How do you date a beautiful woman?

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Everyone needs to use their own advantages.

If you're rich, drive around in your Ferrari constantly and try to pick women up from it.

If you're in really good shape, go to the beach and don't leave. Never wear a shirt if you don't have to, fuck those no shirt no service signs. You're in shape so they don't apply to you.

I don't know any other advantages.
 
Everyone needs to use their own advantages.

If you're rich, drive around in your Ferrari constantly and try to pick women up from it.

If you're in really good shape, go to the beach and don't leave. Never wear a shirt if you don't have to, fuck those no shirt no service signs. You're in shape so they don't apply to you.

I don't know any other advantages.

Charm?
 
Well I've been single for a month or so and met someone. We went on our first date last night and we have a lot in common but ..... she is amazingly beautiful. I mean I find her so beautiful my eyes can't find an imperfection anywhere. It's really tough to snap out of it and be myself. I'm fighting myself not to text/call too much. It's like I'm in fucking highschool.

Has anyone seriously successfully dated someone they found the most physically attractive person they have ever seen? It's tripping me out.

Go to a hypnotherapist and do an anti-Shallow Hal. Have them program you to see her as a fatty.

Problem solved.
 
Let's just imagine that it's her

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can we (I) get a name so we (I) can oogle her?
 
If you ever feel like you are putting her on a pedestal just tell yourself she probably puts her milk before her cereal.
 
f you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, Never make a pretty woman your wife. So from my personal point of view, Get an ugly girl to marry you.
 
Never had problems with picking out physical flaws on anyone. Made me really picky, but past a certain level it also made me not put anyone's looks on a pedestal.

I think my wife is the most attractive person I've ever been interested in dating, but that's not why I married her. Have some confidence in yourself and stop getting hung up on looks, looking pretty won't matter very long.
 
Don't over think things and don't be afraid to lose her at any time. Same for any partner, regardless of perceived beauty.
 
Has anyone seriously successfully dated someone they found the most physically attractive person they have ever seen? It's tripping me out.
Just realize that some day you will have nights where you'd rather go to sleep than have sex with her.
 
I dated probably one of the most beautiful woman at school. Tall, skinny, long haired, intelligent girl and Im just a guy who is slightly overweight here. I got a gut. lol.
To sum it up, she thought I was cute then talked to me and liked my intelligence, goals for life, mannerisms and then it became more and we went out.

Looks dont really matter much, its all about through their eyes on how they see you and if they have the courage to talk to you first.
 
Have any of you guys noticed that a lot of ugly chicks don't really check you out or approach you? I think of myself as a pretty good looking guy so I never understood that.

It's the same reason ugly dudes don't usually try and hit on beautiful women. For the most part, they know they don't have a chance. Although an ugly guy definitely has a better shot with a gorgeous woman than the other way around.
 
f you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, Never make a pretty woman your wife. So from my personal point of view, Get an ugly girl to marry you.

Hah, Jaded.

I was looking for the appropriate hotdamnirock video, but can't find it.

At any rate, I've heard the line of thinking before, and it comes from insecurity. Just finished reading this book, and the author proposed something along the lines of "the more security one seeks is the less secure they'll be." Some attractive people can be trusted, some cannot.
 
Accept that you don't know enough about her yet, so you are focusing on the physical, which may well be awesome.

Looks may fade with time, but fortunately you have a world of other qualities to discover about each other. You may well grow to despise some of them.

Take it easy and relax. All is well so far. If it's still fantastic in six months and then 2 years time, congratulations, you just won dating :D
 
The first attractive woman you date probably isn't going to work out. But the second one, after realizing in hindsight that the first one you dated was, is and always will be a wreck just like everybody else, may work out though.
We can all talk about the pedestal but it wont go anywhere for many without some actual experience.

Of all the things someone has to offer to a relationship, being attractive doesn't amount to much in the long run and it's only one of many many many things that matter.

My wife is hot and gets hit on all the time, even while I'm holding her hand. She's sometimes too oblivious to realize, so I usually have to point it out to her. Then we laugh as I pick on her a little bit and it's the laughing was what makes her so great, not the ogling of other guys or the idea that she is worthy of ogling. Who cares? There are guys out there that would whistle at a tree that is shaped slightly like a female of the species.

I'll be the first to say I put my wife on a pedestal, cause she deserved it. I got to know her and she's awesome and I can deal with the parts of her that aren't. It took months of dating before I realized that though. Months. Not a picture or the first date. First date, she was another woman (and I another guy) and chances were A. there was something about her that was a deal breaker (or vice versa). B. she was nothing special. and C. A second date was not going to happen, so why not just be yourself and see what happens?
 
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