GAF, I'm 100% sure I'm getting friendzoned on Monday
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ComputerMKII
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I forgot something.
Thank you Devolution. Now my life is complete.
Tertullian
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Moving images of cute animals doing interesting things prevail on both.
Chuckie
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This should be the new banner.
FantasticMrFoxdie
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Okay, I'm subbing to this thread.
Fucking LOL
Fucking LOL
Devolution
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I forgot something.
What? They're friends, he's not trying to get with her anymore... He did perfectly fine in that last chat.
Apart from posting it in GAF.
shanshan310
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I forgot something.
Hahaha, love it.
LanceVance
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One thing I don't understand. She asked to meet you on Monday so you could both talk about this. So you meet, and she takes you to a library? A fucking library?! Where you can't talk. Then she proceeds to talk to you over notepad on a computer?! Dude this girl is just using you and abusing you, I think you're just too love drunk to see it
Edit: but god damn this thread is hilarious and weird
Edit: but god damn this thread is hilarious and weird
NeOak
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I forgot something.
This just made my day. wow.
We went to the mall and got some drinks but her boyfriend found and joined us. We only made small talk after that and then we headed to the library to work on our assignments. Since he was sitting opposite us, she had me open Notepad on my laptop and communicated through it. She told me she'd get rid off him for a bit and after he left we talked. He came back shortly after and we continued our convo on Notepad.
I forgot something.
Reading The Dating Age Thread, that really should have been my first port of call ages ago.
JennyTablina
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OP while I understand on this occasion you needed to get some assignment work from this girl, now is the time to cut loose, make sure you have no other projects your doing with her or get them out the way asap. Now is the time to step away and lick your wounds, being around her is like picking at your scab till it bleeds agaiin, don't do it. Your heart needs to heal, and you should at least try to walk away from this with some dignity.
If you want to be friends with this girl, that's...sometimes possible, but don't hold your breath. If she really is a true friend, she'll understand that you need to retreat and get your head together. There's no point trying to be friends while your getting over her, because if you stay around her, you WILL NOT get over her. That's a process you need to do alone or with other friends not connected to this girl. Do not waste what should be one of the best times in your life just mooning over this girl, you can do better and you deserve better.
Also don't hate on the lucky guy, hard as it is to say, him getting with the girl is nothing personal to you. It's just that the girl found him more attractive. Instead of seething about him taking the girl you wanted, consider why he was the more appealing choice. Then try to be a better guy for the next girl that comes along.
If you want to be friends with this girl, that's...sometimes possible, but don't hold your breath. If she really is a true friend, she'll understand that you need to retreat and get your head together. There's no point trying to be friends while your getting over her, because if you stay around her, you WILL NOT get over her. That's a process you need to do alone or with other friends not connected to this girl. Do not waste what should be one of the best times in your life just mooning over this girl, you can do better and you deserve better.
Also don't hate on the lucky guy, hard as it is to say, him getting with the girl is nothing personal to you. It's just that the girl found him more attractive. Instead of seething about him taking the girl you wanted, consider why he was the more appealing choice. Then try to be a better guy for the next girl that comes along.
ManDudeChild
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I haven't gone through every page of this thread, so I don't know whose idea it was to go to the mall .... but can you not see how juvenile the act of her ditching the bf is? An adult would been honest (eg: she has to let some other guy down give her a few). I would say bail out, but you're sinking too fast.
thesoapster
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That way you can be rejected twice by the same person? lol
I forgot something.
Amazing!
Nothing so far I'm afraid.
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Get on that.
I guarantee you there's something going on TONIGHT wherever you're at that will be WAAY more entertaining than updating this thread with the latest in your life.
What are your responsibilities? I mean, when you really get down to it, what do you have to do tonight that you can't possibly put off for 3 hours so that you can go to some dingy hipster bar and watch a bunch of bohemian wannabe girls read terrible poetry while you drink the cheapest beer imaginable and look like you totally get it.
Or something. Anything besides what you were probably going to do tonight.
