Im with you John. Number chasing ruins the game. People are so caught up on loot bullshit that the forget the whole point of loot is using it, not getting it.
People act like waiting 8 months for a Gjallarhorn to make that moment SO EXCITING makes up for 8 months of playing while feeling left out. Id much rather not be excited when I get it but actually have fun using it for a longer time.
If I get a sick looking new armor piece and its lower Light - why the fuck would I care about light? People are grossly overestimating how important that number is. Being 275 or 285 or 295 or 305 is literally the same damn thing outside Prestige NF. Every enemy will take the same amount of shots to kill.
Best Destiny is when you have nothing left to chase. Like HoW, when every Raid was viable via Etheric Light and so was PvP and so was everything and we had re rolling so everybody ran around with perfect loadouts. What did we do? Everybody had basically everything. Youd run VoG or Skolas not for loot but for fun. Youd play Crucible trains - not hoping for a drop since you had your TLW/Benevolence/BTRD setup perfect - but just for fun.
TTK was a downgrade in every meaningful way outside QoL but by far the biggest issue was enabling this number chasing mentality.
It's possible to have meaningful progression and a loot chase while still being engaging. I really feel like Diablo 3 nailed it and I remain dumbfounded as to why Bungie didn't steal more of it. Paragon scores, repeatable content like greater rifts, playstyle changing gear, extensive customization, etc. They need more of that.
Imagine if Lost Sectors had random modifiers, maybe with procedural generation, and were endlessly repeatable. Imagine exotics that actually meaningfully change how you play the game. Faster fucking sidearm ready speed for Hunters? Jesus, Bungie.