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I am versatile though, just not when it comes to oral.

I find this incredibly interesting. Only because it's the exact opposite of me. To be honest, I'm not even that into the whole anal thing to begin with. It's probably why I'd never have any sort of group sex either. Which brings me to my next point.

There's something really worrying, to me, about group sex. It's probably the anonymity but I haven't accepted any of the invites for it. I guess it's probably the increased chance for stds and the decreased assurance of personal safety.
 
few people are good doing oral. As a receiver, I normally go sceptical into it.

when you find someone who can deep throat and is really into it, then it's pure sexual bliss.
 
I enjoy blowing my bf but the other day I tried deepthroating and was doing good until
I basically threw up a little on my mouth when the gag reflex hit...luckily I pulled off and excused myself to.the bathroom.

I'm a bottom lol
 
I enjoy blowing my bf but the other day I tried deepthroating and was doing good until
I basically threw up a little on my mouth when the gag reflex hit...luckily I pulled off and excused myself to.the bathroom.

I'm a bottom lol

I remember reading that you can suppress your gag reflex by squeezing your thumb. Maybe that works?
 
I didn't expect people to be vocal about the sex part here :D Anyway, just keep it safe. Here in Manila, there's a lot of infected guys already.
 
I find this incredibly interesting. Only because it's the exact opposite of me. To be honest, I'm not even that into the whole anal thing to begin with. It's probably why I'd never have any sort of group sex either.

One doesn't imply the other. There are some (sad) porn videos that are just oral.

Which brings me to my next point. There's something really worrying, to me, about group sex. It's probably the anonymity but I haven't accepted any of the invites for it. I guess it's probably the increased chance for stds and the decreased assurance of personal safety.

So what you're saying is, that it would need to be with guys you trust?

Hmm....
 
You know you're good at giving blowjobs, when the straight guys come back for seconds.

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Also I couldn't even imagine being with someone who didn't give blowjobs. It would be like being with someone who wasn't a gamer.
 
Giving blowjobs is pretty great. The first time was a bit, er, "daunting" (only thing I could think of was "Oh god I'm sucking a dick") but I got pretty good at it (apparently) after a while. I enjoy giving them a lot now :D
 
I'm not a gamer either. How is it comparable though?


I was just pointing out two things my boyfriend must do/be to be my husband. If I had a boyfriend who didn't game he would hate me because I spend so many hours gaming.

I will say that you should at least try sucking dick. It's amazing ;)
 
Things seem to be moving towards a relationship. I think I'm slightly more relaxed about it. There have been a couple of awkward moments regarding my situation with my ex but we've gotten over them.

I just have some issues because I do care a lot about my ex, he had a really rough year, including me breaking up with him and I don't find it easy to tell him: "look, I've moved on" even though it was going to happen sooner or later. So I've been trying to make it as less painful as possible, though I might end up hurting both him and the new guy. I talked to him and we're good but I still feel wary about how much to show him/tell him, specially because things have moved quite fast.

This guy asked me a couple of days ago if I was sure I didn't need more time to find out if I was ready to be in a new relationship / with someone, so it seems he's falling quite hard for me. Again I told him that I still had some issues with my past, specially not being totally over the guy I sort of dumped my ex for. I tried to made clear that I wasn't just fooling around with him neither.

We've seen each other pretty much everyday for the last couple of weeks and I'm not really sure I like that but I'm hoping it will just wear off a bit eventually. I'm not sure why is it that I feel that way, though to some degree I believe it's because that's how my first relationship went. We barely spent any days appart since the day we started dating, for 5 years. So I just don't want a repeat of my old relationship, even though it was very good while it lasted.
 
Giving blowjobs is pretty great. The first time was a bit, er, "daunting" (only thing I could think of was "Oh god I'm sucking a dick") but I got pretty good at it (apparently) after a while. I enjoy giving them a lot now :D


Francis, Brian, and Ron came back multiple times so I guess that's it. :D

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All the best to you
 
few people are good doing oral. As a receiver, I normally go sceptical into it.

when you find someone who can deep throat and is really into it, then it's pure sexual bliss.

I think it's a two-fold situation between lack of experience and lack of communication between partners. Sure, some people can be pretty meh, but that's why we practice!

So what you're saying is, that it would need to be with guys you trust?

Hmm....

Yeah, that's basically the only chance it would have.
 
My ex ex Bf was not into bjs, but I was not bothered by that, he is still the best sex I've ever had, and that will probably have, mother of god.
 
Giving blowjobs is pretty great. The first time was a bit, er, "daunting" (only thing I could think of was "Oh god I'm sucking a dick") but I got pretty good at it (apparently) after a while. I enjoy giving them a lot now :D
Lol, this made me laugh!
Cause I thought the same

My ex was kinda bad at giving a blowjob, it hurt, so it was awkward when I told him...everytime.

Sagi, I owe you the coming out story, I'll write it soon :P
 
I really wish Zevran wasn't the only same sex romance in DAO. Not that I don't like the character. It's just I'm so sick of having to pick him or no one at all. Hell, just once I'd like to romance Alistair.
 
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What about rimming? A lot seem to enjoy being rimmed. They remember god when they receive it

Noooooooooope. I am not someone who does anal unless I really, really, really, really, really trust someone and I am super relaxed with them. So, essentially, that is an act saved for a partner, not a fling.
 
Honestly I find anal really unintimate and distracting unless I'm really well acquainted with the other guy. Not a hookup thing. (Also, unsafe.)

Oh here comes the condoms. Now the lube. Oh, you want a popper? Classy. Hey I think I'm leaving now, ok? Yeah, I'll call you.

I just don't fetishise it at all, I guess.