I'm sure if we put our heads together we can come up with something.
Tornado Condor
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I just read the thread. I'm cringing so hard right now
vas_a_morir
Banned
It's gotta be fake, salva. It's just GOTTA be.
It's an elaborate SIMPulation... nothing more.
Druz
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Seriously. The usage of the word creepy always seems to follow super creepy behavior and chat messages. Cringethread.
I forgot something.
the greatest thing i've seen all day. thank you.
stn
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Guys, its obvious the OP made a huge mistake. And yes, he should have listened to a bunch of us that were telling him to do the opposite of what he did. BUT, I don't think poking fun at him is the solution at all.
Despite what he may say his confidence and self-esteem is probably very low at the moment, and as such I think some people should just back off. Yes, I'm aware its the internet.
OP - please do all of the following. Be polite to your friend but MINIMIZE her inclusion in your life. Anything you can do to avoid her, do it. You're not over her and you need time. Especially since this is your first major crush, no? If she craves attention she MAY in the future try to use you as an emotional crutch. If she attempts this at all its on you to refuse it. There is nothing you can do or say that will convince her to want you.
Lastly, I'd recommend you hit up Dating-Age and stop visiting this thread. It just adds insult to injury. Good luck!
Despite what he may say his confidence and self-esteem is probably very low at the moment, and as such I think some people should just back off. Yes, I'm aware its the internet.
OP - please do all of the following. Be polite to your friend but MINIMIZE her inclusion in your life. Anything you can do to avoid her, do it. You're not over her and you need time. Especially since this is your first major crush, no? If she craves attention she MAY in the future try to use you as an emotional crutch. If she attempts this at all its on you to refuse it. There is nothing you can do or say that will convince her to want you.
Lastly, I'd recommend you hit up Dating-Age and stop visiting this thread. It just adds insult to injury. Good luck!
I forgot something.
It's beautiful.
I hate to say it but the way I'm forced to live my life I'm not really free to do any of that shit. I live at home and travel to campus daily when there's class so there's that. At home I can't go out and I don't have many friends where I live( about an hour from my Uni and I've never gone to school here or anything so I barely know anyone).
And worst of all I can't just go out...because my parent's won't let me. Yes, that's how I live. I'm fucking miserable most of the time.
backflip10019
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I forgot something.
Amazing. Bravo!
are you tethered to a post in a cellar or something
God Dayumm
Banned
What's your age man? Just go out and see what happens
I've got to bring up the I'm Asian part here again.
I'm 20. It's just not possible unless I can somehow afford to live on my own.
Sounds like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place, but this gives you the perfect distraction to get over whatshername. Focus all of that sexual energy on getting a part time job that pays enough for you to move out and into an apartment with 3 other socially repressed and sheltered dudes.
Either that or have a sit down with your parents and law down the god damn law.
I'm an expert
Formerly worldrevolution. The only reason I am nice to anyone else is to avoid being banned.
So.. assuming that the girl said yes to you.. what were you planning to do with her if you have no money and your parents don't let you out..
Jason's Ultimatum
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Seriously, this thread has become an embarrassment now.
They could just chat for hours!
Come on Jason, we're here to help him!
The only place left to go from here OP is up.
Who says I've got no money? I just can't afford living on my own.
And I see her everyday and we study just beside one of the biggest malls in the country. We'd do the usual, the movies, the dates, etc.
So you can do all of that... but you can't go out on your own for a couple hours?
I think you're having me on.
Zen_Arcade
Banned
I've went back like four pages and there aren't any good recaps. I'm not reading 24 pages, can someone catch me up?
OP likes a girl, she rejects him, wouldn't have mattered because his Parents keep him chained to a post in the basement.
Where do you live? You keep calling it Uni so it makes me think you don't living in 'Merica.
Lemon Crest
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Sheesh it's not that bad. It's difficult for me to meet anyone who doesn't study at my Uni. This being the mid sem break also means it's my quietest.
I can pull it off but obviously not as easily as most.
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