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GAF, I'm 100% sure I'm getting friendzoned on Monday

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Kopite said:
Since we can't speak over here, I just showed her the thread and my post about telling her that my feelings may not change.The following is our exchange on Notepad since he's still right there and I'm sure he's figured out what's up.

OP: This maybe creepy but ain't no one ever gonna care for you like I do

Her: . . . . . I'm sorry ): >: D: >:

OP: Maybe we really should take some time off...see what happens...

Her: Yeah. Maybe there will be someone out there and you will find her

OP: Could u clone yourself?

Her:I wished but yeah. Plenty o' fish in da ocean

I showed her Taylor Swift's You belong With me lyrics at this point.

OP: Sorry that I had to put you thru this.. but I couldn't take it anymore... :(

Her: It's okay. I know that sometimes we have to clear things out in order to move on.

Probably cringe worthy to most of y'all and I guess I fucked up huh? Not sure what I'm supposed to do now, we're all still sitting here.
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Wow.. this is a joke, right?
 
TacticalFox88 said:
This is one of the few things that truly piss me off about women in general.

If you're not into a guy in *that* way, don't EVER engage in physical contact that can be interpreted as "I want you" or anything relatively close to that. Most guys would feel betrayed and lead on, and rightfully so!
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I still remember the first we talked outside of class. I saw her st the computer lab, and was being funny. We were talking, then she pulled out her phone and called to see if her sports bras were shipped. I was like, the hell? And everytime she bent down to grab something, she'd ask me if was looking down her shirt. Again, I was like, wow, this girl is something.
 
Jason's Ultimatum said:
I still remember the first we talked outside of class. I saw her st the computer lab, and was being funny. We were talking, then she pulled out her phone and called to see if her sports bras were shipped. I was like, the hell? And everytime she bent down to grab something, she'd ask me if was looking down her shirt. Again, I was like, wow, this girl is something.
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Did you say "Darn right I am?". lol
 
TacticalFox88 said:
This is one of the few things that truly piss me off about women in general.

If you're not into a guy in *that* way, don't EVER engage in physical contact that can be interpreted as "I want you" or anything relatively close to that. Most guys would feel betrayed and lead on, and rightfully so!
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You hear that women? Better watch the way you're behavin', or a MAN might misinterpret your actions and FEEL BETRAYED!
 
youngwerther said:
What we saw tonight was the decline of man.
This is an epidemic and why birthrates are precipitously dropping in certain regions.
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I don't know if I'd go that far. I've gone nearly that far with a girl before. Maybe even farther. Some here can attest.

I was able to locate my flaws and correct them. I'm sure the OP can too.

Just keep trying. Keep putting yourself out there. You'll get rejected. You'll improve yourself as you go. And before you know it you'll find a great girl who says yes.

But please. Keep putting yourself out there! Don't close yourself off to the world.

Edit - Remember, it can take 15 to 20 no's to get one yes. It's a numbers game. Do not put all of your eggs into one basket until you're in a relationship.

Edit 2 - Before I found my sole mate, I was going on 3-4 first dates a week. How? Effort. Put yourself out there and you will get real dates.
 
You should have used the Stupid-Denko-Hamster-Face to really kick that message to her to the next level.

(´･ω･`)
(´･ω･`)
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jesus


show her your pokemons, I think the outcome can't be worse

EDIT: that Title change, glorious.

Btw, Gaf rules:
1st RULE: You do not talk about GAF IRL.
2nd RULE: You DO NOT talk about FAF IRL
 
SlipperySlope said:
I don't know if I'd go that far. I've gone nearly that far with a girl before. Maybe even farther. Some here can attest.

I was able to locate my flaws and correct them. I'm sure the OP can too.

Just keep trying. Keep putting yourself out there. You'll get rejected. You'll improve yourself as you go. And before you know it you'll find a great girl who says yes.

But please. Keep putting yourself out there! Don't close yourself off to the world.

Edit - Remember, it can take 15 to 20 no's to get one yes. It's a numbers game. Do not put all of your eggs into one basket until you're in a relationship.

Edit 2 - Before I found my sole mate, I was going on 3-4 first dates a week. How? Effort. Put yourself out there and you will get real dates.
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Damn 3-4 first dates a week? And here I'm moping the dating thread that I've crapped up 20 dates in the last 3 years. Might need to step it up. On the other hand, didn't you find it incredibly tiring? It almost feels like applying for a job 20 times over. At some point I just get sick of the time invested leading to nothing, again and again. Also dating isn't cheap.
 
shuri said:
andwhile our courageous thread maker is updating 24/7 GAF ..

