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SpaceBridge said:
You look like a such a sweet guy Del. You look like you'd be awesome to hang with, on a bar patio, hot day, tall drinks, rating guys as they walked by, and criticizing tragic gay fashion.
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That's pretty much what i do. LOL only my fashion is horrid.
 
I wasn't complaining about the hats, I said he looks great with them; but he looks better without them. :p (and the pic confirms that, then again, that's how I like'em :p)

Anyway, been kinda away with my mom at the hospital since Wednesday, nothing biggie...but she needed a blood transfussion yesterday and wanted that I was there with her since it was the first time she recieves one. Started at 9PM and ended at 9AM; in case she needed help since she couldn't move during the process (well, barely).
 
fernoca said:
I wasn't complaining about the hats, I said he looks great with them; but he looks better without them. :p (and the pic confirms that, then again, that's how I like'em :p)

Anyway, been kinda away with my mom at the hospital since Wednesday, nothing biggie...but she needed a blood transfussion yesterday and wanted that I was there with her since it was the first time she recieves one. Started at 9PM and ended at 9AM; in case she needed help since she couldn't move during the process (well, barely).
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Hope all is well.
 
Anyone care about height when looking for a guy. Not that I try to search for guys of a certain height but short guys do it for me. Even today on the bus to the gym there was a hot short twink Latino guy, obviously gay, in a tight shirt and jeans and i could not help but think he was the most cute dude on the bus. I'm short myself averaging at 5'8" compared to regular guys though I seem to avoid taller guys. This is one of my many hangups about guys.

Delio, you seem like you would be a hot kisser.
 
neojubei said:
Anyone care about height when looking for a guy. Not that I try to search for guys of a certain height but short guys do it for me. Even today on the bus to the gym there was a hot short twink Latino guy, obviously gay, in a tight shirt and jeans and i could not help but think he was the most cute dude on the bus. I'm short myself averaging at 5'8" compared to regular guys though I seem to avoid taller guys. This is one of my many hangups about guys.
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I like guys of all heights. :3
 
neojubei said:
Anyone care about height when looking for a guy. Not that I try to search for guys of a certain height but short guys do it for me. Even today on the bus to the gym there was a hot short twink Latino guy, obviously gay, in a tight shirt and jeans and i could not help but think he was the most cute dude on the bus. I'm short myself averaging at 5'8" compared to regular guys though I seem to avoid taller guys. This is one of my many hangups about guys.

Delio, you seem like you would be a hot kisser.
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5'8" is short? D: I shouldn't have started drinking coffee at 8.
 
I don't mind. Tall, short, skinny, fat, shaved, hairy big, small; in my case is more about personality. I've seen some good looking tall guys, but so full of themselves that just that, makes them not attractive to me. Or some cute short chubby guys, but so arrogant that ..bleh!..

I know it sounds cliche or something, but is just that I'v tried looking for specific kind of guys and always ended disappointed, so guess I just want a nice "hello" and a box of chocolates. Heck, anyone that comes randomly to me with a Snickers = marriage proposal. XD


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I've been drinking coffee since very little and I ended at 5'9". Then again, I eat a lot and been weighing 130lbs since I was 13. :(
 
FUUUUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKK! just had the best night ever and the best part is it was so simple.
so anyway my boyfriend John and i dated a few months back and for some reason we lost touch for months, and today i texted him and i guess we had a communication error cause he thought i didnt want to talk to him and i thought he didnt want to talk to me, anyways he came over and we cuddled and wrestled and the other stuff couples do lol we watched Supernatural and Nikita, and he left and before he did i asked what we are and he said im still his, FUCK YEAH

AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH


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Kyon said:
FUUUUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKK! just had the best night ever and the best part is it was so simple.
so anyway my boyfriend John and i dated a few months back and for some reason we lost touch for months, and today i texted him and i guess we had a communication error cause he thought i didnt want to talk to him and i thought he didnt want to talk to me, anyways he came over and we cuddled and wrestled and the other stuff couples do lol we watched Supernatural and Nikita, and he left and before he did i asked what we are and he said im still his, FUCK YEAH

AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH


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The Broken Ska Record said:
*looks down*
Probably all areas.


Nah. I was half kidding. I think A LOT of caffeine will stunt your growth, but not an occasional cup.
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Well, I guess it's good that I don't drink caffeine then. ^_^
 
STRAIGHT(?) GUY HERE, PLEASE READ


I hope a close friend of mine (who is also an avid Neo_GAFFER) doesn't see this, but...

I'm not TOTALLY hetero. Who is?

Once I got drunk and let a [self-described] fairy queen guy blow me. I didn't finish. We ended up cuddling and sleeping in for about 7-8 hours. It was okay.

Recently, I had a bad couple of dates, and a gay friend came on to me. I ended up making out with him and let him blow me, and I jerked him a bit. As in the first situation, I was a little drunk, and that was that. Neither one of us got off.

