Giving a BJ...anyone else feel like it's the greatest feeling in the world?

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i dont understand how someone can not be your friend and invite themselves over and then somehow get a BJ out of the whole ordeal, whether it was from a dude or not.
 
This is gonna hit 20 pages by the time I get home.
 
SeanR1221 said:
I'd consider you bisexual.
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Yeah, perhaps, but honestly I didn't really feel any sexual gratification from it. It was more like an ego-boost, you know when you come home from another night at the bar without scoring, and someone basically invites themselves over and tells you they find you pretty cute, well, I couldn't really turn that down.

But you know, I've never really had any serious relationships, male or female, so it very well could be I swing for both sides and just haven't realized it.

EDIT: Also, it didn't reach "that point", I stopped it and asked him to leave.
 
Watch Da Birdie said:
Yeah, perhaps, but honestly I didn't really feel any sexual gratification from it. It was more like an ego-boost, you know when you come home from another night at the bar without scoring, and someone basically invites themselves over and tells you they find you pretty cute, well, I couldn't really turn that down.

But you know, I've never really had any serious relationships, male or female, so it very well could be I swing for both sides and just haven't realized it.
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Have you given a woman oral?
 
So you felt empowered for it even tho you think the guy used you?

But yeah, its great to make a girl you like feel great under conditions that are fully under your control, it honestly turns me on that receiving a blowjob.
 
I think giving a blowjob turns me on more than getting it turns on my boyfriend. :P Gotta practice more so that it's more balanced.
 
A friend and I in middle school used to argue which was the "gay" part of the act. I insisted that the homosexual part of it is the person receiving the blowjob. After all, that's the part that is actually having a sexual experience to their own body.
 
Watch Da Birdie said:
Yeah, perhaps, but honestly I didn't really feel any sexual gratification from it. It was more like an ego-boost, you know when you come home from another night at the bar without scoring, and someone basically invites themselves over and tells you they find you pretty cute, well, I couldn't really turn that down.

But you know, I've never really had any serious relationships, male or female, so it very well could be I swing for both sides and just haven't realized it.
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I'll just throw this out there, man:

as a straight male, I've never thought to myself, "man, I wish I could give one of my friends head." Not neva.
 
AuthenticM said:
There is no way that you can call yourself "straight" when you enjoy giving blowjobs to this extent.

You're either gay or bisexual.
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He's welcome to self-identify in any way he sees fit. The idea that a trinary set of sexual orientations is capable of successfully describing the complexity of human sexuality is ridiculous.

In the same way that gay men who've had sex with women, or lesbians who've had sex with men still identify as gay, he's welcome to self-determine how he defines himself sexually.
 
He could be straight and just enjoy blowjobs. I had a sex history class last semester (that I passed, and no was not able to ask any of the girls out), where the teacher had a power point slide of dudes who said they were totally straight but were looking for Jerk Off buddies so they could jerk each other off. But were totally straight. I need to dig up that stuff somehow, cause that was hilarious, and potentially an intriguing window into the fluidity of sexual identity.

Also, it was just really hilarious.

Watch Da Birdie said:
So yeah, I used to think BJs were sort of this unfair thing guys get their girlfriends into doing for their own pleasure, but now I can see why someone would willingly do it. It was pretty fun.
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Isn't it only unfair if the dude refuses to go down on the girl? You know, return the favour?
 
You like to tease guys and love sucking their cocks. Wait, scratch that, you think it's the greatest feeling in the world.

My in-depth studies tell me you may be bisexual
 
IHaveCandy said:
A friend and I in middle school used to argue which was the "gay" part of the act. I insisted that the homosexual part of it is the person receiving the blowjob. After all, that's the part that is actually having a sexual experience to their own body.
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i definitely have to say the person giving it. if you're receiving it, you can close your eyes and think of a girl, but if you are giving it, you still have a dick in your mouth.
 
Pretty sure you cant be a straight guy if you enjoy having a dick in your mouth but what do I know ?
Anyway nothing better than receiving a bj from a girl who knows how to suck that dick.
As Ice-T put it "suck it like you're drowning and my balls are full of oxygen."
Of course the experience is only truly complete if she swallows or takes a facial.
Anyway, thats part of the greatness of giving head or eating pussy, giving such pleasure to someone else.
 
Hm.

What an interesting story.

I can only relate to performing oral sex on a woman, but I've never equated it to a power thing, just giving the other person pleasure is what I find pleasurable.
 
I'm gay and I do enjoy giving them... But OP you confuse me, you have to be at least bisexual to even think about giving one, let alone actually doing so
 
I think my wife likes giving them. We had a discussion about it recently, and determined that it was likely just as good for her as it was for me.

I'm a lucky sonofabitch.
 
I mean I don't see what's wrong with it. It's nice to experiment with your sexuality I guess. More power to you OP
 
Nether! said:
Hm.

What an interesting story.

I can only relate to performing oral sex on a woman, but I've never equated it to a power thing, just giving the other person pleasure is what I find pleasurable.
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UraMallas said:
I'm not a huge fan of them (relative to sex) but I've had a select few girls do it like they do in pornos and THAT is the correct way to give a blow job. Lots of saliva, both hands, and cock-worship. When a girl does those things, it's over for me.
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BJs should be all mouth! Hands are nice, of course, but they should be kept to a minimum. Although, some people need all the help they can get.
 
davepoobond said:
i definitely have to say the person giving it. if you're receiving it, you can close your eyes and think of a girl, but if you are giving it, you still have a dick in your mouth.
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Having a dick in your mouth is just that. Having a dick in your mouth. Completely unrelated to sexual orientation or sexual preference. Closing your eyes doesn't change the fact that you know it is a man giving you a blowjob. So clearly the side that is experiencing a homosexual act is the receiver.
 
SecretMoblin said:
edit: god damn it besada
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gso

Watch Da Birdie said:
Yeah, perhaps, but honestly I didn't really feel any sexual gratification from it. It was more like an ego-boost, you know when you come home from another night at the bar without scoring, and someone basically invites themselves over and tells you they find you pretty cute, well, I couldn't really turn that down.

EDIT: Also, it didn't reach "that point", I stopped it and asked him to leave.
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you missed out. finishing someone is the real ego boosting part TBH. makes you feel pretty damn good about everything.
 
FStop7 said:
Not finishing him is the fucked up part.
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God. Can you imagine being some poor, lonely, sexually confused college student who gets offered a BJ from some dude, and thinks, "Maybe I'll like it. Why not?" And then the guy doesn't even finish you? Traumatic.
 
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