Bogdan said:
Stop having sex for so long, if you can't make your girl climax multiple times in 15 minutes you suck at sex.
Anyways I don't really believe you. I have had sex with plent O' women and out of them very few climax from penetration. 1 out of 5 is a good number.
Woah Woah Woah. Women come in all different varieties. Not all are multiorgasmic. Not all require the same stimulation and not all have the same recovery period. Hell not all of them are the same every time, what works one day may not work the next. I'm smelling a lot of faked orgasms here... and don't take it personally They get faked for a variety of reasons that don't necessarily have anything bad or good to say about you.
And second, size does matter. That's bullshit. A 4 inch pencil dick is just not going to have the same physical affect as a more average penis. There's a few things that need to be said. First, the average size penis is just fine, really. Average by the way is 4-5 inches girth and 5-6.5 inches length (ironically in the studies depending on who did the measurements, the men or the researchers). I'm being rough, but you can google it for yourself. And girth is far more important than length. The reason size matters is because most women like to feel filled, and being stretched in any direction (length or girth) is a good thing. Considering most of the sensation in a vagina is in the first few inches, length won't buy you much if you go beyond average. Women can't feel an extra inch unless you're banging it into their cervix (which can hurt - until pain tolerance increases closer to orgasm). But girth can, because it can stimulate more area. An overly long penis can also reduce clitoral stimulation which is the most common form of female orgasm. The clitoris is located about 1-3 inches away from the vaginal opening so generally a lot of the stimulation is provided by your pubic bone rubbing against her (or hands), so if you can't go deep because of length then you're handicapped, not helped. Plus you won't get as much self pleasure as you won't be fully encaptured, nor necessarily able to go at the pace/manner you like.
So what it boils down to is this. Women want a bare minimum so they can feel it, and there's also too much of a good thing, but as long as you fall around average you're fine, just fine.
KiNeSiS said:
The problem is after a long session and after a couple of climaxes girls tend to tighten up I believe from swelling. That's when they rip usually after about 20 min.
The most likely answer here is not swelling but lack of lubrication and arousal, which can contribute to the vagina losing it's elasticity (no it's not always as big as a penis, it lengthens and opens with arousal) as well as gaining friction, which combines to tear the condom. Get yourself a condom friendly lube, and communicate with your partner to get a more accurate pulse on their arousal. Sometimes it's there mentally but not physically so don't take it personally if the physical is giving her problems. And if they are having multiple orgasms it's only inevitable that most women will eventually lubricate less.
I can't repeat this enough, porn is not reality. Some of what looks good, doesn't feel good, especially if you're the woman. It's done that way for the visual factor, to arouse the brain. Usually the orgasms (even male, down to semen) are faked. The scenes are spliced together, not really all one take. The average women (as noted in sex studies) requires more foreplay, does not have multiple orgasms - much less that readily, and will dry out with extended intercourse regardless of mental arousal.