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Explain to me this pony thing

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But I don't think the bronies can help what they're attracted to. I could be wrong, but I suspect no brony has ever woken up one day and decided "hey, I'm going to be sexually attracted to young cartoon ponies."

I find it particularly sad that the bronies on here have to go to such lengths, perform such bizarre mental gymnastics, and act so indignant just because they know how they'd be treated if they were open about their fantasies and desires.

Come on, what would they be attracted to if there was no show at all?

It's just not a sexual orientation.

I've been told I need to kill myself since before I was 10. Let me assure you, it doesn't feel any better to hear it because I enjoy a damned tv show.

After all, it's still me who is wrong to like this show. It's my fault and according to many I need mental care because of it.

The sad part is the show isn't even good any more; it's sucked since early Season 2. I'm still here defending it because I just can't understand the hate.

There is nothing wrong about liking the show (at all), I doubt many here would complain about that. It's when people see it as something sexual when it shouldn't be that's the problem.

I have to admit I feel little sympathy for people who defend it as some sort of life style when it completely isn't.

This whole thing has be tainted by those people.
 
Wait, so you willingly put yourself in a situation where people treat you like shit? I'm not sure the brony haters are the problem here.

UGH.
Is being open about liking a show "putting yourself in a situation where people treat you like shit?" I mean, that shit is pretty blatant victim shaming.
Guy likes something > Someone makes fun of him for that > "Hey man, you shouldn't have been open about liking it!"
How about you save some of that for the actual asshole who treats him like shit?!

I can say that I've never treated a brony (or anime nerd, Star Wars nerds, etc.) with disrespect because of their interests. That said, I will hold a some reservation for the people who are sexually aroused by cartoon ponies.

It's not like I don't get treated the same way. (Try bringing up video games and internet forums at a dinner with a lady friend.) Sure, you can propose that we all treat each other equally over interests and recarve the stone and so forth, but eh, as a fellow victim of similar societal "oppression", I think the much more realistic solution is to fuck the haters, keep enjoying what you enjoy, but hey, keep it to yourself.

It shouldn't have to be said, but of course LGBT groups and victims of racism are not in the scope of what I've just said.
Well, I'm not going to write the same thing again - I guess I couldn't get through, and there's nothing I can do about it. I rather be as open about myself as I want and fuck the haters. I just don't understand why you all feel the need to blame the victims rather than the people who make them feel like shit. But suite yourself I guess.

That and comparing the fact that people don't get it to the plight to homosexuality and civil rights. Not really doing themselves favors.

As for not harming anyone if I was buying my child a toy I'd be pretty annoyed with this little gathering:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1tbsz1-_6g

My god... invading a public space with their vile existence? Have the bronies monsters no limits? Is nothing sacred?
 
I know WAY more bronies than you do. Almost nobody acts like that. In my years of wearing a pony sticker at my very public workplace I've seen literally one person who has started fangasaming over it. She was a girl, for reference.

Methinks people see one person act this way and assume everyone behaves in the same manner, even if the person they see exists on a video on the internet. Most pony fans are just normal people who happen to enjoy the show.

Why do you wear a pony sticker?
 
Wait, so you willingly put yourself in a situation where people treat you like shit? I'm not sure the brony haters are the problem here.
*Shrug* What can I say, I believe that with reasoned discussion understanding can be had. It's an unrealistic mindset, to be sure. What can I say, I like to hold some hope that not some people have open minds about stuff.

I stopped hiding who I am when I graduated from highschool. It's not worth it.
I can enjoy the Star Wars prequels without the need to compare my struggle for acceptance with the Civil Rights Movement.
Conversely, I can not compare two struggles personally I've experienced without somebody spouting some unnecessary bullshit like this.

Odd how that works.
Why do you wear a pony sticker?

I was brought up in an Evangelical Christian household, so I when I was young I believed that gays were evil and corrupting America. Let's just say I've never been completely secure in my sexuality, and it helps to see a bigger target to attract the insults. I like the wristband because it helps me feel more confident in myself while (usually) not attracting too much undue attention.

