I'm fucking thankful that I've just gotten off that ride. Just paid off $36,000 in debt today and cancelled the cards (curious how it's going to effect my credit score). With my personal situation, there was no way I was going to be able to keep up with 15% interest on that and ever make a dent in the principle. And while I don't like the reason I was able to get $36k quickly, sometimes we just need to bite the bullet and do what we need to do.
Hell, going back to work to pay it off was on the table even if it meant fucking up my neck some more.
Glad a different opportunity opened up for a pretty decent job, once I learn all the stuff I need to do and how to do it.
For that woman, depending on how desperate she is to pay off that debt there's always OnlyFans. I honestly can't think of another way for her to get out of a million dollar debt without bankruptcy.