Gave up alcohol almost completely last year. It's been so many months I don't bother counting. I have no cravings for alcohol or hangovers etc anymore, ever really. I'm happy to have a beer or two with a special dinner like XMAS. I'll happily have a red wine with a good steak. As for daily drinks or binge drinking when out? I have zero desire to get wasted AF anymore or trash my mind, body and soul. I never really had a "massive addiction" problem or blackout etc but I was someone drinking daily for years e.g. 1-3 drinks a day.
Wife, wallet and wellbeing are all on the up and up while weight in on the down down. Cannot complain about the benefits of leaving alcohol behind, fuck any "social drinkers" that cannot be social without a drink projecting that shit around the room.
Great to hear Ozzy.
As for me and my fam and any relatives I'm close with i dont think any of us are addicted to anything, except a couple uncles smoked. But thats it. And amazingly both are still alive at like 75-80 years old.
It sounds odd, but I think two reasons why we never got into anything is due to parents nagging us to not go overboard doing dumb shit (although two uncles smoked. lol), plus getting nagged to save money. All I know is anyone my parents age in my fam tree are the cheapest fucks you'll ever meet. And that has transcended down to all of us. Thats not to say we live like paupers. A lot of us have nice homes and cars, which sounds weird but its more about value and investing. Spend if you want after you're comfortable financially but dont buy pointless stuff and be addicted. But smoking, boozing, drugs, tattoos etc... are all zero except for some of us who drink booze here and there (my parents included).
With my limited money in high school, I'd rather spend it on games, buying clothes at the mall, or being the guy in class who always had a giant pack of Wrigley gum on him. I'm not blowing my cash on smokes.
As for social drinkers, smokers and weeders, hey I got those friends too. But even going back to high school when friends would take that up I never had such pigheaded friends then and now which are like "Hey, if you dont do this stuff with us, get lost". If anyone is that kind of person, fuck em. They arent your friends. And for the friends I have which still smoke cigs or weed, thats ok go ahead. But they know not to do that shit in my house or car. Friends know to respect what the other person does without asking. So if they do that, they know to do that on my porch or not at all when at my place.
And for those social doers who cant go a night without their craving, thats on them. I can survive the night having fun without smokes or getting drunk. No doubt some of them do it on purpose trying to be cool acting like lead partier. Relax. Not everyone wants to be wasted at 7 pm already.