GAF, I'm 100% sure I'm getting friendzoned on Monday

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The best part is they go to class together so this awkwardness will continue for months to come.

I love how he makes a date to get rejected and then somehow makes it even worse for himself. I wish you the best, but seriously dude what the fuck....
 
Is there some kind of summary of the events that have occurred here? Can't be bothered reading 13 pages.

What's the point of reading forums then? Or clicking on any thread more than a page long?

Op still dodging my question hard, but I don't know what I'm expecting, especially cause he's Asian.
 
Really doubt this is a troll. OP is a stereotypical nerdy guy who has anxiety who finally was able to meet a girl who was willing to talk to him and like most people in his position he felt like it was his only chance have a relationship.

The girl will continue to be nice to him and he will for the rest of his life only been seen as a friend. OP doesn't care about his dignity, based on the way he was talking in this thread chances are he will never meet another girl unless he changes his life drastically. I'm assuming he's a virgin, and that will never change. It's really sad when a guy just settles for second best and simply deals with it because he's to afraid to hurt his own ego. Sorry OP, she's reading this with you and laughing, but in the end the other guy won and it's because he is truly better then you.
 
Really doubt this is a troll. OP is a stereotypical nerdy guy who has anxiety who finally was able to meet a girl who was willing to talk to him and like most people in his position he felt like it was his only chance have a relationship.

The girl will continue to be nice to him and he will for the rest of his life only been seen as a friend. OP doesn't care about his dignity, based on the way he was talking in this thread chances are he will never meet another girl unless he changes his life drastically. I'm assuming he's a virgin, and that will never change. It's really sad when a guy just settles for second best and simply deals with it because he's to afraid to hurt his own ego. Sorry OP, she's reading this with you and laughing, but in the end the other guy won and it's because he is truly better then you.

Look you're making a lot of assumptions here. And give the guy credit, he at least had the balls to ask her out. If this is real, he failed in a spectacular fashion, but he put himself out there which is way more than half the battle.
 
What's the point of reading forums then? Or clicking on any thread more than a page long?.

Do you read every reply in every thread that you click on? More power to you if you do, but I don't see the point in reading 600+ replies for something that could be summed up in two sentences.

but w/e.

I actually do, just like the guy above you. It doesn't take that much effort and if you're here for entertainment like most of us how else you gonna get it. It's just a pet peeve of mine, not worth a derail.
Understood. :)
 
Well I'm really not a troll and just went into fuck it mode. I guess I was also being a complete jerk then.

Anyway this was the rest of the Notepad convo after then, I'm obviously still in fuck it mode. Forgive the slang ,formatting and jokes that you're not gonna get.

Me: Sorry.

Her: For what ?

Me: Everything.

Her:Seriously. Stop saying sorry. just take some time to recover

Me:I've only said it once :D but seriously I went into this with no consideration of how you feel and only cared about
my own feelings and I kinda feel like a jerk now for the position I've put you in.

Her: Nah... Don't know how else to say it without sounding wrong but I didn't feel anything awkward or guilty or whatever you think
I am feeling

Me: Well that's good to hear. X must be feeling kinda awkward though, but I guess it's worth it to see him shut up for once
and not kinda grope you when he's around you.

Her: I will ask him to tone down next time.

Me: No, don't. Don't do that. Don't dictate your relationship with me in consideration. I don't wan't to be that person.
Like I said, maybe I just need some time off...and the mid sem break should help that. For what it's worth I had a lot fun today,
sneaking out of the coffee shop after being trolled, looking for chatime and u heading towards the stairs and me the escalator,
Parkinsons LOLOLOL.
I guess what I want to say is that as long as you're happy I'm happy for you. He's a really lucky guy.
Sucks that it couldn't work out between us, but hey "It's better to have loved and lost then not have loved at all right?"
I hope so anyway and I don't want our friendship to be affected by this.I initially was going to keep a far distance because I
don't believe I'll ever stop loving u if we're constantly together, but today made me realise that I value being your friend more.
So maybe I have to add another one to the "Ones who got away" list, but I'm pretty happy you'll be on my FB chat list and to
have someone tell me what she said. :D

Her: Hehehe. Okay. Sorry to say this but I put you into the friendzone. Friendzone meme. ._. What ever your friends/people say in Nat geo,
I would be happy to still be friends and I hope this does not affect it in anyway. I can't write as long as you did but I'm
glad that we manage to pull it through. Just that you may not see it in the current moment but this just needs time. '

Me:Yes, and it's NeoGAF, NatGeo is the one with the animals ;) Length means nothing(that sounded wrong as usual). So how do you suggest we get out of this current situation here in the library?
Maybe we gotta do some actual work?

Her:Yeah. Hunt down Way. L0L We need to find a Way to get out of this

Way's a friend who helps us with work.
 
Do you read every reply in every thread that you click on? More power to you if you do, but I don't see the point in reading 600+ replies for something that could be summed up in two sentences.

but w/e.

I actually do, just like the guy above you. It doesn't take that much effort and if you're here for entertainment like most of us how else you gonna get it. It's just a pet peeve of mine, not worth a derail.
 
