I know what you're saying, but I'm just not the kind of guy who could pull of the six-pack look, I think. I might change my mind after I start dropping the fat. I can't believe that a year ago I was disgusted by being 100 kg, and now I'm 110.
I'm drawing the line here though, no more fucking around feeling "content" because i'm in a loving relationship, as tends to happen a lot with people. This weight is coming the fuck off!
Edit: to the poster above me: I realize I could have worded things a bit better and I don't mean any offence. Let me rephrase. In my case, when I gain weight its on the stomache. When I lose weight, its again the stomache which is affected the most. That is my main goal at this moment. So I'm going to be focusing on cardio for the moment, which will also help me regain my stamina. Going to the gym and exercising will be mostly to, in a sense, wake up my muscles again. At least, at first thats what I want to do. I don't want to excessively do weights because I don't necessarily want to add mass. Going to gym will be just be to get some healthy exercise in general. I don't know if that sounds weird to anybody, but thats what I would like to focus on.
If anyone is willing to pitch in, I'm more than open to advise and critique. Again, did not mean to cause any offense.
I suggest utilizing some sort of weight lifting program as you do your weight loss. Don't be fearful of it, yes you will add some muscle, but you won't turn into a bodybuilder overnight. Also most true strength programs aren't going to promote much size growth.
Do a strength program in the OP. Number of good reasons. Strength is great to have, you don't have to be big to be strong. It's part of being "fit". You're going to be using your strength in your day to day life.
It also helps for other reasons. It gives you something else to make goals and strive for aside from the fat loss. You're gonna struggle, you may even plateau. Sometimes seeing one of your lifts go up 5-10 lbs can be just as satisfying as seeing a pound on the scale drop. Lastly, if you lose fat without any sort of structured strength/mass program you actually risk losing "weight" and not fat. Basically, you're going to lose some of your mass you already have, and your strength too.
All of this just sort of encourages to slowly work towards a lifestyle change rather than a quick fix for "problem areas". That's what fitness is about, and that's really what people should strive for when it comes to their health.
Anyway, to try and keep this post in check for you. Don't be afraid to do some strength training, you don't necessarily need to do it with weightlifting, it's just easier to figure out and manage than other programs.
Eat well, do your cardio, keep your body challenged. You'll get the results you want.