Just thought I'd share a WotM story from the other day.
Joined up with some people from the100. Vosik challenge went surprising well, but one of the people in the group was having some.. issues. Not with raid, or the challenge, but some personal issues.
He kept having awkward conversions with his GF/fiance, about their upcoming wedding and what seemed to be issues with his mom and his GF. No biggie, I just got married last year myself, so I can understand the stress and worry that comes with it. The thing was is that it just kept going. Like it wasn't just when we had some down time between encounters, or someone had to use the bathroom or something, but the entire time we are fighting.
Again, I get it, life is always happening, can't just take a break to play games you know? But he NEVER muted, not once. I tend to mute whenever I'm not actually talking to the party, especially if I'm talking about some awkward ass shit in front of a bunch of strangers I never met before.
So it was odd. We get to the Zamboni, 2 people wipe before we hop on the ship, but we give it a go anyway. Somehow beat it first try, in what was the sloppiest run of it I've ever done, but somehow managed to do it.
Get to phase one of Aksis, again first try, blast through it no problem. That's when it started to get weird.
We take a short break to get drinks and what not. When the guy I mentioned earlier comes back he says:
"Guys, I need some advice. I don't have any friends really except my GF and have no one to ask. How do you tell your mother that you don't want her in your life anymore?"
Whoa. You could hear a pin drop. And I felt the guy. How could you not? He went on to explain how his mom apparently hates his GF, is just horrible to her and him and he just can't take it anymore. We tried to give him advice, tell her how you feel, set boundaries, etc.
So we start P2 after that and it quickly turns into a nightmare. The guy mentioned above hasn't done challenge. No biggie, everyone else has, so we can give this a go, how bad can it be?
Very, very, bad. We explain what to in detail as best we could. Gave it a go to show what the mechanics were in action. He's empowered, his plate is up. We tell him to slam the vent. Nothing. We say wipe. He says "why? we never slammed him" Go on to explain it again, this time get to third slam, he has Aksis on his side, and instantly slams without waiting for supercharge. Again we wipe, he questions why, we explain again. He says he gets it now.
He does not get it.
Basically what would happen is this: we would explain, in painstaking detail what to do. He would say, "OK, got it" and then he wouldn't get.
Which is fine. Aksis challenge can be tough, even with good teams. What was annoying was his insistence that he understood when he clearly didn't. And from what he said before, I'm sure dude had a lot on is mind.
Finally I suggested we just do it normal, it was getting late for me and it was clear he was not going to get it. He insisted that he could do it, if we would just explain it to him. At this point someone else in the group had had enough, :Fuck this, I'm done. You aren't listening and this is just a joke. Talking to your damn GF the whole time, talking about awkward shit, I' done." and left. The group all left except for me and that guy, and he was like "sorry about talking to my GF about my wedding" I felt horrible. I tried to reassure him and gave him some words of encouragement. And then it was over.
It was at the same time one of the better, because of the ease we got through most of it, and worst (or strangest) raid experience I've ever had. I've never had a group that was that strong just fall apart. I also have never been asked super personal advice in the middle of a raid.
Sorry for long post, it was just so weird, I had to share it with someone!!