DiipuSurotu
Banned
This.
I still have no idea how she was supposed to show up at that place if you knew she was currently on holiday.
GAF... Have I ruined this opportunity? (Girl advice needed)
- Thread starter BackLogJoe
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This.
I still have no idea how she was supposed to show up at that place if you knew she was currently on holiday.
We are the prime movers.
Deuce Deuce
Member
Could look for a linked-in profile or something like that. Search by company if it's not too big. I suspect recruiters do something like this when going on mass hiring pushes.
#sorrynotsorry
Member
OP no...
Why would you do this? You fucked up the first time but it was Heat of the moment. It's forgivable. This time? It was a cold and calculated fuck up to sabotage your chances. You just gave up on amazing girl for nothing. You will regret this for your entire life.
Call her work. Tell the receptionist she left something on the plane and you have it. Describe yourself. Leave your number. The girl might just call you. Or not. But you absolutely must try.
Why would you do this? You fucked up the first time but it was Heat of the moment. It's forgivable. This time? It was a cold and calculated fuck up to sabotage your chances. You just gave up on amazing girl for nothing. You will regret this for your entire life.
Call her work. Tell the receptionist she left something on the plane and you have it. Describe yourself. Leave your number. The girl might just call you. Or not. But you absolutely must try.
Yeah I'm in this deep now, please do the above. I need OP to be happy.
What indication is there, at all, that she's an "amazing girl"? OP will get over this really quick once he starts meeting and interacting with more single women.
Spaced Harrier
Member
Wait so the book thing never happened?
Why man, for the love of god why?
I was emotionally invested!
Why man, for the love of god why?
I was emotionally invested!
This. The OP teased us
Spaced Harrier
Member
Well he snatched a defeat from the jaws of victory.
Triggerhappytel
Member
Aw man, now I'm sad. I thought we had a crack at having a happy ending with this. You might have got rejected and she might have found it creepy, but on the other hand she might have found it sweet, and the two of you could have reconnected.
A two hour drive is workable. If you really feel like you had a natural connection with this girl and she obviously liked you, don't let this chance slip away dude :'(
FUNKNOWN iXi
Member
The One That Got Away
I can't tell who's joking any more.
#sorrynotsorry
Member
It's not a joke, though I don't mean to imply he'll be eternally unhappy or anything. Just that he will always wonder what could have been.
And the indication that she is an amazing girl is that OP drove for hours just on the off chance he'd be able to see her. You don't do that if you don't think she's pretty great.
I just want OP to be happy
Gravy Boat
Member
It's not a joke, though I don't mean to imply he'll be eternally unhappy or anything. Just that he will always wonder what could have been.
And the indication that she is an amazing girl is that OP drove for hours just on the off chance he'd be able to see her. You don't do that if you don't think she's pretty great.
I just want OP to be happy
He didn't drive for hours, he walked across the street from his hotel.
SlipperyFishes
Banned
Plot twist. Did she ever exist?
Rosvoja Torilla
Member
Maybe OP is a ghost. Or a ghostwriter. Maybe he's writing a book. A romantic book. A romantic book about bank robbers. Maybe he's a bankrobber himself. Maybe it's a new take on Bonnie and Clyde with ghosts. Maybe he's the writer of the movie 'Ghost'. Look it up, it's a ghost love story. It even has a banker. It's written by Bruce Joel Rubin. Maybe OP's name is really BackLogJoel and the name is just missing an L. Take the L. Maybe 'Ghost 2' is on Joel's backlog. And here we are, watching it unravel.
Horse Detective
Why the long case?
waveuponwave
Member
A two hour drive isn't that long. Do you have any reason to visit her town another time?
I don't want this to be over.
I don't want this to be over.
Marky Mark
Member
You could also set up a premium Strava account so that I could use that feature which tells you other 'athletes' who have been in the same area. Then I would have probably gone for a jog for a few blocks around her workplace and the lunch spot so that it would generate some data. Then you come back in a few weeks, check your strava and see if she pops up as a nearby runner in the area. If nothing else it will give you more data points on where to find her, and if she's a regular runner you'll know what times so you can bump into her accidentally next time you're in town.