"You can't have your cake and eat it too."
Um, why the fuck not? If it's my cake, I should be able to do whatever I want with it. What am I supposed to do with cake, keep it as decoration?
But by far my least favorite phrases in the English language are "age is just a number" and "technically, it's ephebophilia."
"Age is just a number" is only ever used by creeps dating minors. If it was used to describe, say, a 40 year old dating a 25 year old, I wouldn't hate it as much. Like yeah, it's still a little different, but at least in that scenario, we're talking about two consenting adults. But it's only ever used as justification for adults dating or having sex with teenagers, and it's fucking gross.
And yes, I do realize that pedophilia and ephebophilia are technically different, but if your first response is to correct people on terminology, it sends me serious red flags. If I call a 25 year old a pedophile for dating a 15 year old, and you just HAVE to rush to tell me I'm using the incorrect term, I'm just going to assume that you also like underage boys or girls, and nothing you can do will convince me otherwise. The big issue here is adults preying on minors, and you'd rather argue semantics.
Oh, and finally, I also despise "where were teachers like her when I was in school." It doesn't matter if she's hot, she's still a creep going after her underage students.
Jeez, this thread made me realize just how far people will go to justify this appalling behavior.