No coffee drinks.
Black coffee can be extremely helpful when trying to lose weight. I'm assuming you meant more the starbucks ultra creamed sugar filled nightmares when you referred to "coffee drinks".
Running at 300+ lbs isn't the best way to start. I've heard in a lot of places it's really bad for your knees and legs to run at this weight.
My vote is to start with walking and if you feel like moving to running, do it at your own pace. Just walking 30-60mins per day you will start losing a ton of weight. When the weight loss slows down, then you can think about increasing intensity. This is just my experience having weighed this much.
Walking 30-60mins is better than running for 3 minutes and having to lay down.
1600 calories a day for someone 300+ pounds isn't taking it slow, even 1800 a day may be a little too low.Start light for the first 2 or 3 weeks. Might want to cut your calorie intake to 1600 daily. Cut white bread and extra sugar. Chicken breasts, tuna and other fish, brown rice and veggies veggies veggies. You are going to feel hungry while your body is adjusting to new eating habits. In most cases when you feel hungry after a meal, just drink more water. For judging serving sizes you can do the hand trick, don't eat a portion bigger than your hand.
not bad ideas hut you also need to restStart light for the first 2 or 3 weeks. Might want to cut your calorie intake to 1600 daily. Cut white bread and extra sugar. Chicken breasts, tuna and other fish, brown rice and veggies veggies veggies. You are going to feel hungry while your body is adjusting to new eating habits. In most cases when you feel hungry after a meal, just drink more water. For judging serving sizes you can do the hand trick, don't eat a portion bigger than your hand.
Exercise wise. Start light too. You don't want to kill yourself or get hurt and that will turn you off from keeping with it. Start going on daily walks, either before or after work...or even for a 15 minute break while at work. Park further away from the office and walk if you can. If your office is in a building on a certain floor, take the stairs. Try some pushups. If you can't do a regular one, try acouple using your knees. Whatever number you get, mark it down and try to beat it the next day. Same with crunches. Jumping jacks are great and won't be that hard on your knees. Once you get comfortable with all that, combine it all into a circuit. Jumping jacks, push ups, crunches then repeat the circuit 2 or 3 times. Later get a jump rope and work that into the routine. Do a couple pushup every time you hit your feet with the rope. Turn it into a game.
Give it a couple weeks and you will start looking forward to working out and getting the shot of dopamine to your brain after a nice workout.
If it turns out straight up exercising just isn't your thing, maybe you just need to pick up a fun activity like riding a bike.
You just quoted me saying that it made a difference to me, so how can that not be true? I lost 65lbs.
I'm 43, you're telling me that my metabolism doesn't slow down at all and is the same as 15 year old?
I understand each person is different in what they do and their results. Don't tell someone thats not how it works when in fact someone had results.
At 320 pounds the idea that you should go out right away and sign up for the gym is wrong, for me. Even at 230 I wasn't fit enough or confident enough to make full use of the gym.
The number 1 step is to get your eating under control. You don't have to rush this. Take it easy - you've got the rest of your life to get it right. Don't panic and change everything overnight - if you do that it will seem impossible and you'll crack. People will shout 'No soda! No sugar! No chocolate!' at you. Don't worry about doing all of that at once, and ramp things down slowly in a manageable fashion.
1. Calculate your Basal Metabolic Rate and Total Daily Energy Expenditure. This site will help you out.
2. Track everything you eat on MyFitnessPal. Don't change your eating for the first week, just track everything you put in your mouth. Get a sense of how many calories per day you typically eat right now. This is crucially important, and you might be shocked.
3. Figure out how far above your TDEE you are, and where you need to be (from a daily calorie perspective) to lose weight.
4. Understand that for every 3,500 calories below your daily TDEE you stay, you will roughly lose one pound.
5. Use an excel sheet to track your weight, with a formula calculating your average weight over the last 7 days to avoid spikes from water weight / food retention. Consider the 'average' to be your 'weight' or you'll be upset by bad mornings. Always weight yourself at the same time each day, preferably after waking up and going to the bathroom. Consistency.
6. Start operating at a caloric deficit with your newfound knowledge. At your weight, this should be easy at first, and you'll be able to still have treats and food you like. After a couple of weeks, you'll have dropped a couple of pounds - and all of a sudden you'll be motivated.
