How do you date a beautiful woman?

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gatti-man said:
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Im 33 shes 31. I dont think she would mind these pics as they are in her FB but yeah i hope this doesnt piss her off. Im still in lalaland about everything. She is the coolest girl Ive ever been with.

Oh and give me some dap gaf I came through with pics!


Edit yes my pic is cheesey/dumb/lame etc im not photogenic and always feel like an idiot taking photos. I dont have any just random decent ones of me that are SFW
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I don't get the problem here OP. I'm not gay or anything (not that there is anything wrong with it (seinfeld :P))like that but you don't seem to be a bad looking guy...I'd say you>her in fact. Besides you always got Aguirre as a backup :P
 
I'm gonna make one statement that basically sums up a bunch of stuff I know about women. I've dated this woman before and I know what she's about.

Yo, that girl may look amazing, but she's probably not as amazing in every way. Beauty is just one part of an overall person, and she is probably aware of that unless she's also nuts. The beautiful girl I dated had lots of issues, but was also a very nice person too. Now she's dating some mildly successful, mildly attractive guy that's probably got more of the ghetto masculine characteristics that she finds appealing in men. No hate, that's just what she's after. Girls are after different stuff, and only sometimes is 'you should be as incredibly attractive as I am' important.

Also, I agree with the above. You > her. The girl I dated was a few steps higher and I'm a few steps below you lol. Feel instilled with the confidence you deserve.
 
I'm going to level with you OP. No bullshit like everyone else, just the truth.

She is beautiful. And you are a good looking guy.

Good luck and enjoy.
 
I don't date women, but she seems nice. Good for you two.

Is this thread's twist that most of the guys here are saying that the OP is better looking than she?
 
JBuccCP said:
You look like a skinnier Nathan Fillion.
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*googles Nathan fillion* oh hey that guy thanks!

Thanks for all the kind words about what I look like. I've always had relatively low self esteem about my looks probably because I spent my youth being over weight. That being said I still have confidence but apparently I've sold myself short.

I'm glad to be happy with her though and you guys are right it's more than just looks that I like about her. Just that her looks made me feel imbalanced but not anymore.
 
Just in case anyone cares update time:

We were going out and I accidentally called her my gf so I brought it up later and said it was an accident but that's how I feel about her and asked her what she thought. So we are now officially together and even though we don't plan it we usually end up together by the end of the day. I hope this feeling lasts. She makes me forget about everything. Nothing matters when I'm with her.
 
Are you suggesting that you should treat the woman you're dating differently depending on how she rates on the scale of physical attractiveness?

Anyway, have more confidence in yourself, OP. You look good, too.
 
Taking it from my experience, you date them like you would any other girl!

thats the easty trick to it, be yourself and treat her like anyone else.

I been dating a lot of hot girls and it comes natural once you get used to these top tier girls.
 
robertsan21 said:
I been dating a lot of hot girls and it comes natural once you get used to these top tier girls.
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Avatar quote is almost too easy here.

Anyway OP, as a straight man - I"ll say you're much better looking than your now girlfriend. Beauty, of course, is in the eye of the beholder. Just my observation.

Regardless, make sure you remind her weekly how lucky she has to have someone like you.

Rookje said:
Date someone younger.
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lol. Truthfully speaking - some people age really badly. I'm in my mid-twenties and see people from High School that look almost 30-40ish regularly. Fortunately, the OP's girl is relatively pretty, but certainly looks her age. Unlike his baby face / genes.
 
bjb said:
lol. Truthfully speaking - some people age really badly. I'm in my mid-twenties and see people from High School that look almost 30-40ish regularly. Fortunately, the OP's girl is relatively pretty, but certainly looks her age. Unlike his baby face / genes.
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IMO guys should date girls at least 4 years yonger than them. That's why early 20s are kinda frustrating because when you're 21 you don't want to hookup with anyone younger than you really, but girls want to date older guys. I got "you're nice and cute just too young" a lot, but a lot less lately. I think 26-32 are the golden years for guys.
 
Looks really aren't important in the long term, really. You could be the greatest looking guy in the world but if you don't have self confidence its going to cause relationship problems down the road.

I was always told I was out of my ex-gf league by my friends. Like you I had self esteem and confidence issues (I used to be overweight too) but after some diet changes and becoming a running nut I turned into this good looking guy. I never felt that way though (still don't). In my mind I was still the overweight kid who didn't deserve to be with a smart, funny attractive girl. My gf moved away, I think mostly because of my insecurities and being afraid of going after what i wanted.

Go do the things you enjoy and have long term goals to make that happiness a reality. If she down for the ride, fantastic. If not, it wasn't meant to be anyway.
 
Rookje said:
IMO guys should date girls at least 4 years yonger than them. That's why early 20s are kinda frustrating because when you're 21 you don't want to hookup with anyone younger than you really, but girls want to date older guys. I got "you're nice and cute just too young" a lot, but a lot less lately. I think 26-32 are the golden years for guys.
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I'm in that zone right now, fucking sucks man.
 
gatti-man said:
Just in case anyone cares update time:

We were going out and I accidentally called her my gf so I brought it up later and said it was an accident but that's how I feel about her and asked her what she thought. So we are now officially together and even though we don't plan it we usually end up together by the end of the day. I hope this feeling lasts. She makes me forget about everything. Nothing matters when I'm with her.
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so this means you will be posting pics of her nonstop in the Post yuor GF/Fiance/Wife/Lover thread, right?
 
Rookje said:
IMO guys should date girls at least 4 years yonger than them. That's why early 20s are kinda frustrating because when you're 21 you don't want to hookup with anyone younger than you really, but girls want to date older guys. I got "you're nice and cute just too young" a lot, but a lot less lately. I think 26-32 are the golden years for guys.
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I'm in my mid-20s and back in college. I really wish I had a bit more self- confidence to open up and talk to people. I know I'm probably missing a lot of opportunities but not sure what to do about it.
 
