Gay and Bisexual thread |OT2|Bears and Twinks and Otters. Oh My!
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So guys I have a problem.
I went out yesterday and again they robbed me, this time was worst, this asshole invited me to spend the night with him and I did, like a complete idiot, then he said he was going to get me something for my hiccups,(I hiccup like mad for some reason sometimes), and never returned, so I felt asleep and everything. Then I wake up and go to pay for the room, and bam, credit card is gone. Then I checked and the guy spend around $500 before I could report the robbery. I feel like such an idiot, and I think I'll never go out again, this happens to often and I just have no one to go with me, being alone makes me a painfully easy target for these bastards. All I got was his underwear and a telephone number I won't even care to check because its so obviously fake.
Wanting to be with someone has made me do things I would have never imagine to do, but for what? for this? I'm sick and tired of this shit, the gay scene can go and die in a corner for all I care.
I went out yesterday and again they robbed me, this time was worst, this asshole invited me to spend the night with him and I did, like a complete idiot, then he said he was going to get me something for my hiccups,(I hiccup like mad for some reason sometimes), and never returned, so I felt asleep and everything. Then I wake up and go to pay for the room, and bam, credit card is gone. Then I checked and the guy spend around $500 before I could report the robbery. I feel like such an idiot, and I think I'll never go out again, this happens to often and I just have no one to go with me, being alone makes me a painfully easy target for these bastards. All I got was his underwear and a telephone number I won't even care to check because its so obviously fake.
Wanting to be with someone has made me do things I would have never imagine to do, but for what? for this? I'm sick and tired of this shit, the gay scene can go and die in a corner for all I care.
I think I am starting to like flamboyant gay guys. Last night I was watching Locked up raw on msnbc and they did a segment on Orange County jail and in it was the cutest guy Marcus Cash. It's a bit weird seeing so many gay men in jail but Marcus is just too cute.
http://youtu.be/FpFTwAM3r2M
http://youtu.be/FpFTwAM3r2M
Sorry to hear this. Things like these make it easy to loose faith in people. :/
You should never bring anything valuable (especially credit cards) when you go and meet new people.
Are you sure you don't have any means to find the guy? Maybe there was a monitoring in the hotel you were staying in.
That sucks. Some people out there are just scumbags. What are your options now? Are those five hundred dollars gone for good?
Phonomezer
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Wow, sorry to hear. Take out a hit on the little shit.
#MESS. I closed the tab after 5 seconds haha.
Nope.
There is no gif nope enough.
I gave it at least a minute. Does the video ever say what he's imprisoned for?
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
He stole credit cards and tried to buy stuff with them.
Maybe this is Mantidor's guy.
Necromanti
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What. The fuck. I hope I'd get extradited if I was ever convicted.
Jeffdell91
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Might be off your guys topic but.... Does anyone play Minecraft on PC? 
I need a buddy to build with and all.
I need a buddy to build with and all.
lordfroakie
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Dead Prince
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been watching HGTV lately.
and minus the mouth thing i found then doable.
and minus the mouth thing i found then doable.
Side note, that show generally has a... bad idea about what being gay is. As in, "transgender people = same thing as gay people" and "it's a lifestyle choice" bad. Somehow I still keep coming back to watch it, though...
Marcus is transgender.
yeah usually I leave everything, including money when I go out, but I need the card to buy stuff if I leave money, unfortunately the guy probably saw my password, otherwise he wouldn't have been able to use the card.
Yeah more than likely yes, I need to go to the bank and the police to see if I have any options but I'm not holding my breath.
hehe I live in Brazil so is not likely.
Escape Goat
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been watching HGTV lately.
and minus the mouth thing i found then doable.
They're handsome men but guys like these with TV styles just dont do it for me sexually. Their image is a bit too practiced. I need a little bit of an edge.
krypt0nian
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Left the wax outta my handlebar moustache today, and tried my hand at the Tombstone cowboy face spanner lip beast.
Got tons of attention, so I'm adding it to my repertoire. LOL
Got tons of attention, so I'm adding it to my repertoire. LOL
Ain't that the truth. I get more responses when I put a good looking guy's photo on my online dating profile rather than my own.
Mystic Theurge
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That doesn't mean people aren't interested in relationships.
It just means that physical attraction is important to people. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing.
Yeah, why do some people do that?
krypt0nian
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Do you guys ever use Meetup.com to meet a bunch of guys at once for like bowling, biking, rugby, whatever? Or if you're lucky enough to have a LGBT community center local, the outings scheduled from there?
