Anyone recieve a gift they loathe from a SO
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Astral Dog
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You sound pretty selfish op
" She is the perfect Girlfriend but she doesnt have the Moneyz"
" She is the perfect Girlfriend but she doesnt have the Moneyz"
Why haven't you followed up on the Bug thread then? It has been months!
Dude, just take the L and stop lying to yourself. You're an complete and total asshole in the OP, lying about the story and pulling the victim card makes you look even more pathetic.
Megalosaro
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Send your girlfriend my way, op.
I will actully treat her with respect.
I will actully treat her with respect.
Did you at least tip your fedora while writing this?
crowphoenix
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He likes what he likes.
Megalosaro
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Nope, but I did tip my patriots beanie
FearMyWrench
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IMO it's okay you said you didn't like the gift, but saying you were having a good birthday until then is over the line. Of course she's going to be hurt by that. Did you consider how you would have felt to hear that after your gift before?
Dynamite Shikoku
Congratulations, you really deserve it!
Op your troll threads are not interesting
Head of Vengarl
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Not sure if I believe your "twist" OP, but whoever said that is one spoiled, selfish motherfucker whose parents should be slapped for raising such an ungrateful little shit.
How has he not been banned? Either he's trolling or he's basically demonstrating how he's human garbage constantly.
kitchenmotors
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Don't believe anything the OP ever post.
EstoyBlackWaldo
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Your threads never fail to be entertaining bruh
Zaraki_Kenpachi
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Edit: Nvm, apparently OP is just posting troll thread and lying about shit. SMH
Rellik
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So this is why the ignore list was created.
The Albatross
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Despite OP being a liar/idiot, I've been in this situation.
My wife got me a winter jacket for Christmas maybe 4 or 5 years ago. I needed a winter jacket, my wife (GF at the time) was desperate for ideas, so I told her, I needed a winter jacket and I was expecting like one of those pea-coat like jackets. Those fit my style mostly and I'd imagine she'd like me wearing one. Well, Christmas comes around, and she gives me this really huge, puffy enormous jacket with fake fur frill around the hood. It was like hilariously not my style, and my wife normally got me things that are always my style or enhance it.
But I did the thing that anybody should do: I pretended to love it and wore the shit out of it for 3 or 4 winters, then when I got a new jacket ("I need a jacket I can wear with suits..."), I'd wear it when snow blowing or walking the dog... before we finally gave it to a poor student of hers who didn't have a winter coat.
I even took some deriding comments from coworkers about the jacket and took them with glee. "Wow that's... uhh... that's some jacket." "YEP. My wife bought it for me!" I proudly wore that jacket, and it kept me warm for many winters.
It's the thought that counts, always, and getting a gift is more about being gracious to the gift giver than enjoying what someone gets you.
Holy shit.
OP, here's how you deal with this, you show her this thread and show her every post callingyou her an idiot/asshole/jerk/etc.
Trust me, no more fights with your girlfriend.
My wife got me a winter jacket for Christmas maybe 4 or 5 years ago. I needed a winter jacket, my wife (GF at the time) was desperate for ideas, so I told her, I needed a winter jacket and I was expecting like one of those pea-coat like jackets. Those fit my style mostly and I'd imagine she'd like me wearing one. Well, Christmas comes around, and she gives me this really huge, puffy enormous jacket with fake fur frill around the hood. It was like hilariously not my style, and my wife normally got me things that are always my style or enhance it.
But I did the thing that anybody should do: I pretended to love it and wore the shit out of it for 3 or 4 winters, then when I got a new jacket ("I need a jacket I can wear with suits..."), I'd wear it when snow blowing or walking the dog... before we finally gave it to a poor student of hers who didn't have a winter coat.
I even took some deriding comments from coworkers about the jacket and took them with glee. "Wow that's... uhh... that's some jacket." "YEP. My wife bought it for me!" I proudly wore that jacket, and it kept me warm for many winters.
It's the thought that counts, always, and getting a gift is more about being gracious to the gift giver than enjoying what someone gets you.
Holy shit.
OP, here's how you deal with this, you show her this thread and show her every post calling
Trust me, no more fights with your girlfriend.
But who got the boots/perfume and who got the scarf/mittens?
That's so much more preferable than something useless and expensive.
Reverend Funk
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Come on man
Twilight Princess
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Tag fishing is hard.
Patrick S.
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How would he prove it though?
Now the Bug thread, he could prove but has never returned.
Air Zombie Meat
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Fuck this thread. If you're going to lie to us and change your story the least you could do is update the op.
Mysterious
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Be prepared for a break up.
Lmao These are threads are what keep me coming back to GAF. This is fucking comedy gold. How dense can OP be. Dick move dude.
StrikeNinja24
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Hey, sometimes they show interest in things because you take an interest in things, and it's perceived as their interests in turn. It's not a bad gift, it's just not in their interests. So play to their interests when you find out about them and you wont go wrong.
kingofthedead45
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If that's the case you realize you havent grown at all right? To be blunt youre still a piece of shit.
Gnome Scat
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Dude...
Patrick S.
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How can anyone be so lacking of empathy? She probably went to another room and cried her eyes out in a corner. You spent 500 bucks on a present because you could and you wanted to, nobody forced you. If she wanted to, but couldn't because of her financial situation, and you have no understanding for that and shit on her feelings, you are a real sociopath. Do you have autism? Do you take any meds?
Wow. This Should be first post.
Perfect Cha0s
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"Alright guys. Here's the twist. The roles were actually reversed. After weeks of posting in the thread. GAF exploded on me. Im feeling like shit now and angry. Like im really angry and hurt. I legitimately tried to do something trolly and it backfired.
Im heated and Ive been avoiding posting in the thread. I know if I post its going to be a fight and quite frankly, I just wanted to know if I had a leg to stand on."
echoshifting
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This thread is festering, so I'm going to reply to this again assuming that this is really true, because I think, if it is true, it's important that OP knows he generated a distorted response.
First let me say, I understand why a person would do this even if it is a really weird way to do it. It is not abnormal to have people in your life you can vent to about your SO...in fact I would say most of the people here in relationships know who in their life they can vent to and who will provide a more critical assessment of the situation. For example, I could vent to my best friend about pretty much anything my wife did that upset me and he'd just say something like "yeah man, that sucks!" But if I vented to my mother, I know she'd say something like "well, echoshifting, dear, what is going on between you?" It's normal to be in an emotional state in which you are receptive to the former but not the latter, and I suppose this is one way to ensure virtually every reply on a message board will fall into the former category.
But here's the thing OP...when we do something that is socially inappropriate, it is a built-in feature of humans living in that society to shame that person or otherwise make that person feel uncomfortable for what they did. It is one of the ways societies maintain standards of behavior. This response is something we are intuitively aware of, so I think you know you manipulated the thread to suit a particular emotional purpose. What I'm not sure of is if you're simply seeking catharsis, as described above, or if you're also looking for something to lash out at your girlfriend with.
If this had happened to me, I would definitely be hurt and I would be concerned that there was something bad going on in my relationship that I was missing, or maybe that I wasn't being 100% honest with myself about. I would definitely want the sort of catharsis described above, but gaf is not an appropriate place to seek that out, not if you don't also want the more critical examinations of the situation. Why misrepresent what happened if not to avoid the stuff that might actually get at the root of the problem and help you express how this hurt you? If this really happened, your relationship has real problems. Don't you want to fix them?
Makonero is in agreement.
Shmeagatory94
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