The American vs. Europe view on vacations and time off is flabbergasting

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my bad!

but that's not standard in the US is it? I'm assuming those type of benefits fluctuates from state to state, company to company.

Definitely not a company thing. It's required by the government that our company allow us paid family leave. Now if it's a state by state thing, then that I don't know. I assumed it was standard.
 
Definitely not a company thing. It's required by the government that our company allow us paid family leave. Now if it's a state by state thing, then that I don't know. I assumed it was standard.

Are you in the US? The government is not mandating that you get paid time off for having a child.
 
Yes, I am in the US. The government pays I believe 60% of my income during that period. My company does not pay that out to me.

So the government is paying you? Not the company you work for, am I reading that right? Which then also means you are probably qualifying for some type of government assistance program that not everyone would be able to qualify for.

IE this is still not normal for the US.
 
lol I always assumed it worked the same way in all western countries. Its kind of blowing my mind that in the US if you get pregnant you are screwed financially once you give birth until you can return to work.
You get some time off but not that much. You don't really need much time anyway. My wife took a couple weeks. It's not like the wounds from childbirth take that long to heal. We handed off the baby to our neighbor in the morning and picked it up after work. And we have day care here. It takes a village and all that..
 
So the government is paying you? Not the company you work for, am I reading that right? Which then also means you are probably qualifying for some type of government assistance program that not everyone would be able to qualify for.

IE this is still not normal for the US.

Yes, the government is paying me. It's a part of the state disability insurance.

Who is covered by Paid Family Leave?
Employees covered by State Disability Insurance are also covered by Paid Family Leave insurance. If a Voluntary Plan insurer provides a company’s disability insurance coverage in lieu of State Disability Insurance, then it must also provide Paid Family Leave insurance coverage.
 
I have a blue collar job, I get anywhere from 11-13 days off per year(I work 4 days a week). And getting the extra days off depends on whether my work day falls on Thanksgiving/Xmas eve or not because if they don't then the company doesn't give a shit if you want a extra day off. It fucking sucks and is one of the things I hate most about America compared to what I keep hearing about our European counterparts.

It seems like you get good vacation if you have a white collar job. But then everybody gets mad at you and risk getting fired for using it. WIth blue collar jobs you hardly get any vacation and it takes forever(normally over 5+ years) to accumulate at least 3+ years off. I know some of you guys have it real good, but for most of us it really sucks.
 
Time you're able to get off depends on how cool your employer is and how strong the union is backing the employees.

As far as parental issues, the US is pretty shit about supporting families even though we depend on it.
 
Most casino companies I have worked for will grant you one week of PTO (Paid Time Off) for the first year or two of employment, two weeks for years 2-5, and possible three weeks for 5+ years of employment.

Paid Time Off is both sick and vacation time. If you call out sick a lot, you are costing yourself your own vacation time. You max out at what you can earn in a year so you should use it up each year.

Many casinos also (particularly for front-line employees) implement a points or demerit system, wherein a tardy can be a 1/2 point event, or a call-in can be a single-point event, which deducts from abalance you keep and which refills, usually annually. With rotating shifts, tardies or callouts really screw things up for the people in casino cashier's cages, etc. Unfortunately people need to be encouraged to plan their time off so their managers can cover these gaps rather than making impromptu plans and calling out sick.

I see no benefit is hoarding vacation time, or in working sick. But I have also in the past had managers or been in environments where my free, unrepentant use of these benefits did seem to be a political liability.
 
You get some time off but not that much. You don't really need much time anyway. My wife took a couple weeks. It's not like the wounds from childbirth take that long to heal. We handed off the baby to our neighbor in the morning and picked it up after work. And we have day care here. It takes a village and all that..

The point of maternity (and paternity) leave has little to do with the mother's recovery. It's important because the child needs to be with its parents and its the parents responsibility to cater to that need. I get the feeling me and you wouldn't see eye to eye on how the whole child rearing thing should work.
 
I have 23 days off every year (why so much? Physical work in questionable conditions). This is without national holidays. I can move only 5 days to another calendar year. It is quite hard to spend so much days off, because we are understaffed and this can be problematic.
 
Yeah I did forget to mention that as part of the casino industry you work weekends and all the major holidays. Major holidays get designated as "blackout times" on our schedules and you can't request time off during those times.

I suppose each industry has its sacrifices. For casinos, it is holidays.
 
lol I always assumed it worked the same way in all western countries. Its kind of blowing my mind that in the US if you get pregnant you are screwed financially once you give birth until you can return to work.

It blows my mind that people don't plan and save for pregnancy`s.
 
Paid sick leave in NYC and the United States

Early Thursday, lawmakers overrode a veto by Mayor Michael Bloomberg to pass a law that would require businesses to offer paid sick leave for their workers. The benefit will go into effect in 2014 for employees of businesses with 20 or more workers and at a later date for smaller employers; it could be postponed if the city’s economy takes a big turn for the worst. Some businesses, such as struggling manufacturing firms, are exempt.But while efforts have been successful in New York, they have failed elsewhere. Milwaukee, Denver and Philadelphia have all been unable to pass similar requirements. Small businesses, in particular, are opposed to the requirements.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/on-leadership/wp/2013/06/27/new-york-passes-paid-sick-leave-law-but-u-s-still-far-behind/
 
lol I always assumed it worked the same way in all western countries. Its kind of blowing my mind that in the US if you get pregnant you are screwed financially once you give birth until you can return to work.

Most people here return to work almost immediately. They have to. It's pretty dumb.
 
It blows my mind that people don't plan and save for pregnancy`s.