As a versatile guy leaning on the bottom side, I would be PISSED if I didn't get a blowjob.
Also, yeah, this. I was joking up there, but the only time I've actually hit the brakes on a meeting and walked out was in a similar situation. See the second episode of Louie season three. :p
 
Man, anyone else have a really cheesy/silly dream date they've always fantasized about?

I've always wanted to get together with a guy for dinner and a movie, but instead of going out we rent something and make the dinner together. Always wanted to cook alongside someone. It's cute, romantic, and you get a good idea of well the two of you work together.

I've brought this up to just about every guy I've felt anything serious with and it's never happened. :(
 
Man, anyone else have a really cheesy/silly dream date they've always fantasized about?

I've always wanted to get together with a guy for dinner and a movie, but instead of going out we rent something and make the dinner together. Always wanted to cook alongside someone. It's cute, romantic, and you get a good idea of well the two of you work together.

I've brought this up to just about every guy I've felt anything serious with and it's never happened. :(

You're not alone, that sounds pretty ideal in my books too. Someday!
 
I mostly date students. We don't cook much. :(
Really? I find it so much cheaper to cook my own stuff, although I know that some unis offer meal plans.

Haven't really cooked often with other people, though, more than once or twice (mainly because I'm slightly OCD). Made slutty brownies last week with a BFF, but that doesn't really count.
 
Man, anyone else have a really cheesy/silly dream date they've always fantasized about?

I've always wanted to get together with a guy for dinner and a movie, but instead of going out we rent something and make the dinner together. Always wanted to cook alongside someone. It's cute, romantic, and you get a good idea of well the two of you work together.

I've brought this up to just about every guy I've felt anything serious with and it's never happened. :(

Too many cooks in the kitchen...

Actually, did this a bit with the ex. It was nice. He was kind of useless for cooking but still adorable to have the help. Honestly, I prefer this type of date over restaurants and drinks.
 
Couple of wrestlers were naked in the lockerroom, was kinda weird. I slightly oggled, but only slightly. I try not to be that guy.

My friend told me once that there are a lot of gays at the gym he works in and they literally sit in the lockerroom and ogle other guys, making things quite uncomfortable. So yeah, I try to not be that guy too. But sometimes, when there are several handsome, well build guys in the lockerrom/under showers it's hard to resist and I feel like a weirdo turning my head away, trying to not to look, when everyone else are acting comfortable ._.
 
Do you think giving a scrapbook to the person you like on his birthday is such an adorable thing? The scrapbook would then have some stuff/moments you had together.
 
i get the idea, but i'd much rather go out to a nice restaurant. i absolutely hate cooking. as cute as it is to cook with someone, it never stops feeling like a chore to me. it's just not my thing i guess.

i actually am supposed to cook dinner for my bf tonight and i'm stressing out about it. he's on the paleo diet and i have mostly only ever cooked out of a box or made salad. i know he's going to want red meat of some sort, which i am not an expert of cooking, and he doesn't even have a working thermometer.
 
I don't like cooking with someone else. I feel they get in the way and don't do things like I want them done most of the time. But I greatly enjoy cooking for my boyfriend though.
 
Lol, this made me laugh!
Cause I thought the same

haha, you guys say it like it's a dream come true,
lol it is!!


My friend told me once that there are a lot of gays at the gym he works in and they literally sit in the lockerroom and ogle other guys, making things quite uncomfortable. So yeah, I try to not be that guy too. But sometimes, when there are several handsome, well build guys in the lockerrom/under showers it's hard to resist and I feel like a weirdo turning my head away, trying to not to look, when everyone else are acting comfortable ._.

I ogle with a straight-guy attitude, like everyone else does, they love to compare themselves and would love to measure your tits (chest), your ass, your cock, your biceps, everything.

and I don't like most of the guys that are showering so I won't get a hard on or anything, it's easy.

only one guy has really left me impressed with the form and size of his soft cock, that was a sight to behold, I can't imagine how will that look fully erect, incredible. Those cocks do exist.
 
Honestly I find anal really unintimate and distracting unless I'm really well acquainted with the other guy. Not a hookup thing. (Also, unsafe.)

Oh here comes the condoms. Now the lube. Oh, you want a popper? Classy. Hey I think I'm leaving now, ok? Yeah, I'll call you.

I just don't fetishise it at all, I guess.


Also, yeah, this. I was joking up there, but the only time I've actually hit the brakes on a meeting and walked out was in a similar situation. See the second episode of Louie season three. :p

Honestly if anyone got poppers out while we were having sex I would kthxbye outta there. Probably a bit hypocritical given that I have smoked pot and had sex but just getting it out makes it so much more... mechanical. Like you need to take your prescription before taking it up the butt.

Man, anyone else have a really cheesy/silly dream date they've always fantasized about?

I've always wanted to get together with a guy for dinner and a movie, but instead of going out we rent something and make the dinner together. Always wanted to cook alongside someone. It's cute, romantic, and you get a good idea of well the two of you work together.

I've brought this up to just about every guy I've felt anything serious with and it's never happened. :(

It's cute, I've done it a few times. Although I'd rather cook myself and have the guy talk to me and drink wine or whatever. Maybe he can cut an onion or a tomato.

Too many cooks in the kitchen...
This.

[Edit] Twice first post in a row, I'm on a roll. #50postsperpagedealwithit
 
Honestly if anyone got a popper out while we were having sex I would kthxbye outta there. Probably a bit hypocritical given that I have smoked pot and had sex but just getting it out makes it so much more... mechanical. Like you need to take your prescription before taking it up the butt.

What the hell is a popper?

I ogle with a straight-guy attitude, like everyone else does, they love to compare themselves and would love to measure your tits (chest), your ass, your cock, your biceps, everything.

I've been going to the wrong gyms.
 
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