The girl and the other friend are home alone ..

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LMAO
 
Alright OP, I need to know if you're East-Asian, South East-Asian, Indian-Asian or some strange variety of White-but-Asian.

(and the girl too.)
 
Batigol said:
No such thing as friendzone.

She's not interested, move on
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I don't know about that. I had girl friends in high school who literally said things like:

"I don't date guys I've known for more than a few weeks. It's just weird once you've become my friend. I only date new guys I've met." In this situation, date = boyfriend/girlfriend since it's just high school.

It made no sense to me, especially since I was the kind of person that wanted to get to know someone a bit before deciding to pursue any romantic options.

So basically there were more than a few girls I knew in high school that once I had befriended them, I had completely closed off any doors to the possibility of dating them. It was just against their principles.

Then again, that's high school. People are stupid in high school.
 
Kopite said:
It's the first day in weeks where I've not bothered to communicate with her(text, facebook,etc) after going home.

She's a close friend and that's not changing despite plenty here thinking otherwise.

I'm gonna listen to some of the advice here(yeah laugh all you want) and try and keep my distance for a little while, doubt we're gonna manage it though, we're just too close.

Crazy as this may sound given my actions, I think we'll have a strictly platonic relationship. I'm getting over it anyway, feel far better than when I first made this thread. Maybe the venting helped. Off to bed now.
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I'm still 100% certain this is a troll thread, HOWEVER in the slight chance that it is not and you are being serious...

Other guy and "your" girl are FUCKING right now and laughing about you. While you are sitting around playing GTA V he's fucking the shit out of her and she's going to town on his cock. When they're together without you and the slight chance you enter the conversation they are talking shit about you and laughing at you.

I'm being harsh to give you some mental imagery of whats happening. Stop hanging around them and being a third wheel. She is being overly nice and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. GTFO of there because your feelings for her aren't gonna change and ultimately you're being a huge douche if you're gonna keep cock blocking this guy. So take the image I painted for you above and play it over in your mind any time you feel you want to hang out with your "friend." Go on and find a girl for yourself man, she already made her feelings known and they won't ever change.

Oh yeah, she also loves the taste of his penis...
 
You know what is the worst with those threads? The fact that you were not there from the beginning. Now you have to catch up :-(

And to the OP, I have no word...
 
Kopite said:
Since we can't speak over here, I just showed her the thread and my post about telling her that my feelings may not change.The following is our exchange on Notepad since he's still right there and I'm sure he's figured out what's up.

OP: This maybe creepy but ain't no one ever gonna care for you like I do

Her: . . . . . I'm sorry ): >: D: >:

OP: Maybe we really should take some time off...see what happens...

Her: Yeah. Maybe there will be someone out there and you will find her

OP: Could u clone yourself?

Her:I wished but yeah. Plenty o' fish in da ocean

I showed her Taylor Swift's You belong With me lyrics at this point.

OP: Sorry that I had to put you thru this.. but I couldn't take it anymore... :(

Her: It's okay. I know that sometimes we have to clear things out in order to move on.

Probably cringe worthy to most of y'all and I guess I fucked up huh? Not sure what I'm supposed to do now, we're all still sitting here.
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This is what you should have said:

OP: Could you clone yourself?

Her:I wished but yeah. Plenty o' fish in da ocean

OP: I wish you could, so you could go fuck yourself.

ALPHA STATUS, DAWG!
 
SquiddyCracker said:
This is what you should have said:

OP: Could you clone yourself?

Her:I wished but yeah. Plenty o' fish in da ocean

OP: I wish you could, so you could go fuck yourself.

ALPHA STATUS, DAWG!
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Boom. Love it. You are a man, unlike the OP, who am I confident has had his penis go back into his body to hide in shame.
 
SteelAttack said:
Cheer up man. Take this as a learning experience.
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That's like telling a car crash victim who loses both legs to walk it off. This kid has no game, he has years if not decades of damage still to dish out, it's not like he can shake it off and on to the next one - he needs so much help it is painful, he doesn't know how to talk to the opposite sex. He'll simply repeat his mistakes over and over again, he still is claiming what he did was okay.
 
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