As far as the sticker, a bunch of coworkers have random stickers on their namebadges. My buddy Geo has Growlithe on his name badge. I saw some stickers on sale for a dollar and figured I might as well join in. Similar to the pride band, I see the sticker as a nonoffensive reminder that the stuff I like (as opposed to who I am with the band) is ok. Other times it just serves to remind me of happier things during a hard day. Still other times... it's just a sticker. My other name badge has Fred from Scooby Doo, a character who (up til recently) I thought was the definition of bland.

Essentially the sticker isn't for people visiting my workplace, just like the wristband isn't to help me find a guy to date. Sometimes having these things just to give yourself a happy thought or two during a rough day is enough, you know?
Meh I don't feel like typing this again pretend I was responding to you and giving extra info that you didn't ask for.
 
Why do you wear a pony sticker?

I was brought up in an Evangelical Christian household, so I when I was young I believed that gays were evil and corrupting America. Let's just say I've never been completely secure in my sexuality, and it helps to see a bigger target to attract the insults. I like the wristband because it helps me feel more confident in myself while (usually) not attracting too much undue attention.

As far as the sticker, a bunch of coworkers have random stickers on their namebadges. My buddy Geo has Growlithe on his name badge. I saw some stickers on sale for a dollar and figured I might as well join in. Similar to the pride band, I see the sticker as a nonoffensive reminder that the stuff I like (as opposed to who I am with the band) is ok. Other times it just serves to remind me of happier things during a hard day. Still other times... it's just a sticker. My other name badge has Fred from Scooby Doo, a character who (up til recently) I thought was the definition of bland.

Essentially the sticker isn't for people visiting my workplace, just like the wristband isn't to help me find a guy to date. Sometimes having these things just to give yourself a happy thought or two during a rough day is enough, you know?
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Personally, MLP is not my show. It's noteworthy in that doesn't actively go out of its way to insult my intelligence. It bores me in the sense that it fails to stimulate the part of my brain that has developed past adolescence and entered adulthood. It's the perfect example of a show that my critical self would 'approve' to my child -- from a distance.

There's nothing wrong with watching MLP, I do have some concerns with sexualizing characters meant for kids, obsession with a show that's so fierce someone wraps his identity up in it and the guy in the OP obviously needs a crash course on social appropriateness. I realize for the most part it's harmless, doesn't mean stuffing a flesh light up a plushie is the same thing as Star Trek shipping.


And posts like these represent the opposite extreme to the brony thing, where threads on cartoon animal characters turn into circle-jerks during which people pat themselves on the back for accomplishing the grand feat of being normal compared to the 'socially awkward' freaks who are potentially capable of paedophilia or bestiality -- "but who cares about distinctions when they can be all be lumped under the general category of The Mentally Ill."
 
UGH.
Is being open about liking a show "putting yourself in a situation where people treat you like shit?" I mean, that shit is pretty blatant victim shaming.
Guy likes something > Someone makes fun of him for that > "Hey man, you shouldn't have been open about liking it!"
How about you save some of that for the actual asshole who treats him like shit?!

He said that he doesn't even like the show anymore. He's just defending it because he "just can't understand the hate." That just seems like feeding a persecution complex to me.
 
I just don't get it either. Heard a story about it recently on Marketplace on NPR, and I had heard of the MLP fan thing before, but I just don't get it. I'm not even trying to be mean here or criticizing people who like something that I don't, but, as far as I know, it's something for little girls... But has scores of grown men who are fans. We all like some different things, but this is just something that I don't understand. I dunno.
 
He said that he doesn't even like the show anymore. He's just defending it because he "just can't understand the hate." That just seems like feeding a persecution complex to me.

I still hang out with the community. I'm in ponygaf chat right now.

