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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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Bel Marduk
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RatskyWatsky said:
RPGs never get midnight releases.. I don't even think Skyward Sword is getting one.
Only games like Call of Duty and Halo have midnight releases. Yech.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Bel Marduk said:
Skyward Sword isn't an RPG./canofworms But, at least, in the very small town that I live in, it is getting one.
I'm pretty sure FFXIII got a midnight release.
Crumpet Trumpet
Banned
This fool grabbed a fistful of assneojubei said:
RatskyWatsky said:
You never know until you ask. Of course, use your own discretion and all that. I'm not dumping on you for not going for it: Just saying there's different types of people and some men that are gay may make gay jokes/insults in public with other people. *shrug*
IF Delio didn't make a move I'd have to revoke his Black card. lolGranger Danger
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The funniest poster in the Pop OT besides Koodo, and now he looks cute to boot?Delio said:
lordfroakie
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Any gaygaffer in Texas?
Well I am in a 12 year relationship. Married. Partner's father was sick. He hired a childhood friend , a first crush type as home health care aide. He started spending all his time with this guy. I was suspicious. Lots of texts my partner would not show me. Guy was a loser so I thought I had no issue really. Turns out that my partner fell for this guy got him gifts, valentines day card and money. Do not think it got to sex. But maybe j-o. I was just so hurt that he gave his heart to this guy. After all these years. He confessed this to me only after this loser went nuts for pot money and started blackmailing my man. I got an order of protection against the guy. It's over. This was last year. Cut to now: my partners Dad passed away and we are twking over the house. House it two blocks from this psycho. I am still hurt about it and we are having less sex now. Not sure if it is related.TheSeks said:
RPGCrazied
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ciD_Vain said:
Texas. Ew, right?
I don't think most relationships would survive that. But if you're accepting his mistake and willing to forgive it, I can't blame you.
As far as the house/dad issue: Do you need to clean it out or just move all the stuff? Because in either case, I'd suggest hiring some movers and have them move it to a rent-a-space place and clean out the rent-a-space far from the crazy guy at your leisure.
As far as the house/dad issue: Do you need to clean it out or just move all the stuff? Because in either case, I'd suggest hiring some movers and have them move it to a rent-a-space place and clean out the rent-a-space far from the crazy guy at your leisure.
lordfroakie
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Where? Corpus Christi hereMarius_ said:
RPGCrazied
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neojubei said:
Doesn't have to be a twink, but yes, I do like skinnier guys. Another reason I guess.
MidnightScott
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I know you are all gonna call me a hypocrite after what I pulled (was it a year ago? I don't remember)
But I'm going to a movie with a guy during the weekend. I figure this will be the true test to see if I'm truly gay or just bi. I know that seems sudden but I think I need to do this for myself because I am constantly thinking about it.
Yes me met on grindr but we aren't looking to hookup with each other. And also I think I may have chatted with him before.
I'm just trying to see how things go and if it leads anywhere.
I might be coming back in here more often, but thought I would just let you all know.
My brother now thinks I'm gay as he found a folder of my gay porn on my computer or an IRC conversation yesterday (I just got a new computer with Windows 7 & didn't understand the whole tabbing process :/). He told me just to be careful and that there are a lot of creeps on the internet. He also told me not to tell our dad because he wouldn't accept it. And I know that's the truth because I hear how homophobic he can be.
But I'm going to a movie with a guy during the weekend. I figure this will be the true test to see if I'm truly gay or just bi. I know that seems sudden but I think I need to do this for myself because I am constantly thinking about it.
Yes me met on grindr but we aren't looking to hookup with each other. And also I think I may have chatted with him before.
I'm just trying to see how things go and if it leads anywhere.
I might be coming back in here more often, but thought I would just let you all know.
My brother now thinks I'm gay as he found a folder of my gay porn on my computer or an IRC conversation yesterday (I just got a new computer with Windows 7 & didn't understand the whole tabbing process :/). He told me just to be careful and that there are a lot of creeps on the internet. He also told me not to tell our dad because he wouldn't accept it. And I know that's the truth because I hear how homophobic he can be.
Delio said:
Hot damn!
RPGCrazied said:
Well at least you know what you want which is good. I have a weak spot for skinny Asian guys.
MidnightScott said:
Gay porn? Yup u like guys. Well at least your brother is supportive in his own way. I cannot even come out to my family and friends.
RatskyWatsky
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MidnightScott said:
Good luck! I hope everything works out for you on your date!
But, what do you mean by the bolded? How will going out with that guy make you know if you're gay or bi?
MidnightScott
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RatskyWatsky said:
If I can't feel something for a guy in person and only get off to porn, who knows what the hell is wrong with me? :/
RatskyWatsky
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MidnightScott said:
Can you feel something for a girl in person?
RatskyWatsky said:
He has a folder on his pc with gay porn. I mean if you like looking at men having sex with men and thinking about doing it, well you certainly are not straight.
