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Mr_Zombie said:
Wait, didn't she come out years ago? At least that what I've read - that although she didn't have her official public coming out before, she also didn't really kept that information as some kind of a secret. People who followed her knew that she's a lesbian. So her Golden Globes speech wasn't really a coming out per se, she simply described her life.
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That's what I always thought.
 
Started P90X today. Posting here to keep myself honest and, if I fall off the wagon, shamed. My poor, fragile upper-body.
 
Alrus said:
It's weird, I never found anyone in my high school attractive.
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I did. Only one or two stand out in my mind. I remember writing him a letter i never sent it was some rant about how his girlfriend didn't like him. He's on my Facebook. He's still pretty good looking but I dont think I would be into him now.
 
RatskyWatsky said:
Gay articles you mean? Not really, though a lot of people are talking about Jodie Foster's "coming out" at the Golden Globes. I saw a bunch of articles over on the Huffington Post about it, though I haven't read them.

Why I'm So Angry About Jodie Foster's Coming-Out Speech
Why Jodie Foster's Golden Globes Speech Matters
Why Jodie Foster's Golden Globes Speech Was So Infuriating

I also saw this article on movieline - Jodie Foster's Privacy Plea Ignores Hollywood Homophobia
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Jesus, the amount of vitriol in there is amazing.
 
Rez said:
Started P90X today. Posting here to keep myself honest and, if I fall off the wagon, shamed. My poor, fragile upper-body.
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Good luck man. The first couple of weeks are the worst, but once you start seeing results it's the best.
I'm finishing up my 6th round, it's a great program and I love it.
 
Rez said:
Started P90X today. Posting here to keep myself honest and, if I fall off the wagon, shamed. My poor, fragile upper-body.
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Good luck. You'll probably need it, but you'll start to feel strong as hell pretty quick. Make sure you write down what you do! It's a great way to see your progress even if you don't feel it. Best of luck!
 
I'm not sure if this is the right to place to write this, it involves a girl with whom I had some sort of relationship years ago... so, we remained friends, but some months ago I realized she is obsessed with me. Out of nowhere she asked me to get her pregnant -yeah, seems she's nuts-, she told me that it wasn't because she was into me, it was because she wanted my genes, that I'm probably her only chance to get a smart, slim, pale kid (she's also obsessed with Twilight, so me being this pale monster is so attractive and "oh so edward like!"). Obviously, I said NO to her, even though she explained that I didn't have to take care of the baby or give him my last name, it was just to give her a baby. Two weeks ago she was texting me and said that we should try to have a real relationship, I tried to explained her that I don't like her anymore, but she just keeps texting me all the time "why you don't call meeeee? :'(". I don't know what to do, I already told her that I don't like her and don't know how to explain it to her again. I feel like I should just stop talking to her, but we've been friends for a long time, I don't really want to hurt her and to be honest, I'm starting to get scared. This could end like Misery.

Oh I forgot to add that like a year ago she got a boyfriend that looks a lot like me, they're not together anymore but...


Sai-kun said:
ugh every member of coldplay is just too attractive
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Too bad their music is awful.
 
Mr_Zombie said:
Wait, didn't she come out years ago? At least that what I've read - that although she didn't have her official public coming out before, she also didn't really kept that information as some kind of a secret. People who followed her knew that she's a lesbian. So her Golden Globes speech wasn't really a coming out per se, she simply described her life.
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She sort of did, but the media didn't cover it as such, which is a can of worms in itself.

Dead Man said:
Jesus, the amount of vitriol in there is amazing.
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Don't be so dismissive. There are a ton of good points in there.
 
Wilsongt said:
Well, I found some gray hair this morning.
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Welcome to the club. I'm 32 and I've got grey on my temples. I think it looks cool (the closer I look to Paulie Walnuts the happier I am) but I really like grey hair, and I've wanted it. Just thankful I'm not losing any, nor will I according to my genetics.
 
Trigger said:
The transformation into a silver fox has begun.
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Preach it, Sis.

Sunflower said:
Welcome to the club. I'm 32 and I've got grey on my temples. I think it looks cool (the closer I look to Paulie Walnuts the happier I am) but I really like grey hair, and I've wanted it. Just thankful I'm not losing any, nor will I according to my genetics.
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I love it when guys have that patch of salt and pepper hair on the sides.
 
Think you're getting them for a specific reason or anything? Mine started turning the more stress I had with my job. It's high pressure so it's only natural I'd start to wilt.
 
Nlroh said:
I'm not sure if this is the right to place to write this, it involves a girl with whom I had some sort of relationship years ago... so, we remained friends, but some months ago I realized she is obsessed with me. Out of nowhere she asked me to get her pregnant -yeah, seems she's nuts-, she told me that it wasn't because she was into me, it was because she wanted my genes, that I'm probably her only chance to get a smart, slim, pale kid (she's also obsessed with Twilight, so me being this pale monster is so attractive and "oh so edward like!"). Obviously, I said NO to her, even though she explained that I didn't have to take care of the baby or give him my last name, it was just to give her a baby. Two weeks ago she was texting me and said that we should try to have a real relationship, I tried to explained her that I don't like her anymore, but she just keeps texting me all the time "why you don't call meeeee? :'(". I don't know what to do, I already told her that I don't like her and don't know how to explain it to her again. I feel like I should just stop talking to her, but we've been friends for a long time, I don't really want to hurt her and to be honest, I'm starting to get scared. This could end like Misery.

Oh I forgot to add that like a year ago she got a boyfriend that looks a lot like me, they're not together anymore but...




Too bad their music is awful.
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If push comes to shove, get a restraining order as this girl sounds really out there.

