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[Winterfang]

Body hair is gross in both Men and Woman, specially on the lower back and around the nipple area. I'm pretty hairy so I shave occasionally and trimmed regularly.

 

[akira28]

you crazy, op

 

[Village]

Some of the posts in this thread make me sad, because seriously, if you get into a long term relationship with a women, you are going to have to deal with body hair. Sorry, guys. We aren't going to get up at the buttcrack of dawn and wax and shave and pluck just so you won't be disgusted by us.

And in the winter, when we aren't showing off our legs? LOLOLOL

While i do agree, I am sure they can get into relatiobships wth peeps who don't get so hairy i guess. That would be hard to orchestrate and figure and alot of things, but I am sure if they put their mind to it they could find that one maybe.

I feel the same about my facial hair. ( the bolded)

 

[FODEA]

Look, ladies, don't even talk to me about hair grooming products and services, because it will remind me that you grow hair and that alleged fact of life is absolutely disgusting. Let's just allow it to remain a myth like pooping and orgasms.

Imagine if you took the time to think about how you smell farts. Yikes.

 

[SquiddyCracker]

The arm thing is kinda mean. Some girls just have hairy arms. I don't think they can do much about it. Can they shave their arms?

Spoiler

Trimmed pubes are great though.

You can wax anything.
Or go for a laser hair treatment.

Not sure if that's a good idea though, it's a lot of effort for something that's really not a big deal. Now, hairy nipples/chest/shoulders/back/face/face, that's different (for both men and women).

 

[Winterfang]

you crazy, op

Does she has chest hair or something? I don't get the picture.

 

[Arsenic Yellow]

Just because you're blonde doesnt mean you dont have to shave. It goes to all of you neogaf girls out there

Please dont talk to us like we're your children.

We dont HAVE to do anything for you.

to all those men complaining about hair...I wish you'd post selfies, so you can teach us how to be proper hairless people.

 

[Zaraki_Kenpachi]

This thread reminds me of The Wolf of Wall Street.

 

[Kite]

NeoGAF - Making girls feel good about themselves since 1999.

lol gtfo with that bs, there is a huge difference between making fun of women's bodies which cannot be changed without expensive surgery and basic hygiene/putting a little bit of effort into your looks. Wash your face, trim your nose hairs, brush your teeth, wax/shave your upper lip once in a while. I think most guys are fine with a bit of hair if it is kept trim and neat, it is the same for guys and facial hair. Beards can be awesome if you don't look like a wild-man/hermit who just came down from the mountains and hasn't seen civilization in years.

 

[daviyoung]

lol gtfo with that bs, there is a huge difference between making fun of women's bodies which cannot be changed without expensive surgery and basic hygiene/putting a little bit of effort into your looks. I think most guys are fine with a bit of hair if it is kept trim and neat, it is the same for guys and facial hair. Beards can be awesome if you don't look like a wild-man/hermit who just came down from the mountains and hasn't seen civilization in years.

and arm hair? and leg hair? are they a problem too?

if so, would you call getting rid of that hair only putting a little bit of effort in?

 

[Devolution]

Please dont talk to us like we're your children.

We dont HAVE to do anything for you.

to all those men complaining about hair...I wish you'd post selfies, so you can teach us how to be proper hairless people.

They'd have to crop out the anime pillows and real dolls.

 

[The Librarian]

Just because you're blonde doesnt mean you dont have to shave. It goes to all of you neogaf girls out there

I guess that settles that, then. Close this thread.

and arm hair? and leg hair? are they a problem too?

if so, would you call getting rid of that hair only putting a little bit of effort in?

Responses like that are funny to me because on average women shave more than men.

 

[MrToughPants]

Please dont talk to us like we're your children.

We dont HAVE to do anything for you.

Edit: to all those men complaining about hair...I wish you'd post selfies, so so you can teach us how to be proper hairless people.

Then we don't HAVE to go down on you.

If I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman I damn well keep myself trimmed and shaved.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v407/Xeno/285_24712576531_6044_n_zps4fece816.jpg

 

[akira28]

Does she has chest hair or something? I don't get the picture.

she's a body hair fetish porn model. no chest hair though, because that's pretty rare, but that was the most work safe photo of her I could find.

 

[daviyoung]

Responses like that are funny to me because on average women shave more than men.

I wonder why

 

[ronito]

Then we don't HAVE to go down on you.

If I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman I damn well keep myself trimmed and shaved.

Looking for some fun, not looking to floss.

 

[Devolution]

Then we don't HAVE to go down on you.

If I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman I damn well keep myself trimmed and shaved.

I think you're confused.

We're not talking about slobbering on arms.

 

[nullset2]

Fuck you, OP, hairy girls are awesome.

 

[Arsenic Yellow]

Then we don't HAVE to go down on you.

If I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman I damn well keep myself trimmed and shaved.

