Strangelove77
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just ask this scientician...
I'm expecting a healthy baby boy soon, and there's one question we're not yet sure about...
To Circumcise, or not to Circumcise?
Now, I know the internet is a raging battleground for a war on circumcision.
I'm unsure what to think, and I can see reasons to justify either choice... I myself am circumcised, but I don't think that alone a good reason to follow through with the procedure for my son. My partner leans toward being pro-circumcision, as an older family member of hers had once said about the topic, that he wished he was, but she seems open to consideration if the evidence is there.
Anyway, I'm not looking to start another battle here. I don't care about your Mom's opinion, or Joe Schmoe's thoughts, or any given circumcised or uncircumcised dude. I've seen the general arguments from both sides.
I'm leaning against it slightly, if just because it seems like an odd thing to do to an organ that has evolved functionally to its current state after some billions of years of sexual refinement, but we also live in a drastically different age where survival/reproduction is taken for granted.. maybe there are some unnecessary relics in our history that are still with us? I'm inclined to think not.. but still..
To those of you who are familiar with natural history, biology, or are educated Darwinists and students of evolution, what are your thoughts and why? If you're knowledgeable in the opinions of teachers or other scientists, I'd also be curious to hear their thoughts or words.
Again, I think, by default, I would have to say, just leave the poor penis alone, but I want to hear the words of respected scientists and those educated about biology, evolution, and I suppose the opinions of those in medical fields could be valuable too. That's what I hope to see here. If you want to share your opinion and you wouldn't put yourself into that category, make sure you add some evidence either way.
Thanks!
Decide later on what are you guys on, there is significant pain factor doing this later on.
I was circumcised when I was young due to medical reasons (my skin was in the way too much). Can't say it feels off but I also have to wonder why you would want it for your son if not religious or medical. Just because? Because then I say no and let him decide over his own body when he grows up.
There's no good reason to have your son circumcised. It's a religious norm that became a cultural norm. There are marginal health benefits but if your son wants them he can get it when he's old enough to understand the choice.
There's no good reason to have your son circumcised. It's a religious norm that became a cultural norm. There are marginal health benefits but if your son wants them he can get it when he's old enough to understand the choice.
Which of course infants are immune to. You can rip off a baby's arm and it'll grow right back...
The fuck kind of logic is it to say "this pain would be unbearable for a grown man, let's do it on them when they're the weakest they will ever be, for a procedure that isn't even considered medically necessary for 99.9% of cases"? It really hurt when I got my tongue pierced, so I'm getting little Johnny's done in the maternity ward. That's logical right?
Do you want your kid to be the one with the "weird penis" in high school?
Like I posted above my son expressed pain for about 5 seconds. Both friends that had it done due to accidental mishap spent a week in hospital with tubes draining out of their junk.
You won't remember the pain if you have it done as a baby.Yeh, it's a well known fact that babies have a much higher pain threshold than fully grown adult men. Snip away.
You could take this approach to several medical procedures then based on what ifs. Go ahead and take the kid's tonsils out, remove the nails from his toes, have his hair laser removed so he doesnt suffer the pain of hair loss shame, take off his apendix!
Like I posted above my son expressed pain for about 5 seconds. Both friends that had it done due to accidental mishap spent a week in hospital with tubes draining out of their junk.
Lol so nothing you do to a baby affects their mental development?You won't remember the pain if you have it done as a baby.
Do it. It's normal. Uncircumcised penises look gross.
It's abnormal. Only around 30% of men around the world are circumcised. You guys are minority of men.
What kind of accidental mishap ends in circumcision? I'm just curious what activities I should start avoiding.
But it sounds like your friends had it done out of medical necessity. Did your son? Did you have it done on him because you think penises are more attractive when they dress down? What if your son disagrees with that assessment? There's no real recourse to get it back. Obviously you have to make a lot of important decisions regarding your children's health, but cutting off a part for aesthetic reasons is... well, it's the exact same shit we refer to as "primitive" when other cultures do it with other body parts. What makes circumcision enlightened compared to lip plates or neck rings or feet binding?
I'm actually surprised about Africa here, especially the non-muslim countries.It's abnormal. Only around 30% of men around the world are circumcised. You guys are minority of men.
Like I posted above my son expressed pain for about 5 seconds. Both friends that had it done due to accidental mishap spent a week in hospital with tubes draining out of their junk.
Most women don't give a shit.
Finally, studies reveal that lasting changes in pain sensitivity with the early experience of pain have been found in full-term infants as well. Using a prospective cohort design in males, one study found that facial pain-score coding from videotape recordings at four- or six-month routine vaccination was related to circumcision status as well as pain treatment for the procedure (Taddio, Katz, Ilersich, & Koren, 1997). In particular, a significant linear trend of increasing facial pain scores during immunization emerged from uncircumcised (lowest) to circumcised infants with topical lidocaine-prilocaine cream (mid) to those who were circumcised with placebo (highest). Thus, research on rat pups, preterm human infants, and full-term infants all show that the introduction of early pain has long-term effects on the development of pain processing.
Physiologic studies in animals indicate that very early pain experiences may have more than immediate consequences in infancy. Ongoing lowered pain thresholds in the injured area indicate that changes occur in the still-developing spinal cord. Early stress may lead to a reduced immune system response, resulting in consequences such as delayed wound healing and potentially an increased susceptibility to infection. Increased pain sensitivity, decreased immune system functioning, increased avoidance behavior, and social hypervigilance are all possible outcomes of untreated pain in early infancy.
Although an individual may not preserve a conscious memory of an early painful event, it is recorded elsewhere in the body, as evidenced by the previously presented long-term outcomes. Multiple procedures in the preterm and low- to extremely low-birth-weight infant, as well as routine newborn medical procedures (from heel sticks to circumcision), may alter infant development. The implication is that infant pain should be avoided when possible and, when necessary, assessed and treated at least as diligently as adult pain. Maternal touch should be facilitated, especially in infants subjected to painful procedures for any ameliorating effects.
The Bible.Never understood why Americans do it. What's the point?
This hasn't been my experience in North America at least.
Every girl I've been with that I've had this conversation with has said uncut penises look weird. It's all about where you were raised and what you grew up with as a norm, but in NA at least I've found most women indeed do give a shit
I remember when the nurse at the hospital asked me about it. I just shook my head in disgust at her,Cutting a penis cause of...stigma. Wtf man. Wtf.
This hasn't been my experience in North America at least.
Every girl I've been with that I've had this conversation with has said uncut penises look weird. It's all about where you were raised and what you grew up with as a norm, but in NA at least I've found most women indeed do give a shit
This hasn't been my experience in North America at least.
Every girl I've been with that I've had this conversation with has said uncut penises look weird. It's all about where you were raised and what you grew up with as a norm, but in NA at least I've found most women indeed do give a shit
I'm glad my parents had it done for me when I was a baby.
My 2cents.