I'm honestly curious. This whole thread started with "on Monday she'll tell me why"..so what's the why? Why did she set up a date to make you an even bigger fool? Also it's pretty obvious she's not laughing with you.

The why is that she's seeing this other guy now.That was in my first update today.
 
Meh.

1.) Stereotypical awkward crush post

2.) Crescendo meeting / event time planned

3.) OP actually shows up in the thread right on schedule

4.) Inordinate post frequency during the "event"

5.) Exponentially elevated bomb post

6.) Odd explanations / dodging

7.) Poofs

Edit: That notepad conversation is putrid bullshit. Nat Geo? Really?
 
Well I'm really not a troll and just went into fuck it mode. I guess I was also being a complete jerk then.

Anyway this was the rest of the Notepad convo after then, I'm obviously still in fuck it mode. Forgive the slang ,formatting and jokes that you're not gonna get.

Me: Sorry.

Her: For what ?

Me: Everything.

Her:Seriously. Stop saying sorry. just take some time to recover

Me:I've only said it once :D but seriously I went into this with no consideration of how you feel and only cared about
my own feelings and I kinda feel like a jerk now for the position I've put you in.

Her: Nah... Don't know how else to say it without sounding wrong but I didn't feel anything awkward or guilty or whatever you think
I am feeling

Me: Well that's good to hear. X must be feeling kinda awkward though, but I guess it's worth it to see him shut up for once
and not kinda grope you when he's around you.

Her: I will ask him to tone down next time.

Me: No, don't. Don't do that. Don't dictate your relationship with me in consideration. I don't wan't to be that person.
Like I said, maybe I just need some time off...and the mid sem break should help that. For what it's worth I had a lot fun today,
sneaking out of the coffee shop after being trolled, looking for chatime and u heading towards the stairs and me the escalator,
Parkinsons LOLOLOL.
I guess what I want to say is that as long as you're happy I'm happy for you. He's a really lucky guy.
Sucks that it couldn't work out between us, but hey "It's better to have loved and lost then not have loved at all right?"
I hope so anyway and I don't want our friendship to be affected by this.I initially was going to keep a far distance because I
don't believe I'll ever stop loving u if we're constantly together, but today made me realise that I value being your friend more.
So maybe I have to add another one to the "Ones who got away" list, but I'm pretty happy you'll be on my FB chat list and to
have someone tell me what she said. :D

Her: Hehehe. Okay. Sorry to say this but I put you into the friendzone. Friendzone meme. ._. What ever your friends/people say in Nat geo,
I would be happy to still be friends and I hope this does not affect it in anyway. I can't write as long as you did but I'm
glad that we manage to pull it through. Just that you may not see it in the current moment but this just needs time. '

Me:Yes, and it's NeoGAF, NatGeo is the one with the animals ;) Length means nothing(that sounded wrong as usual). So how do you suggest we get out of this current situation here in the library?
Maybe we gotta do some actual work?

Her:Yeah. Hunt down Way. L0L We need to find a Way to get out of this

Way's a friend who helps us with work.

jaydamn.png
 
Meh.

1.) Stereotypical awkward crush post

2.) Crescendo meeting / event time planned

3.) OP actually shows up in the thread right on schedule

4.) Inordinate post frequency during the "event"

5.) Exponentially elevated bomb post

6.) Odd explanations / dodging

7.) Poofs

Edit: That notepad conversation is putrid bullshit. Nat Geo? Really?

Bollocks. How do you want me to prove it?
 
Wtf is notepad.. Microsoft notepad? Wasn't this an in person meeting? Were you taking notes during? How the fuck were you even doing live commentary during this dumb shit?? ASIANS UGH
 
what the fuck is going on here.

this thread is making me feel 1000000% better about myself right now. Thank you OP (seriously)
 
I guess what I want to say is that as long as you're happy I'm happy for you. He's a really lucky guy.
Sucks that it couldn't work out between us, but hey "It's better to have loved and lost then not have loved at all right?"
I hope so anyway and I don't want our friendship to be affected by this.I initially was going to keep a far distance because I
don't believe I'll ever stop loving u if we're constantly together, but today made me realise that I value being your friend more.

I cringed.
I don't really buy into this alpha/beta shit but man, this, here, is terrible.
 
Wtf is notepad.. Microsoft notepad? Wasn't this an in person meeting? Were you taking notes during? How the fuck were you even doing live commentary during this dumb shit?? ASIANS UGH

Read my posts. I've not posted anywhere else for a bit, just look at my posting history.
 
Doesn't it bother you that people find this situation so pitiful that they think it isn't real? You really need to fix your life OP. Not only should you leave neogaf, but take a break from the internet.
 
Doesn't it bother you that people find this situation so pitiful that they think it isn't real? You really need to fix your life OP. Not only should you leave neogaf, but take a break from the internet.
Yep . I know I fucked up. was kinda expecting this though, doubted that anything good would have come out of this( GAF I mean), I'm still fine with her.
 
Oh wow, just read through the last three pages, thanks for the laugh OP. Well I feel better about myself now, anyways atleast you went out there, learn from experience and all that.
 
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