If you're still looking for an imperfection, her nose is kinda big. But like most have said, not sure what your problem is here. This seems too excessive for a humble brag thread, so I'm going to assume you're probably just head over heels about her. Just don't put her on a pedestal and try to rub one out if you feel too.... primitive around her.
 
IHaveCandy said:
If you're still looking for an imperfection, her nose is kinda big. But like most have said, not sure what your problem is here. This seems too excessive for a humble brag thread, so I'm going to assume you're probably just head over heels about her. Just don't put her on a pedestal and try to rub one out if you feel too.... primitive around her.
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Ten General Dating Rules That Will Make You Look Better Than Most Men

1. Talk to her, don't text her.
2. When picking her up, don't honk the horn. Knock on the door and meet the parents.
3. Take her to nice restaurants and pay in full until it's been a few dates and she offers.
4. Meet and get in good with her best friends early.
5. Get in good with her Dad. All girls are daddy's girls.
6. Don't get clingly. When she or you want a weekend with friends, don't pout.
7. Fix your demons early or else they'll come back and kill your relationship later.
8. Dress slightly above the occasion the first few dates. (Khakis instead of jeans. Button down instead of t-shirt)
9. Be honest. Don't tell "stories."
10. Center the relationship around interest and curiosity. She's not going to like everything you like, and it's more fun to find new things about a person instead of finding a playmate.

PS: You don't have to talk the entire time. I've said more in a single facial movement than I could have in an entire paragraph sometimes.
 
you being too worried about fucking it up is whats gonna make you fuck it up

edit: op is good looking, girl isnt that amazing looking, thread = :-C
 
Mully said:
Ten General Dating Rules That Will Make You Look Better Than Most Men

1. Talk to her, don't text her.
2. When picking her up, don't honk the horn. Knock on the door and meet the parents.
3. Take her to nice restaurants and pay in full until it's been a few dates and she offers.
4. Meet and get in good with her best friends early.
5. Get in good with her Dad. All girls are daddy's girls.
6. Don't get clingly. When she or you want a weekend with friends, don't pout.
7. Fix your demons early or else they'll come back and kill your relationship later.
8. Dress slightly above the occasion the first few dates. (Khakis instead of jeans. Button down instead of t-shirt)
9. Be honest. Don't tell "stories."
10. Center the relationship around interest and curiosity. She's not going to like everything you like, and it's more fun to find new things about a person instead of finding a playmate.

PS: You don't have to talk the entire time. I've said more in a single facial movement than I could have in an entire paragraph sometimes.
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Worst advice ever. All of it,
 
IHaveCandy said:
If you're still looking for an imperfection, her nose is kinda big. But like most have said, not sure what your problem is here. This seems too excessive for a humble brag thread, so I'm going to assume you're probably just head over heels about her. Just don't put her on a pedestal and try to rub one out if you feel too.... primitive around her.
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Could you explain to me the meaning of "put her on a pedestal" and "try to rub one out" and their context?
 
She looks better than he does. Of course, I'm unreliable on this question. I suppose he looks alright for a guy.
 
gatti-man said:
Well I've been single for a month or so and met someone. We went on our first date last night and we have a lot in common but ..... she is amazingly beautiful. I mean I find her so beautiful my eyes can't find an imperfection anywhere. It's really tough to snap out of it and be myself. I'm fighting myself not to text/call too much. It's like I'm in fucking highschool.

Has anyone seriously successfully dated someone they found the most physically attractive person they have ever seen? It's tripping me out.
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Hahahaha, my current partner. No, seriously. She was a model back then. Marlboro girl for racing events, modeled for Cartier, biking model, semi-nudes, etc.

She was, and still is, the most stunningly beautiful woman I've ever met in person - and like you, I found it too much at first to approach her. I always thought that someone that beautiful *must* already be taken.

Well, turns out she was single at the time but I would have never known had I not drank half a dozen beers before mustering the courage to call her.

And this was all thanks to what my friend said to me when I was vacillating whether to call her or not. He said: "If you don't call her, someone else will."

Worse that can happen is a "no". If you never try, you will never know.

So, do it!
 
Mully said:
Worst troll ever.
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"Don't text her" - hahaha ppl don't wanna be called all da time
"All girls are daddy's girls" - how u know this?
"Button down instead of t-shirt"- and look like a dweeb
"Knock and meet da parents" - they ain't teenagers
"Pay in full first few dates" - :lol

Don't listen to this shit OP. there ain't no datin rules.
 
I've found that beautiful women aren't worth my trouble. When I've dated "down" I've been appreciated more, the sex was better, and I had more fun.
 
Rookje said:
IMO guys should date girls at least 4 years yonger than them. That's why early 20s are kinda frustrating because when you're 21 you don't want to hookup with anyone younger than you really, but girls want to date older guys. I got "you're nice and cute just too young" a lot, but a lot less lately. I think 26-32 are the golden years for guys.
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This sucks for me since I like older women more.
 
i-Lo said:
Could you explain to me the meaning of "put her on a pedestal" and "try to rub one out" and their context?
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It just means to not act as if she is greater than she is. And that he should masturbate before dates if he is sexually nervous around her. It will keep his mind off sex for a few hours
 
FreeMufasa said:
"Don't text her" - hahaha ppl don't wanna be called all da time
"All girls are daddy's girls" - how u know this?
"Button down instead of t-shirt"- and look like a dweeb
"Knock and meet da parents" - they ain't teenagers
"Pay in full first few dates" - :lol

Don't listen to this shit OP. there ain't no datin rules.
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We should just bend them over and tell them your name later then. Have some class.
 
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