Giving a BJ...anyone else feel like it's the greatest feeling in the world?

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Watch Da Birdie said:
Nah, I mean it was before..

I was at the bar drinking and having a good time, I remember seeing him there (I think we might've talked once, because we shared the same birthday--he was one year younger than me so this was his first time at the bar I'd seen him--which had just passed) but overall I don't recall making any plans or really doing anything to make him think I was interested.

Went home, got on the computer (I like to sober up a bit before going to bed), and he'd messaged me despite the fact I didn't have him as a Friend, asking if he could come over, I was like, yeah, I guess we could play video-games or something I was thinking, and then he pretty much was at my door as soon as I said yes. Like I remember thinking wow, that's fast, my campus was pretty small and all, but still.

I invited him in, and he started complimenting me and then next thing I know I was giving a BJ. To be fair I'm pretty sure I joked about the BJ and he took me up on it, so it was consensual I guess, but I wasn't all there as I'd drunk a lot so you be the judge. I also remember him spanking me because once more I was joking around like we were in a porno playing the girl and all, and I was like "spank me like a bad girl". But I sort of backed out when I realized that he'd possibly...shoot off in my bed and I didn't want to have to clean my comforter since the laundry room in my dorm sucked. So I asked him to leave.
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That's what a face and or mouth is for.
 
I really think the way Tila Tequila gives head in her latest sex tape is ace.

Also sound goes a long way... Japanese porn seems to get this.

Edit: More on topic but I listen to a LOT of Loveline, and Dr. Drew would more than likely say you have some confusion you have to work through. I would take a good look at your sexual attractions and maybe see if you're frustrated because you do have homosexual tendencies.
 
Watch Da Birdie said:
Nah, I mean it was before..

I was at the bar drinking and having a good time, I remember seeing him there (I think we might've talked once, because we shared the same birthday--he was one year younger than me so this was his first time at the bar I'd seen him--which had just passed) but overall I don't recall making any plans or really doing anything to make him think I was interested.

Went home, got on the computer (I like to sober up a bit before going to bed), and he'd messaged me despite the fact I didn't have him as a Friend, asking if he could come over, I was like, yeah, I guess we could play video-games or something I was thinking, and then he pretty much was at my door as soon as I said yes. Like I remember thinking wow, that's fast, my campus was pretty small and all, but still.

I invited him in, and he started complimenting me and then next thing I know I was giving a BJ. To be fair I'm pretty sure I joked about the BJ and he took me up on it, so it was consensual I guess, but I wasn't all there as I'd drunk a lot so you be the judge. I also remember him spanking me because once more I was joking around like we were in a porno playing the girl and all, and I was like "spank me like a bad girl". But I sort of backed out when I realized that he'd possibly...shoot off in my bed and I didn't want to have to clean my comforter since the laundry room in my dorm sucked. So I asked him to leave.
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What video game were you gonna play
 
IHaveCandy said:
Okay well now you're expecting me to believe you had sex before watching porn. You understand this is hard to believe, yes?
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I know how sex worked by the time I was old enough to want to stick my mouth between a girl's legs. People come up with new inventions all the time. What so hard to believe about someone wanting to try that before knowing anything about it? I already knew the basics of sex.
 
I have to admit, the thought actually doesn't repulse me and I find it somewhat intriguing. I'm not sure what to make of that.
 
I can't say my girlfriend is the best at giving blowjobs but she absolutely loves blowing me. Not sure what's up with that. Maybe I have a nice penis ;-)
 
Watch Da Birdie said:
But I sort of backed out when I realized that he'd possibly...shoot off in my bed and I didn't want to have to clean my comforter since the laundry room in my dorm sucked. So I asked him to leave.
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Oh my god that's brutal.

salva said:
I can't say my girlfriend is the best at giving blowjobs but she absolutely loves blowing me. Not sure what's up with that. Maybe I have a nice penis ;-)
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My ex was this way...she's blow me every time before sex, but she used her teeth lots. Couldn't deep throat for shit (and she did try), but those teeth always had me feeling awkward and often uncomfortable. Had to get into a 69 to finish the job lots of times.
 
Watch Da Birdie said:
....gave this dude I knew a BJ.

I consider myself to be straight....

....if I ever get a girlfriend....
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Self-identification is a bunch of nonsense.

If it walks like a duck, qwacks like a duck, its a duck.

Op, you are Bisexual. You may not of derived sexual feelings from this particular encounter, but you have the potential to do so.

There is nothing straight about wanting another mans junk in your mouth, much less enjoying the experience.
 
IHaveCandy said:
In porn, I always see the girls continuing to suck after the guy blows his load. You know, sucking out the last drop and all. The guy seems to be fine about it too. But every time I get a blowjob, I am like 100x more sensitive after finishing and need her to get off me ASAP. Very often, they won't stop because at that point she will know she literally has me by the balls and I'm experiencing the worst tickle ever. Does anybody else get this?
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Yes. That's how I am. I feel bad because I just came in her mouth but I'm like "you gotta stop NOW" and sometimes I have to physically stop her.
 