With the insane cost of pregnancy in the US and the fact that most companies won't pay you for time off taken for a pregnancy, you're almost asking for the impossible depending on the job.
 
Indeed. The truth is that Americans are exhausted, which looks a lot like laziness from afar.

Also, many of us are becoming disillusioned with our prospects of living at least as well as our parents. Bitterness and resentment are slowing us down.
 
Try living in Canada. 15 days of paid vacation a year average.

I get 10 after being with the company for 5 years. Only had 5 a year before that, you use them or lose them. Good thing I intend on leaving the company soon considering I've been getting dicked around about my raise and I've been there almost 8 years and I'm the assistant manager
 
UK "only" has 28 as standard but damn, you guys in the US/Canada have it bad. Ontop of that your employment laws seem to heavily favour the employer as opposed to it being a mutual thing.

I feel like I'm missing out by not being able to go work in the US.. but I'm not sure I'd like all the negatives that go with it.
 
You get some time off but not that much. You don't really need much time anyway. My wife took a couple weeks. It's not like the wounds from childbirth take that long to heal. We handed off the baby to our neighbor in the morning and picked it up after work. And we have day care here. It takes a village and all that..
Awesome. Exactly the kind of family mechanism to create another worker drone!
 
Okay you guys better explain quick why it sucks to work in Europe or we're all going to be trying to come over there...
 
I try to avoid calling in sick because that means I fall behind on shit I need to do and I'll be even busier when I get back. Luckily (or not) I work from home at the moment, so I don't really "call in sick" anymore.
 
USA rep here: 2 weeks paid, 5 sick days.

I wouldn't know what to do with a month vacation and I'd not want to go back to work. Plus working for a small company, I'd be behind when I got back.
 
USA rep here: 2 weeks paid, 5 sick days.

I wouldn't know what to do with a month vacation ...

spend time with family?

travel?

pursue hobbies and interests?

relax and unwind with spouse for a couple weeks doing whatever you want?

10 day cruise?

museum jumping?

play video games 9 - 5 for two weeks straight drinking as you go?

3 week road trip?

2 weeks at cottage with the kids in the summer?

one month in Europe/asia/Australia/etc?

A week camping in the wilderness?


man I can think of ALOT of things id do if I had more paid vacation days.

speaking from experience its not the 9 - 5's you are going to remember its the vacation time spent with family.
 
I have plenty of time off, but I couldn't afford to do much with it even if I wanted to. I don't personally gain anything from "staycations" either.
 
I have plenty of time off, but I couldn't afford to do much with it even if I wanted to. I don't personally gain anything from "staycations" either.

Caribbean All Inclusive resorts are cheap ... Food and booze included. MSC Cruise lines, kids sail for free.

even just camping or doing a cottage rental is very budget friendly.
 
spend time with family?

travel?

pursue hobbies and interests?

relax and unwind with spouse for a couple weeks doing whatever you want?

10 day cruise?

museum jumping

3 week road trip?

2 weeks at cottage with the kids in the summer?

one month in Europe/asia/Australia/etc?


man I can think of ALOT of things id do if I had more paid vacation days.

speaking from experience its not the 9 - 5's you are going to remember its the vacation time spent with family.

A lot of americans suffer from not being able to work in some way. I don't know what it is but my SO gets it as well. I get 3 days off a week and she gets 2. Some weeks she will get a third day off that she lines up with mine and she starts going mad on her third day off. I don't understand people who can't just bum around and relax....
 
UK here. I get 30 days off and public holidays. But I'm only allowed to roll over 5 days per year. Since I started my job after I'd taken holidays in my previous position, I've always had the extra 5 days.

My wife is Social worker. She gets an extra days holiday entitlement added every year from a base of 28 days. Some of the people she works with have 40+ days entitlement.
 
Quite a few Americans seem to be suffering from some kind of work related Stockholm syndrome, I've never heard the word guilt applied to taking holidays before.
 
i get 2 weeks

but i drive a bmw, wear lacoste, tag heuer and raybans.


so its a trade off for the lifestyle i want. being lazy and poor isnt appealing
 
i get 2 weeks

but i drive a bmw, wear lacoste, tag heuer and raybans.


so its a trade off for the lifestyle i want. being lazy and poor isnt appealing

um, its entirely possible to have and do those things with 30 or more days off a year (since its paid time off) and still be well off too.

Spending quality time with the family, or even just enjoying your paid time off outside of work isn't lazy, it enriches your life.
 
um, its entirely possible to have and do those things with 30 or more days off a year and still be well off too.

Spending quality time with the family, or even just enjoying your paid time off outside of work isn't lazy, it enriches your life.

if i work those 30 days, thats an extra 8000$ in my pocket

which is a rolex, or a down payment on a new ducati, or maybe a new engine for my speedboat


i would rather have those instead of being lazy for 30 days and then complain why video games are 60$. there will be alot of "time off" to rest when im 6 feet under the ground
 
Quite a few Americans seem to be suffering from some kind of work related Stockholm syndrome, I've never heard the word guilt applied to taking holidays before.

That just leaves that window open for the other guy to get ahead of you. Dog eat dog, man. You want the shiny prize? Show us how much.
 
if i work those 30 days, thats an extra 8000$ in my pocket

which is a rolex, or a down payment on a new ducati, or maybe a new engine for my speedboat


i would rather have those instead of being lazy for 30 days and then complain why video games are 60$. there will be alot of "time off" to rest when im 6 feet under the ground

UL plz
 
30 working days during term time and I have a two month (unpaid) break during the summer. I usually just trade my term holidays for pay and do some freelance design work to pay for my holidays abroad. I love Europe!
 
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