7. Really start figuring out what you can cut from your diet. Watch the weight fall off.
8. After this new lifestyle has become habit, start introducing exercise. Do 5km walks in the evening and buy some medium level dumbells. Use the weights, do situps, do walks. Feel a bit healthier.
9. Once you've lost a good bit of weight and are feeling better and healthier due to your exercise, consider joining a gym.
None of that is scientific, but it works for me and it can work for you. For me, it's the social days out that kill me and set me back as well as the fact that I hate exercising and refuse to do it, but we all have our own challenges and I know this setup works.
Here's a question I just thought of:
Are there any good health/fitness/nutrition podcasts? I listen to podcasts all day every day, and getting educated might really help me.
I think it's a solid plan! I recommend Bananas for your sugar needs, I've read that they're very good for you, and it helps they're delicious!
Here's what a typical workday for me looks like in case it will help you:
Breakfast:
Hard-boiled egg, large banana and 1-2 cups green tea. You might also look into overnight oats.
Lunch:
Chicken Salad + Snack (1 serving of wheat thins, or almonds or something)
Dinner:
Protein + Vegetable + Brown Rice + Snack. Usually it's chicken breast or ground turkey + spices, a frozen veggie mix (brocolli+cauliflower+green beans), Brown Rice and another type of baked cracker or nuts for the snack.
I imagine I'll eventually drop the rice and crackers but for now it's working alright for me.
This usually lands me around 1200-1500 calories. Obviously you can put in here whatever you like, this is just what works for me.
This is good advice too. If you can get a buddy with the same goal it'd work better. My training buddy and I had the goal of running a marathon, we did 2 last year. I find it hard to go to the gym / train by myself when he misses a day but I still do it.So tldr: make a long list of specific and realistic goals, reduce your food portions instead of removing foods entirely from your diet, and find an exercise program that works for you and you can maintain for the long term. I recommend DDP Yoga.
Honestly....get a personal trainer. You need someone thatll hold you accountable.
I completely disagree with this. At some point you'll end up leaving your personal trainer... and if you're not capable of doing it on your own, if you're not capable of being your own accountability, if you don't know what you need to succeed.... you'll fail anyway. (and frankly, there are a ton of personal trainers out there that would rather you rely on them than give you the tools to succeed on your own)
Give yourself the knowledge you need to make a change for the rest of your life. As others have said, this isn't a temporary diet, this is the new you.
I'm a fan of burn the fat, feed the muscle, look up the ebook on amazon. Has a lot of good advice for motivation, nutrition, and strength training.
Fuck all the bullshit in this thread, when you're 100+ lbs overweight you should strongly consider bariatric surgery.
Have you seen the diet you have to follow for gastric band/bypass?
It's worse than most diets, then you have complications. The first month after surgery you can only eat pureed food usually a cup filled size worth. Second month you can start eating soft food but still mostly liquid. Then after that you still can't eat whatever you want, you have to stick to a diet for life.
In the UK they won't operate on you if you are simply morbidly obese, there has to be health conditions as well such as diabetes.
Also, re-training your sense of taste is an important part of that.I went from 256 pounds to 198, and I can assure that is all about learning how to eat.
Don't think it as a diet. You need to actually learn how to eat and how much to eat.
You need much less food than you think.
It's simple and effective. After you loose a few pounds, hit the gym and don't quit in less than a year or two.
I used to be a chubby high schooler and university me is all skin n bone.
Gyms HATE me.
All I really did was cut all the sodie-pawp and drink more agua.
It's that simple, OP. Ya welcome
Have you seen the diet you have to follow for gastric band/bypass?
It's worse than most diets, then you have complications.
In the UK they won't operate on you if you are simply morbidly obese, there has to be health conditions as well such as diabetes.
Also, re-training your sense of taste is an important part of that.
Right now, many healthier non-processed food ingredients probably do not taste as good to the OP since he, like millions of people, is used to intense, artificial flavors of processed food. You need to cut that shit out. Start preparing your own dishes from vegetables, eggs, potatoes, meat and whatnot.
