I've now been unemployed since September and that's not a lack of trying. Im 32 and Im really fighting doing something where I'm not going to make anything. I feel at 32, by myself, if I resign myself to some job making $10 bucks an hour.... any resemblance of a career is over. But Ive been unemployed for so long now that the length is starting to hurt (or at least I feel that it is).
It just feels like to get a halfway decent job aka a job that doesn't absolutely blow and you can make AT LEAST 13-14, you HAVE to know someone. Resume/Experience/Education matters not at all. Its ALL about having someone on the inside of where you're trying to get into. And due to having a small circle of friends, my "network" is very small.
I'm currently living in Cincinnati, but have always wanted to live somewhere on North Carolina's coast, so Ive been applying for jobs in the Wilmington and surrounding areas as well. Nothing. Since Ive been unemployed, Ive had a grand total on ONE interview, which I saw highly qualified for, interview went great, and didnt get.
I feel either Im cursed, blacklisted from working ever again, etc. I wish there was a website or something where people would offer up referrals for jobs that their at, I'd pay at this point. Feels pretty hopeless.