It really irks me when I see bad tanks. I beat myself up on PLD when I do something absolutely silly and wipe a raid. Last night I got turned around in Binding Coil and pulled a large aoe into the raid and wiped us. ; ; Felt like total shit.
Then I queue up on BLM and see what a really bad tank is.
To be fair, this is the game that puts the most pressure and responsibility on tanks. Being the healer is stressful at all times and now I really want to see dps get some more involvement in strategies other then "attack x now" and "red bad mkay?" stuff...
My first impulse was to give them more crowd control and stuns but then the chaining of skills for dps is so tight that the design of those hardly allows for stuff in between.
Needs another pass class design/synergy wise in terms of important battles.