Giving a BJ...anyone else feel like it's the greatest feeling in the world?

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Fare Godmace said:
So many Gaffers trying to label OP's sexuality... Who cares if he's straight, gay or bi? Let him be, FFS.
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It might be useful for the OP to realize he's bisexual.

Its not like anybody is giving him grief for being bisexual, its more his complete obliviousness to it that people seem to be 'wtf' over.
 
Watch Da Birdie said:
Nah, I mean it was before..

I was at the bar drinking and having a good time, I remember seeing him there (I think we might've talked once, because we shared the same birthday--he was one year younger than me so this was his first time at the bar I'd seen him--which had just passed) but overall I don't recall making any plans or really doing anything to make him think I was interested.

Went home, got on the computer (I like to sober up a bit before going to bed), and he'd messaged me despite the fact I didn't have him as a Friend, asking if he could come over, I was like, yeah, I guess we could play video-games or something I was thinking, and then he pretty much was at my door as soon as I said yes. Like I remember thinking wow, that's fast, my campus was pretty small and all, but still.

I invited him in, and he started complimenting me and then next thing I know I was giving a BJ. To be fair I'm pretty sure I joked about the BJ and he took me up on it, so it was consensual I guess, but I wasn't all there as I'd drunk a lot so you be the judge. I also remember him spanking me because once more I was joking around like we were in a porno playing the girl and all, and I was like "spank me like a bad girl". But I sort of backed out when I realized that he'd possibly...shoot off in my bed and I didn't want to have to clean my comforter since the laundry room in my dorm sucked. So I asked him to leave.
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You should've just swallowed!
 
Nothing wrong with it at all OP. It's nice that you blew the guy, especially since men give far better blowjobs than women. Nice that he gave you a napkin to clean up with

I feel empowered myself when I do it.
 
I consider myself to be straight
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This whole labeling thing....

What about guys that like anal play? Does it matter if it's a woman or a man that's working the gears? Is a man gay if he has his wife/GF strap one on and bang him? Hell, what about dudes that like a little pinky? Point is you can be stimulated by anything that you like, enjoy anything you like and identify any way you like.

I figure that that OP knows GAF is a welcome and accepting place and if he was homosexual he could say it here and be done with it.

That everyone is singling in on his sexuality isn't jiving with me.
 
Devolution said:
Well there's also the problem of avoiding gay perception entirely because of the stigma, so gay acts are suddenly "not gay" to save face rather than because they "don't consider themselves this way" or supposedly "feel nothing." It's a complicated mess for sure.
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That's generally why I'm fine allowing folks to self-determine both gender and orientation.

I don't think the outside world gets to tell you who you are. And once you start, where do we draw the line? I was molested by a male relative. Does that make me gay, even though I've only ever dated women, and have been with the same woman for 18 years?

The idea that having a particular set of genitals in your mouth/ass/vagina once means you're permanently and forever bisexual, gay, or straight is ridiculous. What I find really interesting is the number of women I know who've had sex with women but consider themselves straight -- and no one blinks an eye at that. But if men do the same, they must be moved out of the category of straight, lest their cooties infect us.
 
ShadowkillXNA said:
This is probably going to come off as bragging but it really isnt I swear!
My first wife was a short woman, 5'0" and she had a very small mouth, She could barely fit the head of my dick in there and as a result couldnt give me very good head. She also was a beginner so that was a factor as well.
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That doesn't come off as bragging, but this might.

I have a very small mouth, a terrible gag reflex, but I still make things work. Using your hands, having rhythm, and knowing how to ulitize your tongue can make all the difference.
 
Yeah I've never released from just strictly a BJ. It feels good and all...but idk. It just hasn't happened yet.
 
IHaveCandy said:
In porn, I always see the girls continuing to suck after the guy blows his load. You know, sucking out the last drop and all. The guy seems to be fine about it too. But every time I get a blowjob, I am like 100x more sensitive after finishing and need her to get off me ASAP. Very often, they won't stop because at that point she will know she literally has me by the balls and I'm experiencing the worst tickle ever. Does anybody else get this?
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post-blow sucking is the best. on the receiving end at least. can't say I've ever been on the giving side of things.
 
I dunno, but if I told my girlfriend that I used to give BJs, that would be as close to a dealbreaker as it can get. She'd think she could lose me to a guy or a gal. That's twice the insecurity!
 
besada said:
That's generally why I'm fine allowing folks to self-determine both gender and orientation.

I don't think the outside world gets to tell you who you are. And once you start, where do we draw the line? I was molested by a male relative. Does that make me gay, even though I've only ever dated women, and have been with the same woman for 18 years?

