The rappers blasted out on Oprah because she didn't act ghetto? Black people I work with are actually scared of going to clubs and such because they don't look "black" enough. That means ganster acting, white people hating and generally caring about hip hop music and bling than anything else.
I'm afraid with the opening of the black-focused school in Toronto, it's only got to get worse. Black people need to deal with the stereotypes, they need to get their act together, they need to clean up the media. They need to work harder to present themselves as leaders not just of their communities but for their country.
I remember last year, I was at McDonald's, and this ghetto looking couple was ordering something, then really a really classy black couple entred the restaurant. The ghetto girl starting lashing on her cell phone how the service was lousy and blah blah, while the cash lady just wanted to take her order. The classy lady spit in the face of the other girl, and said, it's because of people like you that our kind can't advance. I laughed but it still was true.
I was doing interviews early this year, arabics, italians, chinese and two black teens. Everyone of them was wearing a suit except the two black guys, which were wearing loose t-shirt and pants. What's the point of affirmative action when the guys can't even bother to look nice. And don't see because it's a money issue, the other kids were just as poor, and there are places to borrow suits for interviews.
I agree about having economic help (i.e. people want to enter university and can't afford), but maybe these kids could afford if the divorce rate wasn't that high in the black community, that you can't blame white people.
I believe in equal opportunities, not in equal life.