Right, so if you possess a cake, why would you NOT eat it? But the idiom implies your desires are unreasonable. Eating a cake that you possess is entirely reasonable
nah man that's carrot OR stick
Then shouldn't it be "have your cake and have eaten it too". Eat is either preset or future, so you can certainly have a cake and eat it at the same time. It's not until after you've finished eating it that you can no longer have it
Imagine it is a small one bite cake. It's not one after the other. You can't simulatneously consume and still possess it.
does anyone really own spaghetti
Doesn't matter. Both convey the same metal image.
I own 2 spaghettidoes anyone really own spaghetti
does anyone really own spaghetti
I own spaghetti.
Now someone come up with an explanation of "have your cake and eat it too". If you don't eat it, wtf else are you going to do with it? That's literally what cakes are for
Replace the cake with money and the eating with spending. I'd love to say that I have a million dollars,but I would also like to spend it. I would have to choose having the money or having the stuff. You can't have both.
But the money is only valuable because it can be exchanged for things. Is money really money if it isn't meant to be spent?Replace the cake with money and the eating with spending. I'd love to say that I have a million dollars,but I would also like to spend it. I would have to choose having the money or having the stuff. You can't have both.
Why here? Why now?
I always feel that Carrot is a lousy reward for encouraging people. I aint' Bugs Bunny. Hate Carrot.
Both of them are used for their respective meanings. One refers exclusively to reinforcement. The other refers to both reinforcement and punishment.
What is this carrot & stick nonsense?
Everyone advocating that needs to be put on some kind of registry.
It's the two sides of extrinsic motivation.
Carrot = incentive
Stick = punishment
Specifying the carrot delivery device is a funny idea, however dumb.
Never heard of carrot on a stick.
Carrot and stick is as others have mentioned, reward and punishment.
You can dangle your carrot from any damned thing you like.
I surmise that "carrot on a stick" has come from the same place as "I could care less", "bit of a damp squid" or "for all intensive purposes".
It's the oppositeNever heard of carrot on a stick.
Carrot and stick is as others have mentioned, reward and punishment.
You can dangle your carrot from any damned thing you like.
I surmise that "carrot on a stick" has come from the same place as "I could care less", "bit of a damp squid" or "for all intensive purposes".
English teacher here:
Both idioms exist and are correct in their own right. If I remember correctly "carrot and stick" as in motivation through offering reward and punishment originated from the "carrot on a stick" idiom, but took off as its own thing.
Carrot and stick was those people who think "peace of mind" is the correct phrase taking their mistake and running with it
Your wife is right. Carrot on a stick is fake news.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carrot_and_stick
People who say "on a stick" also say "for all intensive purposes" and "would of."