I haven't ever given a blow job but once I got the hang of it giving cunnilingus was a lot of fun for me. Been a long time though, probably way out of practice at this point :/
 
methane47 said:
Isn't there some kind of limit to this idea that a person can call themselves whatever they please?
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Sure, where would you like to draw the line? Telling women who identify as men that they're wrong? Straight men who once had a gay sexual experience that they're wrong? Lesbians who had sex with men that they aren't really lesbians?

You don't get to define someone's sexuality. If you support that, then you must, by your own logic, call anyone who ever had any sexual contact with someone of the opposite sex, bisexual at least. Even if they did it once and never tried it again. The act of having sexual contact with someone of the same gender does not make you homosexual or bisexual.

Those labels exist largely to identify our preferences, not what we're capable of. Any of us could have sex with someone of the same gender. If you did, do you think it would change your sexual orientation?

Because lots of people who identify as either straight or gay have, in fact, engaged in heterosexual sex acts. Are they straight? Bisexual? Gay? And lots of people who identify as straight have, in fact, engaged in homosexual sex acts.

The fundamental problem is that we're trying to categorize an incredibly complex phenomena using three words. It lacks precision, and it interferes with people's own understanding of their sexual desires.
 
One things for sure, ain't nothing better than when your significant other has dick suckers disease.
 
Fare Godmace said:
So many Gaffers trying to label OP's sexuality... Who cares if he's straight, gay or bi? Let him be, FFS.
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I couldn't care less what he is.

However, the entire premise/wording of this thread is hilarious. "You know, I was just drunk and chillin'. So I invited this gay guy over to my dorm room late at night. Wouldn't you know it? I'm suckin' his dick. But whatevs, I'm straight."

besada said:
Sure, where would you like to draw the line? Telling women who identify as men that they're wrong? Straight men who once had a gay sexual experience that they're wrong? Lesbians who had sex with men that they aren't really lesbians?

You don't get to define someone's sexuality. If you support that, then you must, by your own logic, call anyone who ever had any sexual contact with someone of the opposite sex, bisexual at least. Even if they did it once and never tried it again. The act of having sexual contact with someone of the same gender does not make you homosexual or bisexual.

Those labels exist largely to identify our preferences, not what we're capable of. Any of us could have sex with someone of the same gender. If you did, do you think it would change your sexual orientation?

Because lots of people who identify as either straight or gay have, in fact, engaged in heterosexual sex acts. Are they straight? Bisexual? Gay? And lots of people who identify as straight have, in fact, engaged in homosexual sex acts.

The fundamental problem is that we're trying to categorize an incredibly complex phenomena using three words. It lacks precision, and it interferes with people's own understanding of their sexual desires.
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Uh...I think you're overlooking the fact that he says it's the greatest thing in the world.
 
I feel like part of the point the OP was making is lost in this thread.

"Giving" - remove him being gay or straight or bi and I can understand the point he created the thread about.
Personally I couldn't give a bj, but I can see how it'd be a power trip. Substitute BJ with your preferred technique and you can see it.
 
davepoobond said:
unrelated?

if you're a dude and you willingly have a penis in your mouth that is completely related to sexual orientation and/or preference. i think we can agree that most men don't like having a dick in their mouth -- that's preference right there.

Orientation is a little more of a social/mental thing, and what you identify as, but people who suck a penis are higher percentage to be gay.
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The word preference doesn't mean you dislike things that aren't your preference. I prefer chocolate ice cream. That doesn't mean I automatically dislike other flavors, just that I like them less. Someone can have a sexual preference for women but still enjoy giving men blowjobs.
 
besada said:
Sure, where would you like to draw the line? Telling women who identify as men that they're wrong? Straight men who once had a gay sexual experience that they're wrong? Lesbians who had sex with men that they aren't really lesbians?

You don't get to define someone's sexuality. If you support that, then you must, by your own logic, call anyone who ever had any sexual contact with someone of the opposite sex, bisexual at least. Even if they did it once and never tried it again. The act of having sexual contact with someone of the same gender does not make you homosexual or bisexual.

Those labels exist largely to identify our preferences, not what we're capable of. Any of us could have sex with someone of the same gender. If you did, do you think it would change your sexual orientation?

Because lots of people who identify as either straight or gay have, in fact, engaged in heterosexual sex acts. Are they straight? Bisexual? Gay? And lots of people who identify as straight have, in fact, engaged in homosexual sex acts.

The fundamental problem is that we're trying to categorize an incredibly complex phenomena using three words. It lacks precision, and it interferes with people's own understanding of their sexual desires.
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Well there's also the problem of avoiding gay perception entirely because of the stigma, so gay acts are suddenly "not gay" to save face rather than because they "don't consider themselves this way" or supposedly "feel nothing." It's a complicated mess for sure.
 
Watch Da Birdie said:
Yeah, perhaps, but honestly I didn't really feel any sexual gratification from it. It was more like an ego-boost, you know when you come home from another night at the bar without scoring, and someone basically invites themselves over and tells you they find you pretty cute, well, I couldn't really turn that down.

But you know, I've never really had any serious relationships, male or female, so it very well could be I swing for both sides and just haven't realized it.

EDIT: Also, it didn't reach "that point", I stopped it and asked him to leave.
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He definitely blew his load on your front door when he got outside your place
 
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