What does that even have to do with what I was responding to. He addressed all of us "neogaf girls". You have preferences, thats fine, he isnt even talking about pubic hair. Read what I am actually responding to before throwing a pissy fit. Also, don't fucking address us as one collective. You guys wonder why girls aren't posting in this thread? it's because of these asshole responses.

Edit: nice selfie. Too bad you totally missed understood what I was trying to say and became completely ridiculous.

 

[Juliet's 8½ Spirits]

Its natural op

I don't think there is a more unattractive woman in Hollywood than her.

 

[Deleted member 22576]

Then we don't HAVE to go down on you.

If I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman I damn well keep myself trimmed and shaved.

Well aren't you precious.

 

[Arsenic Yellow]

Well aren't you precious.

Such an amazing way to start off the new year.

 

[The Librarian]

Then we don't HAVE to go down on you.

If I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman I damn well keep myself trimmed and shaved.

Her problem with Lovely Salsa's post, if I had to guess, was that it's his expectation of all women, regardless of whether or not he'll be with them. His post implied that even though he many never meet any of us, he expects us to uphold part of his ideal feminism.

And that's ridiculous.

 

[J10]

Reminder: We're land mammals.

 

[Deleted member 325805]

It's a huge turn off for me as well. Thick arm hair or an 80s bush just isn't attractive in my eyes.

 

[royalan]

Then we don't HAVE to go down on you.

If I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman I damn well keep myself trimmed and shaved.

LOL - this is so irrelevant.

 

[bengraven]

Jesus Christ OP, some people can't handle it.

My wife has black hairs on her arms that are usually not noticeable unless she hasn't tanned for a while.

It's not like it makes her AAA+ blowjobs any worse.

 

[Jenov]

This thread just gets better and better. /popcorn

 

[Kite]

and arm hair? and leg hair? are they a problem too?

if so, would you call getting rid of that hair only putting a little bit of effort in?

I think most guys are fine with a bit of hair if it is kept trim and neat

Of course if it unreasonable to expect them to be as hairless as a baby's bum, a bit of hair is to be expected. But it is pretty obvious when someone just doesn't give a fuck and their legs and arms as as hairy as the bottom part of a velcro tab. It is gross and doesn't give a good initial impression.

I'm sure this isn't the touchy feely PC response that gaf wants to promote, but outside this lil sanctuary it is generally a good idea to make it look like you care and put at least the minimum bit of effort into your outward appearance. This goes for both men and women.

 

[ronito]

LOL - this is so irrelevant.

but so fun

 

[User 100115]

Wait so now we're expected to shave our arms too?

I expect by the time I am 80 women will be expected to be totally hairless, waxing heads and eyebrows and every inch of their bodies.

 

[The Librarian]

I'm sure this isn't the touchy feely PC response that gaf wants to promote,

A general rule of thumb I've noticed is that when one resorts to this type of response, it's best to rethink your position.

 

[Yado]

Natalia Vodianova is not disgusting OP. Recant.

 

[daviyoung]

Of course if it unreasonable to expect them to be as hairless as a baby's bum, a bit of hair is to be expected. But it is pretty obvious when someone just doesn't give a fuck and their legs and arms as as hairy as the bottom part of a velcro tab. It is gross and doesn't give a good initial impression.

I'm sure this isn't the touchy feely PC response that gaf wants to promote, but outside this lil sanctuary it is generally a good idea to make it look like you care and put at least the minimum bit of effort into your outward appearance. This goes for both men and women.

You are operating in your own little sanctuary where everyone has to take care of their bodies to meet a certain standard: your standard, probably the front of GQ or FHM or whatever. It doesn't matter, it's your standard. We do not operate in your sanctuary, where we conform to your standard but we also do not operate in the GAF sanctuary, where everyone hangs loose and does what they want. Outside of these two sanctuaries, in the actual world, there is a disproportionate amount of rules applied to female beauty compared to male beauty. And it will be fun to see you detest that.

 

[Devolution]

Of course if it unreasonable to expect them to be as hairless as a baby's bum, a bit of hair is to be expected. But it is pretty obvious when someone just doesn't give a fuck and their legs and arms as as hairy as the bottom part of a velcro tab. It is gross and doesn't give a good initial impression.

Or you and some others are just insecure and judgmental and need to shame others into following your standards.

 

[Kano on the Phone]

It's telling that so many dudes in this thread seem to be turned off by women with human characteristics.

 

[Arsenic Yellow]

I expect by the time I am 80 women will be expected to be totally hairless, waxing heads and eyebrows and every inch of their bodies.

It's honestly expected already. Growing up spanish and in the deep south, you're pretty much expected to be hairless. My own mother makes comments if I havent shaved in a couple of days.