Furthermore, OP - if/when you are in shape that you can do some joggin - do it! It'll not only help you with losing weight but more importantly it will do wonders for your issues with depression
Fuck all the bullshit in this thread, when you're 100+ lbs overweight you should strongly consider bariatric surgery.
Fuck all the bullshit in this thread, when you're 100+ lbs overweight you should strongly consider bariatric surgery.
Yesterday I consumed 1,754 calories which is a great achievement and I went to bed smiling which is unusual. Today things are going ok, I went through to the late afternoon feeling really good about my situation but now it's hitting me pretty hard. I have a very strong urge to go to the shop and buy a mountain of chocolate. I'm sticking with it and i'm about to make some more baked potatoes with greek yogurt which is real good.
There is a very long journey ahead of me and I think I need to learn to accept that this is my life now and there is no going back.
Yesterday I consumed 1,754 calories which is a great achievement and I went to bed smiling which is unusual. Today things are going ok, I went through to the late afternoon feeling really good about my situation but now it's hitting me pretty hard. I have a very strong urge to go to the shop and buy a mountain of chocolate. I'm sticking with it and i'm about to make some more baked potatoes with greek yogurt which is real good.
There is a very long journey ahead of me and I think I need to learn to accept that this is my life now and there is no going back.
Stock up on them cucumbers, yo.
1750kcal in a day is fucking perfect, and that couldn't have been easy. Keep this up for a bit and you're going to notice very real changes happening in your body and on the scale.
People don't realize obesity is a disease with permanent alterations to physiology and anatomy which is why lifestyle interventions has never been shown to be very effective.
Thank you for the encouragement. I just looked up cucumbers on myfitnesspal and wow! I can eat a kilogram of cucumber and it's only 150 cals? I'll stock up because i'm sure most of my issue is due to habit, whenever i'm alone i'm usually eating something because it's my way of comforting myself. If I can still comfort eat but it's something that's not going to be excessive in calories then i'm sure that will help me at least in the initial stages of getting used to my new way of life.
That sounds great, I'll look into it thanks.bro, i'm going to share my diet hack dessert for you for when you can't kick the sweet tooth craving.
Get a box of chocolate sugar free pudding mix and put about 1/3rd of it in a cereal bowl (1/3 the package is 45 calories). Mix it with 1/2 a scoop of peanut butter or chocolate peanut butter flavored protein powder (50 calories). Add some cold water, mix it up and let it in your fridge for an hour or so to chill and then you got some delicious protein pudding that tastes like a reeses cup. Under 100 calories and 13 grams of protein, and will curve the sweet tooth.
not bad ideas hut you also need to rest
Can overwork muscles if you dont have rest days between..
I had the sleeve gastrectomy after years of losing weight and regaining it. I followed all the advice and tried most diets - low carb, low fat, calorie counting, small deficits, large deficits, high protein. I lost weigh, but invariably gained it back and then some. It was always torture. People don't realize obesity is a disease with permanent alterations to physiology and anatomy which is why lifestyle interventions has never been shown to be very effective. In the US, a BMI of 40 or above qualifies someone for surgery. My only regret is not getting it sooner - I can still eat pretty much anything. In fact, on days I lift, I still eat "junk" food so I can get enough calories to build muscle, which I've had no problem doing without gaining fat - something that was impossible for me before. Not being a slave to food has freed me in so many ways.
I completely disagree with your edits.
I feel conflicted. I came in well under my calorie goal for the day but I got through it by eating an Ice cream and some other sugary crappy things. Am I doing this wrong?
End of day 2.
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I feel conflicted. I came in well under my calorie goal for the day but I got through it by eating an Ice cream and some other sugary crappy things. Am I doing this wrong?
Edit:
For funsies and some self reflection I totted up everything I ate last friday and it's uhhh enlightening (at least I came in under my protein goal....).
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Ironically, protein is the macro you can worry about least out of all of them. Especially as it's well known for its hunger blunting effects.For funsies and some self reflection I totted up everything I ate last friday and it's uhhh enlightening (at least I came in under my protein goal....).
I feel conflicted. I came in well under my calorie goal for the day but I got through it by eating an Ice cream and some other sugary crappy things. Am I doing this wrong?