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[Cosmic Bus]

Another thing was the "camp" thing. Even the same guy(s?) from DB, were talking about ..WTF is "camp"..is it the new "it thing" to say when talking about "the gay community"? Been "out and proud"?

Camp is equated with femme, flamboyant, obvious. Sadly, these guys are pretty reviled by a large chunk of the gay community.

 

[SpaceBridge]

Camp is equated with femme, flamboyant, obvious. Sadly, these guys are pretty reviled by a large chunk of the gay community.

Did you mean revered?

 

[Cosmic Bus]

No?

reviled
Verb: Criticize in an abusive or angrily insulting manner.

 

[SpaceBridge]

No?

reviled
Verb: Criticize in an abusive or angrily insulting manner.

I know the meaning of the word.

I was thinking it was odd though, cuz from my experiences the guys that I saw on that Grindr site are guys the type who are very popular in the gay community.

edit: just reread your post again, were you referring to effeminate gay men being reviled in the gay community?

 

[ciD_Vain]

I agree. Though I was still kinda surprised by the amount of "no asians" I saw.



Hehehe...
The bit of the girl living 300+ north, reminds me of 'Billy's Hollywood First Screen Kiss'. XD
Straight guy, had a girl living too far, they couldn't work things out, ended the relationship (or something since we never see anything about said relationship other than a phone call)Though the outcome was disappointing. The guy ended been gay, but just not interested in Billy. But Billy got the message and was happy to at least finally know the answer.

Also don't pressure yourself too much. Just be natural. Talk to him the same way you always talk while working; not plan "well at 6 I'll say hi, then at 7..gay time!!". Just assume that he's straight, don't go talking to him with the idea of getting married and having kids..though I don't know why I say that, since in my mind; I marry every guy that says "Hi...". XD.... :| ....



Yeah. Another thing was the "camp" thing. Even the same guy(s?) from DB, were talking about ..WTF is "camp"..is it the new "it thing" to say when talking about "the gay community"? Been "out and proud"?

Thanks for your advice. I'll update you after the party

 

[Cosmic Bus]

just reread your post again, were you referring to effeminate gay men being reviled in the gay community?

Yes.

 

[fernoca]

Camp is equated with femme, flamboyant, obvious. Sadly, these guys are pretty reviled by a large chunk of the gay community.

Oh! Yeah..darn. :/
Kinda weird, geeze. Though better than some of the "I'm a guy and I like guys so act like one!!" kind of posts.

Thanks for your advice. I'll update you after the party

Oh, you better!!
Hope things end in good terms; no matter what.

 

[Kyon]

Oh! Yeah..darn. :/
Kinda weird, geeze. Though better than some of the "I'm a guy and I like guys so act like one!!" kind of posts.


Oh, you better!!
Hope things end in good terms; no matter what.

:lol bios like that take up 80% of Grindr and most all other dating/hook up sites

 

[Sibylus]

Botolf was quite active...ivysaur too..

Still around, but yeah, nothing really to report on a relationship front. Still "in hiding", but I made a potential OKCupid friend-at-a-distance that likes to show me around League of Legends every now and then. That's about all I'm comfortable doing at the moment.

 

[Zalasta]

Second, friends on Okcupid, maybe. But on Grindr? LOL.

Even though I've only done the online dating thing for like a month, I've came to the realization that 90% of the profiles lie. People aren't really interested in chatting or being friends. It's just a ploy to widen their net while they pick and choose who they'll actually reply to. Do you know the sad truth? Most of them can't even carry a conversation for more than a few minutes.

Even those that have their status set to "partnered" or "committed", you'd think they are genuinely looking for friends. Yeah right...

 

[Alcoori]

Oh! Yeah..darn. :/
Kinda weird, geeze. Though better than some of the "I'm a guy and I like guys so act like one!!" kind of posts.


Oh, you better!!
Hope things end in good terms; no matter what.

Sadly when I was younger I used to be one of those people. Not the proudest time of my life but thankfully now I know better.
Most people who say they are masc aren't really anyway. In my experience they always have that way of talking or that type of body language that gives then away.
Last bf I had, at some point I told him that I liked his very gay way of using his hands while he was talking and he was like "WTF? I don't look gay at all!". Bitch, please.

 

[Erebus]

EDIT:
orioto was a regular too.

Rez too, I think.

 

[SpaceBridge]

Sadly when I was younger I used to be one of those people. Not the proudest time of my life but thankfully now I know better.
Most people who say they are masc aren't really anyway. In my experience they always have that way of talking or that type of body language that gives then away.
Last bf I had, at some point I told him that I liked his very gay way of using his hands while he was talking and he was like "WTF? I don't look gay at all!". Bitch, please.

Reminds sometimes when I used to go out, and see these uber muscled dudes with no shirts on, tatoos and goates, looking all butch, and then Id go chat with them and handbags and heels would fly outta their mouths. So funny.

 

[runlikehell]

Reminds sometimes when I used to go out, and see these uber muscled dudes with no shirts on, tatoos and goates, looking all butch, and then Id go chat with them and handbags and heels would fly outta their mouths. So funny.

Best mental image ever. :lol

 

[Cosmic Bus]

 

[SpaceBridge]

LOL. For the record, I never had a problem with it, it just seemed so odd, like those dudes were over compensating for something.