It is good to know you still hate us though. With the recent lack of pony topics I've not seen nearly as much of you or Jenga. <3
 
Well, I'm not going to write the same thing again - I guess I couldn't get through, and there's nothing I can do about it. I rather be as open about myself as I want and fuck the haters. I just don't understand why you all feel the need to blame the victims rather than the people who make them feel like shit. But suite yourself I guess.
I don't think this is about the ponies. You think that people, no matter what their interest, should be loud and proud. I find that these people can be pretty obnoxious, no matter what the interest. I think that's where we differ. Thanks for the civil discussion.
 
I figure it's some terrible attempt at latching onto something different in order to create some sort of unique identity. It's also the result of not having real friends who will call you out when you're absolutely embarrassing yourself.
 
Maybe you should actually watch it.

I did, they act like any group of nerd I've ever seen. Nothing especially offensive about them. But if they caused Toys 'R Us any problems, I'm quite sure a multi-million dollar corporation can take care of its interest and main revenue source (little kids and their parents) without you or me to help it.
What was so Harmful about it, though? They didn't curse or act inappropriately in any way, are they too ugly?
 
I still hang out with the community. I'm in ponygaf chat right now.

It is good to know you still hate us though. With the recent lack of pony topics I've not seen nearly as much of you or Jenga. <3

And again. Why is there a community...? South Park is hugely popular but I don't ever remember a South Park community chat, let alone a South Park community...
 
And again. Why is there a community...? South Park is hugely popular but I don't ever remember a South Park community chat, let alone a South Park community...
...because somebody made one?

There's animegaf, pokegaf, gaf main chat... take the initiative. Maybe you could meet some people who have similar interests.
 
Why do people have stickers of fotball teams on their cars? Or wear football themed shirts?

Sports are something that can actually be engaged in the real world. You can actually play them and experience them live in person, in reality. Sports are something that have existed for nearly all of recorded history and have been and are a source of civic pride. For most people supporting a sports team isn't just being behind that team but rather the city they live in or have a relationship with.

There's animegaf, pokegaf, gaf main chat... take the initiative. Maybe you could meet some people who have similar interests.

I enjoy watching TV but I would never want to try to associate with somebody because of a tv show. I'm sure I would hate the majority of people who enjoy many of the tv shows that I do. In the same way I hate many of the people who like the sports team I do.
 
Sports are something that can actually be engaged in the real world. You can actually play them and experience them live in person, in reality. Sports are something that have existed for nearly all of recorded history and have been and are a source of civic pride. For most people supporting a sports team isn't just being behind that team but rather the city they live in or have a relationship with.

Let's take a hypothetical situation: Some guy likes Mario, he gets a little 8bit Mario sticker to put on his badge at work. Some people come over, see it, and make fun of him for being a nerd, for liking a game for kids, and for being a general outcast. Whose fault is it?
A. The guy for being open about liking a game.
B. The assholes who made fun of him.

Think carefully.
 
Let's take a hypothetical situation: Some guy likes Mario, he gets a little 8bit Mario sticker to put on his badge at work. Some people come over, see it, and make fun of him for being a nerd, for liking a game for kids, and for being a general outcast. Whose fault is it?
A. The guy for being open about liking a game.
B. The assholes who made fun of him.

Think carefully.

Using Mario for this example doesn't work. He's a socially acceptable cultural icon.
 
Sports are something that can actually be engaged in the real world. You can actually play them and experience them live in person, in reality. Sports are something that have existed for nearly all of recorded history and have been and are a source of civic pride. For most people supporting a sports team isn't just being behind that team but rather the city they live in or have a relationship with.

I enjoy watching TV but I would never want to try to associate with somebody because of a tv show. I'm sure I would hate the majority of people who enjoy many of the tv shows that I do. In the same way I hate many of the people who like the sports team I do.
For most people? What about the others? Surely everyone should be judged on the acts of the few unmentionables. I heard there was a riot due to a football game once. Please don't have a riot, mr football fan
 
Let's take a hypothetical situation: Some guy likes Mario, he gets a little 8bit Mario sticker to put on his badge at work. Some people come over, see it, and make fun of him for being a nerd, for liking a game for kids, and for being a general outcast. Whose fault is it?
A. The guy for being open about liking a game.
B. The assholes who made fun of him.