Wilsongt said:
Well, I found some gray hair this morning.
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Be honest, it was a pubic hair wasn't it :p
 
Sunflower said:
Think you're getting them for a specific reason or anything? Mine started turning the more stress I had with my job. It's high pressure so it's only natural I'd start to wilt.
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I'm only 27, and most of my family didn't start going gray until late 30s/early 40s, so I am assuming it is just general stress with grad school/life.
 
Wilsongt said:
I'm only 27, and most of my family didn't start going gray until late 30s/early 40s, so I am assuming it is just general stress with grad school/life.
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Ah, well, don't worry. Grey is awesome.
 
Rm88~ said:
So it turns out I might not be in Japan by February.

:(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((

On the bright side, I found Goemon's Great Adventure for ~$5.4 USD. Oh, and to keep this on topic, here's Guy Berryman looking amazing:
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Goemon's Great Adventure is awesome!!! So many memories!
And the soundtrack <3
 
Wilsongt said:
I'm only 27, and most of my family didn't start going gray until late 30s/early 40s, so I am assuming it is just general stress with grad school/life.
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I started graying at 18. I'm also 27 now and the gray just keep on coming. I have 2 cousins who also started going gray early, one of which is a girl and I have to say that we all look pretty handsome.
I got complimented on it by a very cute guy this weekend so it can definitely be an advantage. If you really don't like it you can always cover it.

The only downside is that sometime people think I'm 35. I have to admit that that one still hurts.
 
I'm 23 and have had a few rogue gray hairs, but it's never bothered me. I wouldn't mind greying early and growing into that look Anderson Cooper style.
 
I'm 25, my passport photo (taken today) looks -exactly- like my ID photo which was taken 7 years ago, except my hair is longer (which somehow makes me look younger). It's going to suck if at some point I age very quickly all the aging I have skipped so far, lol.

EDIT: By the way, I was asked if I'm over 18 while applying for my passport today.
 
Rm88~ said:
I'm 25, my passport photo (taken today) looks -exactly- like my ID photo which was taken 7 years ago, except my hair is longer (which somehow makes me look younger). It's going to suck if at some point I age very quickly all the aging I have skipped so far, lol.
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I got a buddy who looked 25 into his mid 40s, then over the course of 2 years (and a horrible meth habit that ruined him) aged into what appeared to be his early 70s. Damn meth...don't touch that stuff, folks.
 
Wilsongt said:
I'm only 27, and most of my family didn't start going gray until late 30s/early 40s, so I am assuming it is just general stress with grad school/life.
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there's a huge difference between getting a gray hair or two and 'going gray'. there's a good chance they had a few gray hairs long before they started and they probably just don't remember.

it's not uncommon for people to get a few grey hairs in their late teens and in their 20s. they won't start really getting gray hairs until much later. don't stress.
 
I have a few greys coming in on my sides, but according to my genetics I won't be balding anytime soon. I just got my hair back, so I'd rather not rock the bald look again. It was fine, but I miss my hair and look better with it.
 
some gray hair in younger guys is cool, completely gray/white, healthy hair in older guys is also pretty cool and attractive, but that's mostly reserved for blond guys.

some older men in their 50s here in Germany can look very good.
 
kitchenmotors said:
I have a few greys coming in on my sides, but according to my genetics I won't be balding anytime soon. I just got my hair back, so I'd rather not rock the bald look again. It was fine, but I miss my hair and look better with it.
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Genetics should have spared me the balding too!

Truth is I'm being paranoid, I'm just thinning my hair like everyone in the family, but no one in my family went full bald, its still more upsetting than it should be.
 
Alrus said:
I have a few grey hair since I'm 12 or something. It's only in one spot and it's so few of them I usually never see them.



What the hell does hairloss have to do with bottoming? I don't get it >.>
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People can see your head when giving it to you? I don't know I'm confused too.
 
Rm88~ said:
I'm 25, my passport photo (taken today) looks -exactly- like my ID photo which was taken 7 years ago, except my hair is longer (which somehow makes me look younger). It's going to suck if at some point I age very quickly all the aging I have skipped so far, lol.

EDIT: By the way, I was asked if I'm over 18 while applying for my passport today.
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I'm 30 and I still get asked for ID. Happened last night when buying Far Cry 3 (I've only just gotten around to it). The older you get the nicer it is to be asked :)
 
I don't have gray hair yet (27yo here), although I wouldn't mind that - gray hair can look quite sexy ;). However, I know I will soon probably start balding - my father has receding hairline and looking at my forehead, so will I. Fuck that. :/
 
Random, but I always roll my eyes when people downplay the importance of physical attraction, and say shit like "looks fade". Looks or physiques don't have to fade, if anything I believe they simply mature. Some guys look even more beautiful as they age. You don't have to get old and fat.
 
Well, I don't know a lot of attractive 90 years old men. But I agree :P I want at the very least to remain slim and healthy when I get older.
 
DarthWufei said:
Random, but I always roll my eyes when people downplay the importance of physical attraction, and say shit like "looks fade". Looks or physiques don't have to fade, if anything I believe they simply mature. Some guys look even more beautiful as they age. You don't have to get old and fat.
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physical attraction does matter of course, otherwise we could date women, but as I've said before it is far more malleable than people think and standards are sometimes absurd, specially in gay circles.

it is not exclusive to gay people though, all men are similar in that regard, but between gay people is more noticeable for obvious reasons.
 
almost everyone can look good at any age.. if you search for pics of older guys (over 50) around the net, some are in incredible good shape. The catch is that they began taking care of their bodies many years before.

having a shitty life for 30 years and then all of a sudden wanting to get a nice body can pose quite a challenge.
 
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