stop thinking about the future and let things flow?
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Well how old are you? What are your current situations in life? Nearly everyone I've ever met has improved their lives by coming out and it increases your chances of finding a boyfriend exponentially. You should never be forced to live a lie to appease other people.
 
YoungBlade said:
Thank you, I really mean it. I don't plan to tell everyone "Hey I'm Gay everybody!" but if it some point my family and friends start wondering then I guess it would be time to tell them. And I guess accepting myself is going to be a long process... but I think I can get there, and hopefully meet someone in the near future.
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Accepting yourself for who you are is the first step to take before you come out. There have been some that come out, end up regretting it for one reason or another, and some of them start looking for a way out, such as pray-the-gay-away camps. When you are absolutely comfortable with who you are and the situation is favorable so that you don't find yourself left out on the streets or something, that is the time to come out. How you choose to come out is up to you of course, but again... focus on the first step.
 
How we doing tonight?


Masamuna said:
Not sure, but I'm masacub on there.

Started using tumblr to actually post stuff instead of just using it as a porn outlet. Alas, it took one shirtless pic to make it explode. Yay bellies!
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Isn't that always the way. You get on the internet not to look at porn and than bam! one pic of hot guy and you've got to then spank it.
 
I'm just popping in to say: Nathan Fillion is still super hot and I'd let him do naughty things to me. >_<
 
Mumei said:
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This, once again, affirms you as my favorite person. I literally keeled over laughing, causing some alarm from Andy, and some amused scorn when he found out (but didn't understand) why.

Also, I still have your Gankutsuou DVDs that I found the other day hiding on the bookshelf.
 
Anyone watch American Horror Story? I get creeped out really easily but this show is pretty smart and not exactly torture porn that I dislike so much. Plus, Dylan McDermott is hot. We get to see him masterbate too while some burn victim watches. Rawr


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Teh Hamburglar said:
Anyone watch American Horror Story? I get creeped out really easily but this show is pretty smart and not exactly torture porn that I dislike so much. Plus, Dylan McDermott is hot. We get to see him masterbate too while some burn victim watches. Rawr
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McDermott may be hot (I don't really think so though) but his acting is horrendously bad in AHS. He delivers one of the most wooden performances I've ever seen.
 
RatskyWatsky said:
McDermott may be hot (I don't really think so though) but his acting is horrendously bad in AHS. He delivers one of the most wooden performances I've ever seen.
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Yeah, hes sort of trapped within his character which works because hes mentally tortured (which is odd cuz hes a therapist). I didn't really see a problem with him so far though I am only three episodes into Season 1.
 
I forgot to mention that Connie Britton is also fucking awful on that show, as is Taissa Farmiga up until the second half of the season, when her acting somehow improves dramatically.
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
Anyone watch American Horror Story? I get creeped out really easily but this show is pretty smart and not exactly torture porn that I dislike so much. Plus, Dylan McDermott is hot. We get to see him masterbate too while some burn victim watches. Rawr
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Yes, its my favorite show although I disagree about McDermott. He was only in the first season although I think he'll be showing up in the second as well.
 
Parn said:
How you choose to come out is up to you of course, but again... focus on the first step.
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I have two brothers and a sister. I told the brother closest in age to me that I'm gay a month or 2 ago. He's told me that my other brother and him talked once if I was gay. He was cool with that. He's told me that after we recently saw my sister was that she thinks that I'm gay after a conversation about some dumb party and wants to ask me if I'm gay. don't know what to think of that. I want to tell her and my parents but...she taking the wind of when I'm willing to tell everyone else is screwing with my mind. :/ I dunno why she thinks its ok to do that.
 
Dany M said:
I have two brothers and a sister. I told the brother closest in age to me that I'm gay a month or 2 ago. He's told me that my other brother and him talked once if I was gay. He was cool with that. He's told me that after we recently saw my sister was that she thinks that I'm gay after a conversation about some dumb party and wants to ask me if I'm gay. don't know what to think of that. I want to tell her and my parents but...she taking the wind of when I'm willing to tell everyone else is screwing with my mind. :/ I dunno why she thinks its ok to do that.
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You think it's wrong that she wants to ask you? Is it already a given that she's going to ask or was it more about her being really curious?
 
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