Think carefully.

C. Everyone likes Mario.

For most people? What about the others? Surely everyone should be judged on the acts of the few unmentionables. I heard there was a riot due to a football game once. Please don't have a riot, mr football fan

There are often riots because of sports. But if somebody gives me shit for liking my teams I'm not going to get offended and wonder why they don't like me for it. I'm just going to shrug it off because that is life.
 
I enjoy watching TV but I would never want to try to associate with somebody because of a tv show. I'm sure I would hate the majority of people who enjoy many of the tv shows that I do. In the same way I hate many of the people who like the sports team I do.

Some humans like associating with people who share similar interests. Not gonna lie, you're probably in the minority of people who don't.

As a sidenote, my tag randomly disappeared. That's what I get for defending ponies on GAF I guess. The comical part is my boyfriend's partner tag remains.
 
Sports are something that can actually be engaged in the real world. You can actually play them and experience them live in person, in reality. Sports are something that have existed for nearly all of recorded history and have been and are a source of civic pride. For most people supporting a sports team isn't just being behind that team but rather the city they live in or have a relationship with.

People have identified with fictional characters for all of recorded history.
 
I understand grown men liking a children's cartoon, or at least I think I do. Hey, I like cartoons myself. But I've seen forums where MLP threads are created and a few weeks later half of the users have pony avatars and are discussing their favorite ponies. So my question isn't exactly how, but why this particular cartoon? What does it have that seems to lure men into a vocal, obnoxious fanbase? I don't get it.

This is what it is for me as well. I enjoy Phineas and Ferb. Hell, I just spent most of last week rewatching Dexters Lab. But it seems like the pony fanbase is...different. There's a level of community there that I just don't understand. Not even adventure time has the same kind of effect I think
 
Using Mario for this example doesn't work. He's a socially acceptable cultural icon.

It did in the 80's. For the few that liked Mario, they had a Mario Fan Club. So that people who liked Mario could associate with each other and relate to each other. These people were ridiculed for playing video games and it was seen as a bad habit, and that people get addicted to it.
 
C. Everyone likes Mario.

A FF4 character then. Amaterasu from Okami. Whatever character you want. And also, that's bullshit, many people don't give a shit about Mario.

But whatever, if you want to miss the point, go ahead.
 
By the way the guy I made this thread about was raised Christian and is still into Christianity while being a brony. He puts a lot of emphasis on faith and seeks comfort in god and ponies.

There are two necklaces he never takes off: A cross and Rainbow Dash's cutie mark.
 
By the way the guy I made this thread about was raised Christian and is still into Christianity while being a brony. He puts a lot of emphasis on faith and seeks comfort in god and ponies.

There are two necklaces he never takes off: A cross and Rainbow Dash's cutie mark.

He has a necklace too?

lol
 
He has a necklace too?

lol

On the average day he will have the following:

- Rainbow Dash necklace
- Rainbow Dash sunglasses
- "20% Cooler" shoulder strap bag
- "20% Cooler" jacket
- Rainbow Dash "SWAG" t-shirt
- Rainbow Dash sweatpants
- probably Rainbow Dash boxers
 
By the way the guy I made this thread about was raised Christian and is still into Christianity while being a brony. He puts a lot of emphasis on faith and seeks comfort in god and ponies.

There are two necklaces he never takes off: A cross and Rainbow Dash's cutie mark.

oh god

my mind went instant to chris-chan
 
GrizzNKev, I'm trying to understand your OP more.

College? Highschool? I didn't get the term teammate? I thought it was adults at work, but I find it odd someone would share porn at the workplace.
 
OP, I must know, is there any reason to tell us this other than to circle-jerk and make fun of the guy? It just feels so cheap, everyone here is laughing at him, and he doesn't even know about this thread. I really hope for him he doesn't consider you a friend.
Guess now that he's religious even the small pockets of people not ripping him apart will give in.