Gaf never fails to disappoint me. Was so happy at the beginning backlash the OP faced, then this :I

 

[ronito]

Wait so now we're expected to shave our arms too?

I expect by the time I am 80 women will be expected to be totally hairless, waxing heads and eyebrows and every inch of their bodies.

I don't think (at I least I hope not) that people are saying every one needs to shave their arms but if your arms are like this:

Maybe?
Hell, I know several guys who shave their arms.

 

[bengraven]

Wait so now we're expected to shave our arms too?

I expect by the time I am 80 women will be expected to be totally hairless, waxing heads and eyebrows and every inch of their bodies.

As more and more anime-loving boys grow to adulthood, you'll probably have to wear school girls skirts, blush and pretend to be embarrassed during sex even into your 60s.

 

[.GqueB.]

The whole concept of hairless bodies has really only cropped up in the last generation or so. Anyone who believes in such things is merely following what everyone else says is "acceptable". I believe in accepting people for what they are, rather than what society "says" they should be.

I don't know, it depends on the person. I know women who simply don't like to have hair on their legs. It's not always based on societal pressure.

I, personally, trim my underarm hair because it just gets to thick and uncomfortable. Same with my nethers.

 

[Zaraki_Kenpachi]

Of course if it unreasonable to expect them to be as hairless as a baby's bum, a bit of hair is to be expected. But it is pretty obvious when someone just doesn't give a fuck and their legs and arms as as hairy as the bottom part of a velcro tab. It is gross and doesn't give a good initial impression.

I'm sure this isn't the touchy feely PC response that gaf wants to promote, but outside this lil sanctuary it is generally a good idea to make it look like you care and put at least the minimum bit of effort into your outward appearance. This goes for both men and women.

Who are you even arguing with at this point?

 

[Arsenic Yellow]

As more and more anime-loving boys grow to adulthood, you'll probably have to wear school girls skirts, blush and pretend to be embarrassed during sex even into your 60s.

you know, I was starting to get pretty down by this thread. Your post made my day.

 

[inm8num2]

This thread reminds me of The Wolf of Wall Street.

Does this thread glorify or condemn the labeling of girls with body hair (aka virtually all women) as "disgusting"?

 

[Seanspeed]

Natalia Vodianova is not disgusting OP. Recant.

I can deal with a bit of untamed stubble in the winter, but smooth legs are just oh so wonderful. I love girl's legs and for them to be completely hairy like that is a total turn off and an instant deal-breaker. Don't care how natural it is. Its not natural to wear makeup, either. But we all(guys and girls) basically expect it this day and age. Its something we grow accustomed to and its really not our fault or some 'choice' that we find hairy legs or a complete lack of makeup unattractive.

I'd rather not word it to say its 'digusting', but its definitely a strong turn-off for many.

 

[Zaraki_Kenpachi]

Does this thread glorify or condemn the labeling of girls with body hair (aka virtually all women) as "disgusting"?

What?

 

[MrToughPants]

What does that even have to do with what I was responding to. He addressed all of us "neogaf girls". You have preferences, thats fine, he isnt even talking about pubic hair. Read what I am actually responding to before throwing a pissy fit. Also, don't fucking address us as one collective. You guys wonder why girls aren't posting in this thread? it's because of these asshole responses.

Edit: nice selfie. Too bad you totally missed understood what I was trying to say and became completely ridiculous.

I honestly thought he meant pubic hair, he doesn't infer body hair and it's Salsa... I never even notice blondes with body hair, it's usually peach fuzz, the only place I'll notice is the unkempt nethers.

 

[inm8num2]

What?

LOL I was referencing the controversy around whether that movie glorifies or condemns the behavior it depicts.

Bad attempt at lightheartedness. :/

 

[Keri]

Wait so now we're expected to shave our arms too?

I expect by the time I am 80 women will be expected to be totally hairless, waxing heads and eyebrows and every inch of their bodies.

On the positive side, the trend is moving towards similar hairlessness in men. A natural side-effect of teaching women that all body hair is disgusting is that women are eventually going to apply this rule to men. The more we're taught to value silky smooth skin on ourselves the more outlandish hairy skin becomes, in general. Most male models are already hairless on their chests and have slim-to-none armpit hair. Also "manscaping" is now a thing, so there's that too...

Just a heads-up men: Cocoa butter and baby oil are your friends.

 

[The Librarian]

I honestly thought he meant pubic hair, he doesn't infer body hair and it's Salsa... I never even notice blondes with body hair, it's usually peach fuzz, the only place I'll notice is the unkempt nethers.

Even if he only meant pubic hair, what he still said was ridiculous. He's telling us what to do with our bodies.

 

[ZaCH3000]

Or you and some others are just insecure and judgmental and need to shame others into following your standards.

Expressing an opinion over the internet is not shaming anyone to do anything. Having standards and wanting someone to fit within those standards is perfectly acceptable.