MidnightScott said:
Just going out with a guy will not tell you if u are gay or not. Maybe the guy isn't your type. I was indifferent about my sexuality until high school.
sigh.... seems like everyone is meeting up with someone.
MidnightScott
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RatskyWatsky said:
I never dated girls either. Sure I see some pretty girls every once in a blue moon but I see lots of guys all the time. I'm either gay, bi, or bi and lean towards men. Definitely not straight >.>
I remember being attracted to girls in high school but after words not really.
neojubei - go get grindr and try not to find a creep.
RatskyWatsky
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neojubei said:
Yes, but I was just wondering how going out with a guy would change that. He likes guys, at least naked ones online, so it's established that he has an attraction to men. But, because he mentioned the possibility of being bi, I assume that he has an attraction to women as well. If so, how does going out with a guy change things?
MidnightScott said:
Ah. But you do still find girls attractive every now and then? If so, then I'd say that you're still bi. Bisexuals don't have to feel attraction to both sexes 50/50. Some like one more than the other.
In the end, I wouldn't worry about which label to accept. Just be yourself and go out with whoever you like, guy or girl.
neojubei said:
Same here, duder.
Well actually we happen to be in the process of cleaning my partners Dads house. This was galling on many levels to me. First 12 years together. I am the breadwinner, my partner is an artist. This guys was a pot head loser with a family from hell. Trouble. I am just so torn by the fact he choose him. I mean I could have easily forgiven sex. This was an affair of the heart, and that hurt me much more. So I am unsure about taking over this house if the guy he cheated with( do we all agree he cheated?) is living so close. I also i am dealing with this really hot guy at the gym who wants me very bad, but I am fighting the urge for a revenge fling. Please advise. LolTheSeks said:
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
DSFan1970 said:
Can you explain the sitch with the gym guy?
Is your husband repentant at all?
MidnightScott said:
Also that date won't be the end all be all test of gayness. It's possible that you won't hit it off, or he'll be ugly, or really smelly, or maybe you'll suck his dick and feel ashamed. This doesn't mean you're not gay or bi. It just means you two didn't really mesh. Don't try to put so much stock into this one date. Just be positive, and try to have fun. Just don't do anything dangerous.
Yes my husband was very repentant. He realized he fucked up. They guy at the gym is very hot. We met in a sauna of all places and started chatting. Got heated. I told him I am in a relationship, we have been texting. I actually like him as a friend , but we got heat and it could easily proceed of I let my guard down. He is very muscular bear type which is odd cause I like them smooth. So it's weird time for me.getting my self esteem back after the hurt of the affair is important.RatskyWatsky said:
Edit: I should add I have not told my partner about gym guy as nothing happened yet. I only see him at the gym and we text.
RatskyWatsky
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DSFan1970 said:
Hmm. Did you start texting gym guy before your husband cheated? Is there an emotional affair going on on your side as well?
If your husband is repentant, and you believe him, then starting an affair of your own isn't going to make the situation any easier.
DSFan1970 said:
As hot as that sounds and as appealing revenge may be, you'd only be making a bad situation worse. And (this seems petty) you'd cede the high ground.
Your self-esteem should be boosted in the first place with the knowledge that you could get with this hot guy.
MidnightScott
Banned
DSFan1970 said:
I know I can't offer any solid advice. But like you already decided, you'll hold off before you go do anything you can't take back. See if you and your partner still have an emotional connection. 12 years is a lot of time to throw away, but if you don't love each other anymore, it's best not to stay together. (This is my opinion and in no way a fact, take it or leave it)
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
DSFan1970 said:
OK. Lust can be a powerful temptation though, so if it's too hard to stay away from the hot gym guy, and if you want to make your relationship with your husband work, you might consider switching gyms.
MidnightScott I do love my partner and I know he loves me. We are just going though this rough patch which mirrors Hetero rough patches too in my research. Especially the lack of sex part...RatskyWatsky said:
RatskyWatsky : Switching gyms is not an option...but I can be strong about resisting temptation.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
DSFan1970 said:
OK, but sometimes it makes things easier to remove the temptation altogether. Also, seeing a relationship therapist might be very helpful.
Yes you are correct about the therapist. The weird thing is that I do want this guy at the gym badly. It's going counter my normal sensible thinking. I almost want to ask my partner if he could be the ONE. You know my one cheat. I know it's wrong but I was wanting (prior to chatting with you all tonight) this gym guy thing to happen, despite knowing it is trouble. I think that made it more exciting. Every time this gym guy texted me I got er excited.. I can't believe I am writing this. Anyway. I will cool it off.
And thanks all for listening. I have never told this (the affair) to anyone. I was embarrassed. Thanks.
And thanks all for listening. I have never told this (the affair) to anyone. I was embarrassed. Thanks.
CornBurrito
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Kind of off topic here, but why are bisexuals often treated poorly by the gay community?
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