Well, whatever I guess, have fun.
 
On the average day he will have the following:

- Rainbow Dash necklace
- Rainbow Dash sunglasses
- "20% Cooler" shoulder strap bag
- "20% Cooler" jacket
- Rainbow Dash "SWAG" t-shirt
- Rainbow Dash sweatpants
- probably Rainbow Dash boxers

Well, least he knows who the best pony is.
 
I can enjoy the Star Wars prequels without the need to compare my struggle for acceptance with the Civil Rights Movement.

Cry more, pony boys.
While you have a point, your example is also not the same. Nobody's been killed over MLP as far as I know... but nobody has been accused of being a paedophile for liking the Star Wars prequels, either.
Well, at least not seriously.

There is a middle ground.

On the average day he will have the following:

- Rainbow Dash necklace
- Rainbow Dash sunglasses
- "20% Cooler" shoulder strap bag
- "20% Cooler" jacket
- Rainbow Dash "SWAG" t-shirt
- Rainbow Dash sweatpants
- probably Rainbow Dash boxers

You know what you must do. Get in his pants. For science.
 
As for not harming anyone if I was buying my child a toy I'd be pretty annoyed with this little gathering:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1tbsz1-_6g

if its any consolation, I'm pretty sure that was an organized trip, or atleast you won't genrally see a bunch of men gravitating in the ToyRUs girl aisles.

I can enjoy the Star Wars prequels without the need to compare my struggle for acceptance with the Civil Rights Movement.

Cry more, pony boys.

happens so rarely that it's almost not even worth mentioning. But it does provide a negative example and seems to get undue focus. Like the above men crowding out all the girls at the toy store.
 
OP, I must know, is there any reason to tell us this other than to circle-jerk and make fun of the guy? It just feels so cheap, everyone here is laughing at him, and he doesn't even know about this thread.
Guess now that he's religious even the small pockets of people not ripping him apart will give in.

Well, whatever I guess, have fun.
Maybe it's catharsis, Jiminy.
 
On the average day he will have the following:

- Rainbow Dash necklace
- Rainbow Dash sunglasses
- "20% Cooler" shoulder strap bag
- "20% Cooler" jacket
- Rainbow Dash "SWAG" t-shirt
- Rainbow Dash sweatpants
- probably Rainbow Dash boxers

Get him this for his birthday.

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A8PC3SE/?tag=neogaf0e-20

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OP, I must know, is there any reason to tell us this other than to circle-jerk and make fun of the guy? It just feels so cheap, everyone here is laughing at him, and he doesn't even know about this thread.
Guess now that he's religious even the small pockets of people not ripping him apart will give in.

Well, whatever I guess, have fun.

Because I fail to understand the intensity of his obsession and I figure GAF, harboring a pony community itself, would be able to explain it to me better than he can.

I have a lot of respect for the guy. He's a super smart programmer (C and C++ for whoever asked earlier) when left to his own work. I spend sooooooooo much time around him, it eventually got to the point where I needed to know more to understand him better.

I saw the ridicule coming, and I do find his love of ponies strange. I didn't expect this thread to blow up so quickly though, my threads usually suck. I didn't do this to make fun of anyone. Sorry.

GrizzNKev, I'm trying to understand your OP more.

College? Highschool? I didn't get the term teammate? I thought it was adults at work, but I find it odd someone would share porn at the workplace.

College. Video game development. Ongoing semester-long project. Crunch time. All-nighters. The whole deal.
 
By the way the guy I made this thread about was raised Christian and is still into Christianity while being a brony. He puts a lot of emphasis on faith and seeks comfort in god and ponies.

There are two necklaces he never takes off: A cross and Rainbow Dash's cutie mark.
What does the one thing have to do with the other?

Unless you want to give people more reason to mock him any more than has already happened.
 
What does the one thing have to do with the other?

Unless you want to give people more reason to mock him any more than has already happened.

Because wacky fandoms usually go hand in hand with resentment of parents or society and rebellion against religion or established beliefs.

It was an observation.
 
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