Have you considered taking your savings/skill set and moving somewhere more affordable? Earnest question
I'm not sure that property ownership alone would be enough of an incentive for me to do that. It would mean being away from friends and family, being away from city life, and being a lot more vulnerable career-wise because there are far fewer opportunities.
Plus, I love my job, I work for a blue-chip Big Tech company that treats me very well. Doing the same thing for some small company would not really be the same. And I love my city. These things are aspirational for me as well.
I personally make above the median household income in my state. Live a very simple life in a simple 3br home. Nothing snazzy. I'm a high school dropout who grinded.
That's around $600-700K around here on the low end. We're a $200K couple between us, we probably COULD do that if we stretched, but we rent a 4br apartment for a LOT less.
My point being, life is a system of inputs and outputs. I'm all for people making more money, etc, but at some point you're supposed to put in the effort to advance yourself into a position where you can afford what it is you want.
As an individual, yes. But housing and childcare costs ARE increasing, and this is resulting in a decline in fertility rates and home ownership. Those are real trends creating real problems for America, and it isn't because people are lazy or don't want to succeed anymore. Nor can you as an individual bootstraps the country into a better place. The answer is policy, as ever.
Plus, you know, I understand the argument that having free time to enjoy life, spend with your family, etc is aspirational. Americans get less vacation time than anyone in the world. We grind so hard, but if you aren't doing it to enjoy life, then you're just doing it to survive. That's fucked up in a way too.
Sounds like the guest needed some self awareness then. Maybe just don't take the interview. Better to be thought a fool than open your mouth and be known a fool.
Just because someone is dumb enough to be exploited doesn't mean it's right to exploit them. This person is clearly a bit off, and the producers know that, and that's WHY they booked them.