That's not a good take honestly. I think SpaceX has the better approach and is more successful than Blue Origin, but you simply can't develop a rocket system without a few crashes. SpaceX failed multiple rocket launches and landings and even now the odds that something goes wrong are not negligible. That's just the nature of the beast.
I'm honestly surprised at how amazing the safety system performed, separating the capsule from a frikkin' rocket booster that is roaring into space with a force that is equivalent to 40 million horses or 15,000 six-axle diesel locomotives. Would I want to experience that? Hell no, but it's a heck of a lot better than dying in a burning fireball of doom an destruction.