I found that it's less pressure, way less online weirdos, and more op to organically hook up with the good ones. And you know you already like something in common. I hate that so many of you are hitting so many dating walls.
I found that it's less pressure, way less online weirdos, and more op to organically hook up with the good ones. And you know you already like something in common. I hate that so many of you are hitting so many dating walls.
maybe they generally want one thing, but on rare occasion they want something else?
it's no different than meeting someone in real life. they may generally be interested in a relationship, but still hook up.
And they get pissed off when it turns out you ARE looking for friends. Honestly, it's hard to not punch them in the face.
There was this guy who supposedly was into languages, so there I was leading the most one-sided conversation ever about how I like the sound of languages with simple vowel systems and stuff, then I realize he doesn't care because he's touching my knee and grinning like an idiot. My face automatically and strongly entered a state of "do not want" that pretty much ended the date, it was hilarious.
There was this guy who supposedly was into languages, so there I was leading the most one-sided conversation ever about how I like the sound of languages with simple vowel systems and stuff, then I realize he doesn't care because he's touching my knee and grinning like an idiot. My face automatically and strongly entered a state of "do not want" that pretty much ended the date, it was hilarious.
the profiles I dislike the most are those that have in them
" I found the love of my life so don't bother me with your indecent proposals"
I'd like to write to them:
"then what the fuck are you doing in an online DATING site? have friends here? bring them over to facebook, this isn't a place to be looking for friends, most of us are single and hoping to find love, sex or both. If you can't offer either, why waste everyone's time? go and enjoy your love"
dunno, maybe is an overreaction but I just don't like the mindset.
EDIT: before you all kill me, I mean that when a guy is partnered, everyone else can look for friends and see what goes on from there.
" I found the love of my life so don't bother me with your indecent proposals"
I'd like to write to them:
"then what the fuck are you doing in an online DATING site? have friends here? bring them over to facebook, this isn't a place to be looking for friends, most of us are single and hoping to find love, sex or both. If you can't offer either, why waste everyone's time? go and enjoy your love"
dunno, maybe is an overreaction but I just don't like the mindset.
EDIT: before you all kill me, I mean that when a guy is partnered, everyone else can look for friends and see what goes on from there.
Escape Goat
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they aren't wasting anyones time because they've clearly stated what they're expecting in their profile. No need to get your panties in a bunch over it.
excelforward
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I'm not so bothered by his being partnered on a dating site as his wording of it. It makes it sound like he's gloating, and that everyone else is a lowly peon. I dunno, just seemed arrogant.
Do you guys ever use Meetup.com to meet a bunch of guys at once for like bowling, biking, rugby, whatever? Or if you're lucky enough to have a LGBT community center local, the outings scheduled from there?
I found that it's less pressure, way less online weirdos, and more op to organically hook up with the good ones. And you know you already like something in common. I hate that so many of you are hitting so many dating walls.
Also, I think this is a damned good idea! That and I'm with Krypto about the dating walls.
Do you guys ever use Meetup.com to meet a bunch of guys at once for like bowling, biking, rugby, whatever? Or if you're lucky enough to have a LGBT community center local, the outings scheduled from there?
I found that it's less pressure, way less online weirdos, and more op to organically hook up with the good ones. And you know you already like something in common. I hate that so many of you are hitting so many dating walls.
I've tried something like that once and they were the most boring group of people I've ever met. Most interesting people don't do stuff like that because they already have plenty of friends.
p_xavier
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Do you guys ever use Meetup.com to meet a bunch of guys at once for like bowling, biking, rugby, whatever? Or if you're lucky enough to have a LGBT community center local, the outings scheduled from there?
I found that it's less pressure, way less online weirdos, and more op to organically hook up with the good ones. And you know you already like something in common. I hate that so many of you are hitting so many dating walls.
I'm a member of a gay biker group, it helped me a lot to know more people.
Escape Goat
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I joined an adventurer group once and met a ton of cool guys. Mostly career oriented/professional guys interested in biking/kayaking/hiking/etc. It could get pricey depending where they decided to go, but I was living paycheck to paycheck that summer. A lot of them also played softball on the gay league which is also a great way to expand your social network.
krypt0nian
Banned
This is so not true. You're closing yourself off from an excellent avenue. I mean that's ridiculous. Maybe you don't know what Meetup.com is. I have a slough of friends, but not all of them like all the stuff I like.