 

[fernoca]

Rez too, I think.

Yeah forgot Rez, I haven't seen him on the "other side" neither ..at least not recently.

Reminds sometimes when I used to go out, and see these uber muscled dudes with no shirts on, tatoos and goates, looking all butch, and then Id go chat with them and handbags and heels would fly outta their mouths. So funny.

Hahaha..sounds sexy though.
I have no problems, how anyone "acts" or "doesn't act";but it sucks when they demand others to be one way, even though they aren't. I know preferences and stuff; but t's weird when they go around saying "I'm a man and want a real man"; while behaving like a lady.

Or when then they tell me that "I should 'act' more gay". I mean, I'm not even "acting" while should I "act" either way. Is partly why I find the whole term of "straigth acting" just dubious. I know is a way for some to say to others "I'm not obvious"; but neither is "acting" since I'm not "pretending" to be one way or other.

Hahaha..that was so awesome.
GAY GAY GAY GAY..Oh my god, I open my mouth and a little purse falls out .
So awesome when the actor that did that is openly gay too. XD

 

[Alcoori]

You go girl.

 

[Phonomezer]

Nauseating.

 

[xelios]

Where's that gif where his mouth is hanging open, doing the haters gonna hate thing. That's even worse.

 

[btkadams]

this was seriously so funny in that episode.

 

[Granger Danger]

Nauseating.

 

[Phonomezer]

He has such an irritating face. I want to punch it.

 

[Kyon]

He has such an irritating face. I want to punch it.

Because he is feminine?

 

[TheSeks]

Because he is feminine?

That's the only thing that's annoying about him. He's cute, but so irritating on Glee. :/

 

[Kyon]

That's the only thing that's annoying about him. He's cute, but so irritating on Glee. :/

:lol I'm too busy dreaming about Blaine to curr. But Kurt would be cool to hang with

 

[Granger Danger]

:lol I'm too busy dreaming about Blaine to curr. But Kurt would be cool to hang with

You should come over so that we can play this:

 

[red13th]

I don't like the way he sings without showing his teeth, it makes me uncomfortable.

 

[ZephyrFate]

Because he is feminine?

I hate Kurt as a character. His femininity has nothing to do with it. Blaine is nothing more than super hot -- as a character he's just an insipid perfect 'gay fantasy'.

 

[ciD_Vain]

I don't like the way he sings without showing his teeth, it makes me uncomfortable.

LOL i never noticed, but now i can't unsee.

 

[SpaceBridge]

Ive never actually seen Glee before. Am I missing something?

 

[xelios]

Ive never actually seen Glee before. Am I missing something?

Not missing anything.

 

[Granger Danger]

I don't like the way he sings without showing his teeth, it makes me uncomfortable.

Teeth or no teeth, his mouth still manages to produce beautiful things so who really cares.

 

[SpaceBridge]

Not missing anything.

Didnt think so either.

 

[<+)O Robido O(+>]

Reminds sometimes when I used to go out, and see these uber muscled dudes with no shirts on, tatoos and goates, looking all butch, and then Id go chat with them and handbags and heels would fly outta their mouths. So funny.

I had to quit watching the behind the scenes of porn movies because of this. Lol.

 

[hateradio]

Teeth or no teeth, his mouth still manages to produce beautiful things so who really cares.

That was awful.
/me cringes

 

[Kyon]

I hate Kurt as a character. His femininity has nothing to do with it. Blaine is nothing more than super hot -- as a character he's just an insipid perfect 'gay fantasy'.

i know boo i think we talked about this before o.o or am i thinking of someone else?

You should come over so that we can play this:

im there! XD

 

[Escape Goat]

You should come over so that we can play this:

holy crap. theres no shame anymore. please tell me this is a photoshop.

 

[ZephyrFate]

It's Konami. They are going to whore the shit out of singing games.

 

[Freestyler]

That was awful.
/me cringes

You're awful.

I still cry every time I watch that scene.

 

[ZephyrFate]

You're awful.

I still cry every time I watch that scene.

hateradio

he's never happy.

 

[_Isaac]

They always seem to give him the most boring music.
Also did they get his little brother to play young Kurt because he looks just like him.

 

[Phonomezer]

That was awful.
/me cringes

Agreed. Cheesy and something only dogs should be able to hear.

Glee is the antithesis of any kind of musical creativity. I cannot stand it.

YEAH 2 MINUTES HATE

 

[Delio]

Kurt as a char is just annoying but the actor is hella cute (i'm attracted to that natural femmy cattyness of him.). Blaine is hot but way to perfect :/

 

[SpaceBridge]

I sent him a pretty long Facebook message... now it's just a waiting game. Yikes...

So? Any updates on this?

 

[Granger Danger]

They always seem to give him the most boring music.

Often, but not always

 

[Nazgul_Hunter]

So? Any updates on this?

Nada

 

[SpaceBridge]

Nada

He didnt respond to your facebook message?

 

[Nazgul_Hunter]

He didnt respond to your facebook message?

So far, he hasn't no

 

[ZephyrFate]

So far, he hasn't no

A shirtless pic might get his attention

(not serious)