This is such a bullshit argument. If you are labeling the concerns of console gamers as "insecurities" and "dumb conversations", than you have missed the point completely.
This debate whether or not the PS4 will have a performance edge is relevant to the here and now. What IS bullshit is making light of a situation that will impact an entire generation.
We lived an entire generation where the minutia of visual enhancements were microscopically analyzed and flaunted. In an era where 360 and PS3 performance differences were subacute; we've seen port differences the likes of Red Dead Redemption, Bayonetta, Call of Duty Black Ops, Final Fantasy XIII, Ghostbusters etc. etc. etc. etc.
SHOCKING NEWS- on paper, the difference in performance between PS4/X1 is larger than 360/PS3. The biggest difference this time is similar architecture.
Whether PC gamer's like to believe it or not, console development sets an ambition for visual fidelity. Many people, including me (who owns a PC rig), don't care for the complexity, the small community, or the technical nags of PC gaming. I understand it's appeal, but let's be serious here, is it wrong for people to want console performance to be as high as possible? PC gamer's love to shit on the plebians with the $399 machine, but they have yet to understand there bloated and underutilized hardware indirectly benefits from these "1.8 TF last gen middling GPUs".
(Drops mic)