That sounds excellent. I've met some fellow gay bikers down here organically, but it would be cool to run around with a group.
p_xavier
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Exactly, and you can expect some of the members to match you with their friends. Anyone looking to create a videogame club in Montréal? It would keep me out of trouble.
In regards to guys who have profiles that say "Friends Only" and then are looking for sex:
My experience is that many don't want to be judged by other people (including their other gay friends) that they are actually, in fact, looking for sex (or else they might be called a slut or something). Many gay guys use the same websites and can easily recognize when they see someone they know on them. Therefore, they just state publicly that they are looking for friends only.
Granted, there are people out there who ARE actually looking for just friends, but I find those are rare (at least in Calgary). I personally don't have any profiles anywhere (with the exception of Facebook and LinkedIn), so I'm not sure if this is still true or not.
I find that I've met a lot of good quality people just by networking, and through friends of friends. Volunteering also helps. I got to meet a lot of people here when I was helping out with my employer's LGBT network, and then subsequently, helping out at the gay pride parade.
There's a lot of amazing people out there that won't be found on the internet.
My experience is that many don't want to be judged by other people (including their other gay friends) that they are actually, in fact, looking for sex (or else they might be called a slut or something). Many gay guys use the same websites and can easily recognize when they see someone they know on them. Therefore, they just state publicly that they are looking for friends only.
Granted, there are people out there who ARE actually looking for just friends, but I find those are rare (at least in Calgary). I personally don't have any profiles anywhere (with the exception of Facebook and LinkedIn), so I'm not sure if this is still true or not.
I find that I've met a lot of good quality people just by networking, and through friends of friends. Volunteering also helps. I got to meet a lot of people here when I was helping out with my employer's LGBT network, and then subsequently, helping out at the gay pride parade.
There's a lot of amazing people out there that won't be found on the internet.
it depends on the interests, a friend of mine just got into a gay group where the main topic is the 3DS, they play online and collect streetpasses and whatnot. He is very happy with it.
but I think I understand what you mean, random groups of people with nothing particularly in common, just that they feel lonely and don't know what to do with their time,....mmh, that doesn't work.
there's no correlation between being interesting and having plenty of friends. There are plenty of people with lots of friends that are terribly uninteresting. There are tons of people with many friends and who are interesting in these groups already -- they're interest groups for a reason. There are also many good reasons for interesting people to not have many friends and to join these groups.
and seriously, you tried something like this once and can make all of these judgments?
How would that be any easier?
dude... you have to get ahold of yourself. Some pages back you said you had your ass bleeding on a sling while someone smacked your nose with poppers.
I am nobody to judge but...
what the hell are you doing??????
and this question now?, you've probably heard it before but yep, seek help..
That would have been a great idea if I still lived in Montreal!
I actually host games nights where I live now at my place. Lately though, we have been playing Cards Against Humanity instead of video games (because Cards Against Humanity is HILARIOUS with a bunch of friends).
Whoa...
No. It's not something I have ever thought, nor do I think it's something that would ever cross my mind.
Have you thought about what might be causing the depression?
p_xavier
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Well I have so much anxiety build up prior to meeting people, will I get HIV?, etc. Two of my friends got it even if they practiced safe sex, so it's probably just a matter of time anyways.
Mystic Theurge
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Necromanti
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Since I had also become fed up with online dating, I joined a "gaymer" group on Meetup. It was pretty hard to make my way into the group since they mostly kept to the people they knew best, but I managed to make a decent friend. Of course, he later says that he has a crush on me and tries to court me, so I have to awkwardly friendzone him.
The second time I go a few months later, the owner and creator of the group asks me out on a date. I say no thank you but that I'm fine with hanging out since in interested in making friends. I wasn't really impressed with being told the fact that he had fucked a lot of the guys in the group despite insisting that the group does not exist for such a reason. When the time comes for me to leave and catch my bus, he awkwardly tries to make out with me and I'm like "WTF?" and leave. Haven't spoken to him or been back since.
I'm starting to question the viability of gay friends for myself, since I've distanced myself from one due to him propositioning out of the blue one day, and then another who wants to mess around behind his boyfriend's back.
It must be some bizarre twist of fate when I can neither make gay friends without them pouncing on me, while all the same not finding a date. I'm not too bothered by it, though.
What the fuck? No. Don't do it. That's a common mindset in the bug chaser/indiscriminate bareback community, but didn't think I would see it here.
kitchenmotors
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