However, the guy I hooked up with (Chuck) is in an open relationship with an older man (Jay) who I'm also friends with. He made a lot of allusions and jokes the last time we hung out together. Jay, the old man (who's in his mid-50's and the lover of Chuck) was staring at me intently the last time all of us hung out, like he knew what was going on or he was suspicious.

I think Jay suspects that Chuck and I did something. I can't tell if he's jealous or bemused.

Chuck, for his part, is almost complete transparent about the whole thing, and made sly (not blatant) allusions to us making out. I was mortified and pretended like everything was 'normal.'

Is this sort of teasing/duplicity commonplace among gay males? I know that hooking up with straight guys is supposed to be a major fantasy, but... if Jay found out, it could get around to other straight friends of mine, and well, you know...

I feel like Chuck is being careless - he sends me text messages all of the time about how he 'misses' me and whatnot. I also feel a bit objectified, like I'm some sort of joke, like Chuck is just messing about and showing off in front of Jay.

Is this common?
 
hateradio said:
How does that happen?
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it was weird, we went on this magical date one night and a few days later i text him and he didnt answer, but i called and texted a few days after and he still wouldnt answer, then after a few days he texted me saying "you arent mad?" and i was like huh? and we didnt talk for months lol was weird. but we're good now, just a communication error. communication is a big thing and can mess with a relationship. we dont fight or anything like that either.
 
Exclamation-One said:
Fuck off. Just about every gay friend I know talks about hooking up with a straight dude.
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Lol. Dream on. Btw, you're a little too gay for me.
 
It's anecdotal. Just speaking from experience.

Maybe that's just the line a bunch of gay dudes have used to try to hook up with me. I dunno.

Would appreciate some advice on my situation, though. I've identified as a bit 'bicurious' to friends, but this whole cat-and-mouse gamey thing has taken me by surprise.

I thought Chuck was discreet, but I get the feeling he told Jay about everything.
 
Exclamation-One said:
It's anecdotal. Just speaking from experience.

Maybe that's just the line a bunch of gay dudes have used to try to hook up with me. I dunno.

Would appreciate some advice on my situation, though. I've identified as a bit 'bicurious' to friends, but this whole cat-and-mouse gamey thing has taken me by surprise.

I thought Chuck was discreet, but I get the feeling he told Jay about everything.
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Maybe they have an open relationship. Why not just ask Chuck if he told Jay anything?
 
Exclamation-One said:
Fuck off. Just about every gay friend I know talks about hooking up with a straight dude.
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Here's your answer then. Yes, all gay guys are duplicitous and teases. We love getting straight guys drunk and blowing them. We highly regard straight semen as a sort of trophy. We love teasing our partners with our past relationships to make them jealous, especially when we have open relationships, which I might add are all our relationships because we have highly advanced sex drives that prevent us from committing. Its doubly sinister, if those past conquests are straight guys. We also cant be discreet, so we love to use social media to report on our conquests. Hooked up with a gay guy last night? Your cover is blown by 9am. This is quite common amongst us fairy queens.

Or maybe is just your gay friend and his old partner.
 
Marius_ said:
Lol, girl please.

Straight guys don't know how to handle the meat
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They're terrible at giving head. Not sure why anyone would want them.
 
neojubei said:
Anyone care about height when looking for a guy. Not that I try to search for guys of a certain height but short guys do it for me. Even today on the bus to the gym there was a hot short twink Latino guy, obviously gay, in a tight shirt and jeans and i could not help but think he was the most cute dude on the bus. I'm short myself averaging at 5'8" compared to regular guys though I seem to avoid taller guys. This is one of my many hangups about guys.

Delio, you seem like you would be a hot kisser.
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Oh dear. Well i have been complimented about my kissing skill. Hopefully the bf likes it when we meet. Also my bf is 5'5 and i'm 5'9 i'll have to pick his ass up off the ground.

Oh Kyon lovely!!
 
Exclamation-One said:
Is this sort of teasing/duplicity commonplace among gay males? I know that straight guys are the creme de le creme, but... if Jay found out, it could get around to other straight friends of mine, and well, you know...

I feel like Chuck is being careless - he sends me text messages all of the time about how he 'misses' me and whatnot. I also feel a bit objectified, like I'm some sort of joke, like Chuck is just messing about and showing off in front of Jay.

Is this common?
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It IS common, among many males (straight, gay, bi, etc.).
In the end, if you don't want others to know about something you do, then don't do it.

You knew they were together before getting involved; so it's also your fault.
 
MooMoo said:
Happy Birthday (again)! :3

And so much drama these past few pages lol.
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SpaceBridge said:
Happy Birthday xelios. Is it today? Or tomorrow. Let us know what presents you get.
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Thank you both so much! Yes and this is a very special birthday; who knows how many more I will have eh?

I will let you know what happens!
 
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