The idea that having a particular set of genitals in your mouth/ass/vagina once means you're permanently and forever bisexual, gay, or straight is ridiculous. What I find really interesting is the number of women I know who've had sex with women but consider themselves straight -- and no one blinks an eye at that. But if men do the same, they must be moved out of the category of straight, lest their cooties infect us.
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People can identify what they want but if some politician keeps harping about "the gays" and gets caught in a public toilet with some guy's dick in his mouth, I don't think too many people are going to buy "but I identify as straight." But I'm using a pretty obvious case of closeted self-hatred.
 
besada said:
That's generally why I'm fine allowing folks to self-determine both gender and orientation.

I don't think the outside world gets to tell you who you are. And once you start, where do we draw the line? I was molested by a male relative. Does that make me gay, even though I've only ever dated women, and have been with the same woman for 18 years?

The idea that having a particular set of genitals in your mouth/ass/vagina once means you're permanently and forever bisexual, gay, or straight is ridiculous. What I find really interesting is the number of women I know who've had sex with women but consider themselves straight -- and no one blinks an eye at that. But if men do the same, they must be moved out of the category of straight, lest their cooties infect us.
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We're not talking about somebody who was molested or raped, but somebody who voluntarily sucked a dick and then found it to be the greatest feeling in the world.
 
everthustodeadbeats said:
I dunno, but if I told my girlfriend that I used to give BJs, that would be as close to a dealbreaker as it can get. She'd think she could lose me to a guy or a gal. That's twice the insecurity!
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If I ever told my girlfriend that I'm down with giving guys BJs she's be elated and start bringing guys home for me to blow.

So I'd have to give secret blowjays.
 
I wouldn't rank sucking dick that highly, I tend to start thinking of other things.

Being on the receiving end of a nice languid BJ is the best though. The feel of being worshipped...

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Yeah dunno about giving one but it must be alright if some people seem to genuinely love it. My ex gave great head and she knew it. She was constantly trying to blow me. Before that relationship I never could envisage myself turning down a BJ but goddamn there are some times I just couldnt bring myself to get blown yet again.

Probably the only part of that relationship I miss if Im honest.
 
Seanspeed said:
It might be useful for the OP to realize he's bisexual.

Its not like anybody is giving him grief for being bisexual, its more his complete obliviousness to it that people seem to be 'wtf' over.
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i'm not saying he's not bisexual, but he said he's physically and sexually attracted to women and just gave the BJ for kicks. LOL

i wouldn't say that's bisexual at all. More a guy that's very convertible w/ his own sexuality, probably isn't used to being in a position of being desired + control trying something new, and it was an enjoyable/heady experience.

i mean OP didn't even say whether or not he physically got off on it.
 
Devolution said:
People can identify what they want but if some politician keeps harping about "the gays" and gets caught in a public toilet with some guy's dick in his mouth, I don't think too many people are going to buy "but I identify as straight."
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Sure, agreed. If you've spent your life railing against something and get caught doing it, it's fine to be taken to task.

Sexuality is complex, which I think you agree with. I'm just reluctant to place myself as the final arbiter for what someone's sexual orientation is.
 
Seanspeed said:
And enjoy it? I contest that does make you gay/bi to some degree.
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Enjoy it? No. If you're having a good time doing something it means you probably like it. And if you like sucking a penis, you're at least partially gay.

But people who would suck a dick for money aren't necessarily gay. Or someone who tries it once and never wants to do it again.
 
besada said:
Sure, agreed. If you've spent your life railing against something and get caught doing it, it's fine to be taken to task.

Sexuality is complex, which I think you agree with. I'm just reluctant to place myself as the final arbiter for what someone's sexual orientation is.
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It's complex as hell and definitely a spectrum. There are things I like to do with women or have them to do me that are pretty specific but I have my limits.
 
Seanspeed said:
We're not talking about somebody who was molested or raped, but somebody who voluntarily sucked a dick and then found it to be the greatest feeling in the world.
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Actually, earlier we were talking about anyone who'd ever had a dick in his mouth.

If you want to label people based on your own preconceptions, I can't really stop you. But those labels are often poor fits for people, so don't be surprised when they respond poorly to your labeling.
 
I have given and received...lately it just hurts to give though :/

I hardly ever receive it though so when I do it's amazing feeling mang.
 
i don't have a problem with straight guys wanting to put a dick in their mouth

i do have a problem with them thinking it makes them 'queer' and trying to muscle in on the sweet homosexual control of the media that we have going on through our 'lgbt rights' brainwashing campaign
 
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